Ingabe uphupha ukuthola umlingani wakho womphefumulo? Thola umndeni uphinde uphile ngokujabulisayo njalo emva kwendoda yakho ethandekayo? Uke wazama konke ongakwenza - kusuka kumasayithi okupholisa okuyimpumputhe kuya ezinsukwini eziyimpumputhe, kepha awukaze uhlangabezane nomphefumulo wakho womshado? Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukhethe isu elingalungile. Ukuqinisekiswa kokuheha amadoda yilokho okudingayo.
Ukuqinisekiswa yizinkulumo okudingeka uzisho kuwe izikhathi ezimbalwa ngosuku ngalunye. Ukuqinisekiswa kungashintsha indlela yakho yokucabanga futhi kwandise ukuzethemba kwakho . Ukuphinda lokhu noma leyo nkulumo nsuku zonke, ingqondo yakho engacabangi kancane kancane iyithatha ukuze kube yinto engokoqobo, futhi ngokungazi kahle uqala ukuyikholelwa.
Ukuqinisekiswa komshado
Ukuze ukhange uthando empilweni yakho udinga ukusebenza, ngaphezu kwalokho, umsebenzi walolu hlobo akudingi amandla amancane. Ukuqinisekiswa komshado kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi elula yokulungiselela umhlangano nomuntu ozoshada naye, njengoba kuzokwenza ngcono izimfanelo zakho, futhi ubeke isimo sengqondo esibi ngemicabango emihle, ngaleyo ndlela ukhange amathuba amasha empilweni yakho.
Ngothando lokungena empilweni yakho, sebenzisa iziqinisekiso zomshado. Okuphumelela kakhulu yiziqinisekiso ezikufanele wena, okungukuthi, akufanele nje zikhishwe ngekhanda amagama angeke akhulume kuwe noma yimiphi imizwelo, kodwa lawo mazwi avuselela engqondweni yakho injabulo nenjabulo yothando olungathandeki. Ngakho-ke, ungakwazi kalula ukudala ukuqinisekiswa ngokwakho. Uma uqinisekile ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nalo msebenzi, ukuqinisekiswa okukhona kuzokusiza, ongakhetha kukho ohlwini olulandelayo:
- Ngizohlangana nendoda enhle;
- Ngamukela ngokubonga futhi nginikeza uthando;
- Ngivumela impilo yami uthando lokuthandana nothando;
- Ngikhanga uthando nokuphindaphindiwe;
- inhliziyo yami ivulekile ukuthanda.
Ukunquma ukuthi ungadonsela kanjani umuntu empilweni yakhe futhi umshade naye, empeleni, ukuqinisekiswa komyeni wakhe kuphela ngeke kube okwanele, ngakho-ke yenza isenzo. Siza indawo yonke igcwalise isifiso sakho, vakashela njalo izindawo ezinabantu abaningi, yenza uhlu lwezinketho zokuthandana nomlingani ozayo futhi uhambe njalo ezindaweni lapho kunethuba lokuhlangana nomngane wakho womshado.
Ukuqinisekiswa kobudlelwane kuzokusiza ukuba uvumelane ngokomzwelo ngendlela efanele, uzizwe injabulo nothando oludlula izinhliziyo zothando, futhi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzobe uhlangabezana nokuhle kwakho.