Abaningi bayazi ngalolu philo njengobuvila akusiyo inzwa, kodwa omunye umuntu uyalilahleka. Sikhuluma ngabantu abadinga usizo, abantu abakhohlwa ukusebenza emndenini, abangani, ezithakazelweni zangaphambili, abahambanga eholidini futhi bahlala ehhovisi. Futhi kulungile, uma lo muntu engumuntu onesizungu, kodwa kufanele akwenze uma umyeni engumuntu osebenza kahle: bonisa izingane ukuthi isithombe sakhe, futhi sibone kuphela ephusheni?
Ungaba kanjani umsebenzi osebenzayo?
Kulabo abanezigqila ezijwayelekile, lo mbuzo uzwakala, okungenani, okungajwayelekile. Ngendlela, ososayensi nabo bakholelwa ukuthi ukufuna izindlela zokuba yizigqila akuyona nje isiwula, kodwa futhi kuyingozi. Ngoba ukuzikhethela okunjalo komsebenzi kufana nokuxhomeka kotshwala noma izidakamizwa. Kungabhekwa njenge-neurosis, lapho indlela yodwa yokuziqhenya kungumsebenzi. Ngakho-ke, isifiso sokuba yisiqhwaga singenangqondo, uma ufuna ukufunda indlela yokusebenza kahle, udinga ukulwa nobudlova, futhi ujwayele ukusekela ukuphathwa kwesikhathi, futhi ungabeki ubhekwe eduze kwikhompyutha yakho yokusebenza.
Kuphi okuvela kuyo?
Kungani uqhuba impilo emsebenzini, uma kukhona umndeni, abangane nabaningi? Kodwa uma lokhu kungenjalo, kusele kuphela ukusebenza. Ngakho-ke, intombazane noma umfana oyedwa onethuba elingcono lokuba yi-workaholic kunomndeni.
Ngezinye izikhathi, umuntu usebenza kuphela ukuze azihlukanise nezinkinga ekuphileni kwakhe. Lesi sizathu sivame kakhulu owesifazane okhungathekile, ngoba abesifazane bavame ukubeka umndeni kuqala futhi, uma ungasebenzi, banike amandla onke ukusebenza. Ngakho-ke, uma umfazi ngokuzumayo eba yinkimbinkimbi, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisayo sokuthi umndeni awukonke ubushelelezi. Nanobe kukhona abesifazane abasebenza ngokuzikhandla abangenakukwenza lutho, benganikeli 100% kuwo. Njengoba befundiswa kusukela ebuntwaneni, babengabafundi abahle kakhulu enkulisa, esikoleni nasesikoleni, abakwazi ukuyeka impilo yabantu abadala futhi baqhubeke benza konke "5 +". Kuphela lokho kuyinkathazo - bayakwazi ukusebenza kahle, kodwa akekho oye wabafundisa ukwakha ubuhlobo, yingakho impilo yomndeni ingahambi kahle. Amadoda athambekele kakhulu ekusebenziseni ubuhlungu ngenxa yokuncintisana okuphakade, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuba ngowokuqala, futhi ukuze afike phezulu, udinga ukusebenza kanzima. Yilapho ukuphila kuphila, ehlezi ehhovisi, ukhohlwa ukuthi kunezinye izinto ezithakazelisayo. Kodwa-ke, asikwazi ukwehlisa isici sezimali kuphela. Uma udinga imali, futhi akekho ozolinda usizo, kufanele uthembele kuwe futhi usebenze, ukuthi kukhona amandla.
Yiqiniso, kukhona okunye okunye kuzo zonke lezi, uma enye ingxenye isebenza okuningi, izinkinga zekhaya nazo zingaphansi kakhulu.
Ungaphila nomuntu onesidakamizwa?
Ngendlela enokuthula, kufanele ucabange ukuthi uzokwenzani ngendoda yakho, lapho uzohlala nomuntu onjalo, ngoba ukuthembela akukwazanga ukuvela ngokuzumayo. Mhlawumbe, okuyingxenye yikho iphutha lakho - ukuzidela ngokuphelele ukusebenza, lapho konke kuhle kahle ekhaya. Yiqiniso, kunezikhathi lapho i-workaholic iyigcina lomlingisi, kepha umuntu onjalo endaweni enhle ekhaya uzothatha amaphepha abalulekile ekhaya ngaphandle kokuthi uzochitha ubusuku ehhovisi. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba usole umyeni wakho, hlola ukuziphatha kwakho, mhlawumbe wena ngokwakho uyamxosha ukuba afune induduzo emsebenzini wakhe.
Kodwa noma kunjalo, ukuxoxisana nomyeni osebenza ngokweqile, njengoba uzohlangana naye ekhaya, udinga. Ungaqali nje ngezinhlamba, ungaqali ama-scandals, zama nje ukuthola isizathu sangempela sokuzilibazisa okunjalo bese usikisela ukuthola isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi sokuhlanganyela. Mhlawumbe kuzoba lula ukuba uchithe ngempelasonto ndawonye, futhi isikhathi esithile u-workaholic uzokuzinikela ngokuphelele ukusebenza. Noma ungahle ulungise izici zokuphila kwakho kuwo. Cabanga ngeholide elihlangene , lapho kungeke kube khona indawo yokusebenza, isibonelo, indawo eyikude lapho kungekho uxhumano lweselula. Ungazami ukufundisa kabusha umuntu othembekile, ukuthembela okunjalo akunakuphulukiswa, ungachaza kuphela ukuthi ukunakekelwa kwakhe kuyadingeka kakhulu wena nabantwana.