Bathi umsebenzi owenzayo noma nje ufuna ukukwenza, ulethe kokubili ukwaneliseka kokuziphatha nokwenyama, kudingeka wenze lokho okuthandayo. Ingabe kunjalo? Ngeshwa, akuhlali njalo, kepha konke kusezandleni zakho; into esemqoka ukuqonda ukuthi ungayithola kanjani into oyithandayo ekuphileni.
Akusikho lokho kanzima
Kwenzeka ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukwenza okuthile, kubonakala sengathi awukwazi lutho futhi awukwazi lutho, kodwa akunjalo:
- azikho abantu abangenasidingo, ngakho okokuqala kudingeka ukhumbule ukuthi wazi ukuthi ungenzani, bese ubhala phansi ephepheni. Kungaba yindinganiso, ulwazi lokufunda nokusebenza kwengqondo, ikhono lokuhlanza ngokushesha futhi ngokucophelela, ukuqonda ubuciko bokuklanywa noma ukusebenza ngokuhlolwa, njll;
- Manje, ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungathola kanjani ibhizinisi oyithandayo, udinga nje ukushiya ohlwini lokho okuthandayo nokuthi yini ongayenza;
- Ekugcineni, kusukela esele ohlwini lwamacala udinga ukukhetha "kakhulu kakhulu".
Manje kufanele uziqonde ngokwakho: kusuka kokunye okusele futhi okuthandayo, ukuthi ungenzani "umphefumulo", okungukuthi, mahhala, noma ukhethe ikhono elizokusiza ukuthi uthole imali . Ngesikhathi esifanayo, khumbula ukuthi yimaphi amakhono onawo anokusiza kulokhu.
Uma usakungabaza amakhono akho, cela abangani bakho, izihlobo, abajwayelene nabo, futhi cishe bazokusiza uthole lezo zitalenta awunaki. Ngokuqinisekile bayothi uzokwazi ukwenza okusemandleni akho.
Ngokuvamile, noma ngabe usuvele uqonda ukuthi ungayithola kanjani into oyintandokazi, ukwesaba ukungakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu ongabazi, ukwesaba ukwehluleka noma ukwesaba ukuthi amakhono akho ngeke abe ochwepheshe njengoba ufuna, futhi angeke afuneke, ayeke futhi asabe. Izazi zengqondo zithi lobu buchopho abuvumeli ukushiya okuthiwa indawo yoduduzo, lapho kungekho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo nokukhathazeka ngakho, ngoba ibhizinisi lakhe liyinkimbinkimbi. Kodwa uma unqume ukushintsha impilo yakho, ungesabi ubunzima - impumelelo izoqinisekiswa.