Ngokuqinisekile uzwile kaningi, lapho abesifazane bethi phakathi kwabo: "Ungumuntu othakazelisayo kangaka!". Ngokushesha kunomqondo wokuthi sikhuluma ngomuntu okhangayo, oqhakazile. Futhi lisho ukuthini leli gama?
Kusho ukuthini "indoda emangalisayo"?
Le nkulumo ikhanya kakhulu futhi izama, ngokwayo, iveza izithombe ezihlukahlukene ezimnandi emqondweni wesifazane. Uma ubheka isichazamazwi bese ubona incazelo yamagama athi "Akunakwenzeka umuntu", khona-ke konke kuzokwenziwa ngesikhathi esisodwa. Isichazamazwi segama elithi "umuntu" sesivele sisaziwa, kodwa "okumangalisayo" okufika ngesiRussia kusukela esiFulentshi esithintekayo kusho okuthakazelisayo, okuthakazelisayo, enhle, ehlekayo, enhle, ekhangayo futhi ehlaba umxhwele. Kukhona nesibonakaliso sokuthi lesi siphakamiso ngokuvamile sinquma uhlobo lokubukeka kwamadoda, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi sidluliselwa kwezinye izinto.
Cishe lokhu kuvezwa kukhiqizwa yili gama, ngisho noma ungazange ukwazi kahle isichazamazwi salo. Ekhuluma ngomuntu othakazelisayo, sisho umuntu okhangayo, okhanyayo, ophumelelayo.
Kodwa-ke, ezweni lanamuhla, embuzweni wokuthi umuntu othakazelisayo usho ukuthini, kungase kube namapaki. Phela, umqondo wokuthi umuntu ohloniphekile, onhle kakhulu kufanele abukeke kanjani, futhi uguquke nesikhathi.
Umuntu Ongenakwenzeka Ngamanje
Ngakho, khumbula futhi ukuthi inkulumo yethu ibhekisela kumuntu onikezwe izimfanelo ezilandelayo: ezithakazelisayo, ezithandekayo, ezinhle, ezithandekayo, ezinhle, ezikhangayo, ezinikeza umbono.
Uma umenywa ukuba ulethe indoda ekhuthele, uthi, ngekhulu le-19, ngubani oyomele? Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba uhlobo oluthi "dandy", njengo-Eugene Onegin, onguhloniphekile, akasebenzi, uchitha izinsuku zakhe ngokuzijabulisa kanye namabhola, wafundiswa, njengoba kwakunjalo nesikhulu sekhulu le-19. Uhle, ukhangele, unhle, futhi uhloniphekile.
Futhi kuthiwani ngomuntu othakazelisayo oneminyaka yethu? Siyathandekayo futhi siyathakazelisa, siyaqhubeka sicabangela abethuli bethelevishini, abadlali nabaculi, kodwa akubona bonke abantu abavela kulezi zigaba abangabizwa ngokuthi abamele. Sibheka abaphathi abaphezulu, izinhloko zezinkampani, abaphathi, izikhulu eziphezulu eziphezulu kanye nabaholi ukuba babe abantu abahloniphekile, kodwa asizitholi konke okuthakazelisayo.
Inkinga elandelayo ihambisana nobuhle: ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu onhle kakhulu ugqoke ngesitayela sobuciko, futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi, akayena ohlukile kumathenda emfashini. Namuhla lezi zici ezithile zihlukanisa kakhulu, futhi akucaci ukuthi ubani ohlaba umxhwele - lowo owugqoke kakhulu owubiza ngokweqile, noma ogqoka kuphela izinto zegama lomkhiqizo wezentengiselwano, ngamunye
Noma kunjalo, ubani okufanele ucabange lapho uzwa "umuntu othakazelisayo"? Kuzoba ngumuntu, cishe, osemdala kuneminyaka engu-25-30, egqoke ngokuqinile, kodwa ngempela ngokunambitheka, ezintweni eziphezulu, ukubukeka okukhangayo, okukhunjulwayo, okukhangayo ekukhulumisaneni futhi, cishe, ukubeka isikhundla esithile esihloniphekile. Vumelanisa, esikhathini sethu, lapho imali ingakwazi ukunquma isimo sengqondo ngomuntu, kunzima ukucabanga ngomcibisholo wesilisa othakazelisayo.