Umshado wobulili obufanayo - ubuhle nobuqili

Imishado yongqingili yomsindo idala ukukhululwa komphakathi emphakathini wanamuhla, okusho ukuthi empeleni kubhekisela kubantu abesilisa nabesifazane. Imishado efanayo yobulili obufanayo esevele ijwayele eYurophu nase-US - kubantu abavamile kubangelwa ukuphikisana nokukhula kwabantu abokuzondla . Ukuvuma okungokwenkolo kubona ukugunyazwa kwezinyunyana zobulili obufanayo njengengozi ngqo esikhungweni somndeni wendabuko.

Umshado wobulili obufanayo usho ukuthini?

Umshado phakathi kwabantu abalingani bobulili obufanayo noma ubulili - ubizwa ngokuthi ubungqingili. Izikhundla zezenhlalakahle noma izindima zomyeni "nomfazi" emshadweni onjalo zithathelwa "oshade naye 1" futhi "oshade naye 2". Izinyunyana zobulili obufanayo zaqala ngokusemthethweni eNetherlands ngonyaka ka-2001. Umshado onjalo unomthwalo wonke wemithwalo yomthetho wendabuko:

• ilungelo lokuthenga impahla ehlanganisiwe;
• ukuhambisana nokuhlukanisa (kulawo mazwe lapho ukutholwa nokwakhiwa kwezingane kuvunyelwe kanye nokugunyazwa komshado);
• igama elivamile labantu ababili;
• umshuwalense wezokwelapha kanye nomphakathi;
• ilungelo lokuba umphathiswa womlingani kumabandla omphakathi ahlukahlukene.

Izinzuzo kanye nokuziqhenya komshado wama-gay

Noma yiluphi uhlobo, noma lubi futhi lubuhlungu emphakathini, lunemikhuba emihle futhi engalungile - ukugunyazwa kwemishado yobulili obufanayo, akunjalo. Kwakukhona njalo abantu, abambalwa babo, labo, ngenxa yezici zabo ezingenasici, abahluke kuningi, futhi bangenakuvinjelwa futhi bazalwa ngokobulili ngokobulili babo. Amazwe lapho imishado eyingqayizivele yemishado yobulili obufanayo yakhetha le ndlela. mhlawumbe ngezizathu ezinhle zomuntu, ukunqoba ukungalingani kwezenhlalo. Lokho okuzoholela emphakathini - kunemibuzo eminingi kunezimpendulo.

Imishado yobulili bobulili obufanayo, ama-pluses (okusobala kulabo abashade nabo):

• abantu bobulili obufanayo baqondana kangcono kangcono, inyunyana enamandla esekelwe ekuqondeni kokubili kungenzeka;
• Umshado wezomthetho unika ilungelo lokuqasha imibhangqwana engqingili nobungqingili ukulahla impahla ehlangene, ukuqhuba ibhizinisi;
• ukungabikho kobandlululo olusekelwe ngokobulili, njengoba kunjalo njalo emindenini yocansi;
• ukugcinwa ekhabethe kanye nokushintshaniswa kwezingubo.

Amaminithi wezinyunyana zobulili obufanayo:

1. Ukuhlaselwa ngumphakathi ongqingili, ngezinye izikhathi kubangele ukuzonda nokusetshenziswa kobudlova.
2. Ukungaqondakali ekukhulisweni kwezingane, ngubani ongazakhela ukuzithokozisa ngokobulili okungamanga nokuhlambalaza yingxenye yezingane ezivela emindenini egcwele, lokhu kuyoholela ekudakaleni kwengqondo, ukwakheka kwezinkimbinkimbi kanye neurosis.

Kungani kusemthethweni umshado wobulili obufanayo?

Umphakathi wendabuko wobulili obuhlukile ekuqalisweni komshado wobulili obufanayo ubheka ukulahlwa nokwesaba ikusasa lezizwe. Kungani imishado yobungqingili, lo mbuzo uhulumeni nabantu bezwe ngalinye banombono wawo siqu, kodwa ngokuvamile, izizathu zilandelayo:

• ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu abangabesilisa abancane ngokobulili bafanelwe amalungelo afanayo emishadweni yomthetho njengabo bonke abanye;
• ukulwa nokucwaswa kwabantu, ukubandlulula nokucwaswa .

Imishado yobulili obufanayo ngo-Orthodoxy

Imishado engavunyelwanga eBhayibhelini ibhekwa njengento engavumelekile futhi ubuhlobo phakathi kwabameleli bobulili obufanayo buyisono futhi buyalahlwa. Imiyalo kaMose kuLevitikusi ibhekisela ezenzweni zobungqingili ngokuthi "amasiko enyanyekayo namabi." UbuKristu Bama-Orthodox banamuhla, kungani imishado yobungqingili ivunyelwe? Kunezizathu eziningi zalokhu:

1. Isipho soMdali kwakungukudala abantu bezocansi ezahlukene: amadoda nabesifazane.
2. I-union conjugal ihlanganisa intando yokuqala yoMdali: ukuqhubeka nokwandiswa kohlanga lwesintu (abalingani bobulili obufanayo abangeke bakwazi ukuthola injongo kaNkulunkulu, ukukhulelwa).
3. Ukuhlangana komuntu wesifazane nowesifazane akuyona nje ukuhluka komzimba, kodwa futhi imifanekiso ehlukene iyahambisana nomshado (emishadweni efanayo yobulili akukho ukuhambisana.

Imishado yobulili obufanayo ngo-Islam

Imishado engavunyelwanga kanye nesonto yizimiso ezingavumelani. Umshado wendabuko ophakathi komuntu nowesifazane ungcwele futhi uyamjabulisa ku-Allah. Ubungqingili kanye nobungqingili e-Islam bajeziswa ngokujeziswa, kuze kube sesikweni sokufa (isibonelo, ukushiya izakhiwo eziphakeme, ukukhanda ngamatshe ngesihluku), emazweni afana nalokhu:

• I-Iran;
• I-Afghanistan;
• ISudan;
• I-Saudi Arabia;
• ENigeria.

Ukuze ugweme ukusakazwa kobulili obufanayo, kuneziqondiso eziqinile:

• izingane (abafana namantombazane) abaneminyaka engama-7 akufanele balale embhedeni owodwa;
• Amadoda akufanele awakane emhlathini (ukukhandla ngezandla kuvunyelwe futhi ukumanga komuntu omdala);
• akunakwenzeka ukuhlala endaweni eyodwa namadoda avuthiwe anesilisa abasha abasenaso izitshalo ebusweni babo;
• avunyelwe ukubuka amafilimu e-pornography nokufunda izincwadi zezihloko zobungqingili.

Imishado yobulili obufanayo emhlabeni

Lapho imishado yocansi efana nayo ivunyelwe - abantu abaningi abazizwa behluke ngabalingani bobulili obuhlukile banesithakazelo kule nkinga. Uhlu lwamazwe lapho ukugunyazwa kwamanyano obulili obufanayo banda ukwanda minyaka yonke. Abashadile emishadweni enjalo banelungelo kuzo zonke izinzuzo kanye namalungelo omphakathi, njengenhlangano yendabuko, inyunyana. Kuphi amazwe amazwe avumelekile ukushada gay (phezulu-10):

• I-Netherlands (2001);
• I-Norway (2008);
• ISweden (2009);
• I-Mexico (2009);
• I-Argentina (2010);
• I-Brazil (2011);
• I-Denmark (2012);
• I-France (2013);
• I-United States (2015);
• I-Germany (2017).

Imishado engavunyelwanga eRussia

Ingabe imishado yobungqingili ivunyelwe eRussia - impendulo iwukuthi "cha" ngokungaqondile. I-Russia lizwe elinamasiko amakhulu kanye nezisekelo, phakathi kwawo umqondo womndeni ongashintshi kakhulu. Ubuhlobo bomshado ku-Russian Federation bulawulwa umthetho, futhi busekelwe ekuvumelaneni ngokuzithandela kwamadoda nabesifazane abashadile. Abanye abantu abanezinkolelo ezingezona zendabuko bazama ukushada ensimini yombuso wesinye isizwe, futhi uma lokhu kungumlingani ovamile, kubhekwa njengento evumelekile, kodwa umshado wobulili obufanayo - ngeke ube nomthetho wezomthetho.

Imishado yobulili obufanayo e-US

Uma ukhumbule ukudlulela kwamuva kweMelika, ubudlelwane obungavumelani nabo babeshushiswa ngamaphoyisa, futhi mayelana nemishado yobulili obufanayo kanye nenkulumo ayikwazanga. Ubungqingili babanjwe ezikhungweni zomphakathi futhi amahhotela athathwa isijeziso sobugebengu nokuhlazeka emphakathini. Uhlu lwabikwa esidlangalaleni, abantu balahlekelwa idumela, umsebenzi, isimo sezenhlalakahle nokusekelwa kwezihlobo zabo. Kuphela kuphela ekupheleni kwekhulu lama-20. emphakathini, okuthiwa "ukubambisana kwasekhaya" kwakhiwe - umshado ongahlelekile. Ukuqinisekiswa kwemishado yobulili obufanayo e-USA kwaqedwa ngokuphelele kuwo wonke ama-50 ngoJuni 26, 2015.

Imishado yobulili obufanayo eJapane

Kulo mbuzo, lapho amazwe asetshenziselwa khona imishado ehlukile yobulili obufanayo ngaphandle kwe-United States, ungabiza ngokuphepha iJapane, noma kunalokho inhloko-dolobha - iTokyo. Ukujabula kwama-gays aseJapane akuzange kubangele osombusazwe abanokuzimela futhi kuze kube sekugcineni baphikisane nento enjalo njengemishado engalingani ngokobulili obufanayo. IJapane izama ukuhambisana ne-America futhi ixazulule kanye nhlobo inkinga yokucwaswa ngokumelene nobulili-amancane ngokubhalisa izinyunyana ezinjalo ngokuhambisana nezendabuko.

Imishado yobulili bobulili obufanayo eJalimane

Ukuqinisekiswa kwemishado yobulili bobulili obufanayo eJalimane kuzokwenzeka ngo-Okthoba 2017. Ngesikhathi samanje, izinyunyana zomphakathi ezifanayo noma ukusebenzisana kuvunyelwe, imvume eyamukelwa ngo-2001. Abantu baseJalimane phakathi kwama-83% bavotela inkululeko ekukhetheni umlingani kunoma yiliphi ubulili futhi baphetha umshado naye. Iqiniso elithakazelisayo ngukuthi uChansela Angela Merkel isikhathi eside wayebhekene nemiphakathi ye-LGBT kanye nezinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ivoti lamukele ukutholwa kwalo mthethosivivinywa, eholwa ukuthi inyunyana yendabuko iyindoda nowesifazane.

Imishado engavunyelwanga eFrance

Amazwe lapho imishado yobungqingili evunyelwe ihlale igcwaliswa. I-France yanquma le nkinga emuva ngo-May 2013. UMengameli Francois Hollande ukhethe lokhu njengesici esibalulekile ngokulingana nokuqaliswa kwezinye izinguquko zomphakathi. Abangaphezu kwesigamu sabahlali basekela ukwamukelwa komthetho. Imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo yanikezwa imvume yokwamukela nokukhulisa izingane, ngokungafani namanye amazwe aseYurophu, lapho ukushada kwemishado engakaze ibe khona. Ukwamukelwa komthetho kwakwandisa ukuthambekela kobudlova kwabangqingili, okwaholela ekutheni kube nengxenye enkulu yodlame olulwa nabalingqingili.

Imishado yobulili obufanayo iyabantu abadumile

Ukusuka ngaphandle kubonakala sengathi i-whim noma indlela yokuvusa, bangela isithakazelo kumuntu siqu ... kodwa nokho kungaba uthando, nakuba kungenakuqondakala kubantu abaningi benkambiso yendabuko. Imishado ethandanayo yobulili obufanayo phakathi kwabantu abashadile, abangazange baqaphele inhlebo, baqopha ubuhlobo babo ngokomthetho futhi baphile ndawonye isikhathi eside futhi bejabule:

1. U-Elton John noDavid Furnish . Le mbhangqwana ibe ndawonye iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-17. U-Elton wasiza uDavid ukuqeda utshwala futhi ebheka umqondisi wakhe okhethiwe uDavide umuntu oqotho kakhulu emhlabeni.
2. URichard Chamberlain noMartin Rabbett . Le nyunyana yahlala iminyaka engu-34. Umdlali ovelele owadlala kumafilimu "Shogun" nangokuthi "Ukuhlabelela emineni" ngobuningi bakhe kwavusa izinhliziyo zabesifazane. URichard waphoqeleka ukufihla ubuhlobo bakhe noMartin isikhathi eside, njengoba umsebenzi wakhe uzophela. Manje, ekhumbula umhlangano wakhe wokuqala nomuntu othandekayo, uRichard uthi lokhu kuyisinqumo sakhe esifanele kakhulu.
3. UHelen DeGenereris noPortia de Rossi . Umethuli we-TV owaziwayo nomlingisi womshado iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-6 bese ucabanga ngenzalo.
4. UJodie Foster no-Alexandra Hedison . Ekuqondeni kwakhe, umdlali wezandla wamukelwa emuva ngo-2007. U-Roman Jody nomthwebuli wezithombe odumile u-Alexandra Hedison waqala ngo-2013 futhi waqhubeka unyaka, ngemva kwalokho umbhangqwana wasemthethweni ubuhlobo bawo.
5. UTom Ford noRichard Barkley . Le nyunyana yomklami odumile kanye nomhleli iminyaka engu-23 yahlupheka kakhulu, isifo esikhulu kunawo wonke esiyi-Richard's.