Amantombazane amaningi emva kokuhlukana kokuqala nokudumazeka, futhi ngemva kwesikhashana kukhona isifiso sokuphindiselela konke okuye kwadlula. Izinhlelo ezinjalo zokuziphindiselela zihlala zithatha ngokuphelele ikhanda futhi amanye ama-brooches asathuthela esenzweni esisebenzayo.
Namuhla ungathola inombolo enkulu yezindaba, njengalokhu noma le ntombazanyana iphindiselela umfana ngenxa yokuhlubuka, ukubukela izithombe ezingcolile nezinye izono. Izazi zengqondo zithi lezi zinkimbinkimbi azifaneli ukuba ziyiqiniso, ngoba kungcono ukwenza ngokusebenzayo.
Yeka ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuziphindiselela ku-isoka langaphambili?
Ngaphambi kokucabangela imibono ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabesifazane, ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukucabangela ukubonakala kwesenzo somuntu esangaphambili sothando, okungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu, ngakho ungadluli.
Yeka ukuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuziphindiselela kumfana:
- Abesifazane abaningi banquma ukuphazamisa "ithoyizi" ethandekayo yomuntu owayengumthandi, isibonelo, ukulimaza imoto yakhe. Ungalokothi uthathe kancane, njengoba kukwanele ukuthulula i-valerian hood noma uthele imbewu ukuze ukhonze amajuba.
- Ungagibela idumela lakhe. Kubalulekile ukutshela abangane abaningana mayelana nanoma yiziphi izinto ezingathandeki ezihlobene nomthandi wangaphambili, bese "igama lomlomo" lizokwenza umsebenzi walo.
- Abesifazane abaningi banquma ukwenza umhawu nokudukisa abangane abaseduze noma abajwayele ukujwayele. Kule ndaba, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuthi ungadlala nemizwa yomunye umuntu, njengoba umuntu engakwazi ukuziphindisela.
- Ufuna ukunqanda umuntu owake wangena esikhundleni sokuphumula izinsuku eziningana, ngakho-ke kumithombo yokukhangisa ubeka izikhangiso ezihlukene, okubonisa inombolo yakhe yocingo.
- Indlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi engcono kakhulu yokuziphindiselela ku-isoka yangaphambili ukuyenza izisole ukuthi ikulahlekile. Yiya izinguquko eziyisisekelo, futhi lokhu kusebenza kokubili ukubukeka nokugcwaliswa kwangaphakathi. Yiba yinto enhle kuye, futhi ake amlenze izimbambo zakhe, ukuthi ulahlekelwe idayimane elinjalo.