Owesifazane - ukubonakaliswa kokuthula, ububele nothando. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungamthandi owesifazane. Konke kuhle kuyo - kokubili ukuziphatha okunengqondo, nokubekezela okungapheli, nokuzwela kwangempela. Amadoda ayasihlonipha, owesifazane udinga indoda efana nomoya. Futhi kuthiwani uma owesifazane ethanda owesifazane? Ungaba kanjani uma uthando lwenzeka phakathi kwabesifazane ababili? Ukubonakalisa okunjalo kwemizwa kubangela ukusabela okuhluke kakhulu emphakathini. Lapha, njengoba besho, musa ukwahlulela abanye ...
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Umphefumulo udinga indoda. Iqiniso, inamandla, inqume futhi inakekelwa. Ngakho kuthiwani uma lawo madoda engenawo okwanele. Akunandaba ukuthi badilizile, sizobe silinde. Ngokwemfundiso, leli themba alikwesabisi nhlobo. Kodwa uma kuziwa ukwenza, isimo sishintsha kakhulu. Ukudumazeka kaningi ebuhlotsheni nomuntu, ukwehluleka ukukhetha indoda, ukungabi khona kwendoda ethembekile eceleni kwakhe - zonke lezi zimo azimisa owesifazane ekusesheni kwakhe. Nje "imingcele" yalokhu kusesha kufanele ilungiswe. Futhi empilweni kwenzeka ukuthi yilo wesifazane oba yinto ethandwayo yowesifazane othile.
Okwenza abesifazane bathandane - impendulo yalo mbuzo ikhona ekuziphatheni nasezindabeni. Uma ubheka imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo, ungakwazi ukulandela umkhuba othile: ku-pair + ye-F + F, njengomthetho, umlingani oyedwa unomuntu "wesilisa" wobulili, kanti enye isifazane wesifazane futhi iyinkimbinkimbi. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi owesifazane owambonile ngobunye besifazane wesifazane, ukuzimisela, isibindi, angayitholanga kumuntu, uqala ukondla imizwa yakhe nethemba lokuthola injabulo eceleni kwakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uthando lwabesifazane ababili luvela ngesifiso somunye wabo wokunakekela umlingani obuthakathaka. Ezwa induku ethile "yamadoda", owesifazane uthandana nomuntu onjengoba owesifazane noma owesifazane. Noma kunjalo, impendulo yombuzo wokuthi kungani abesifazane bathanda abesifazane basondelene kakhulu nokukhuliswa kwabo, ukuphathwa kwengqondo nokuziphatha ngokocansi. Akulungile ukubiza ukuthambekela kokumele abamele ukuhlukana kobulili. Mhlawumbe kulungile
Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bangaba nobuhlobo obuseduze, ubuhlobo obuseduze, futhi esikhathini esizayo balondoloze ubuhlobo obuhle ngaphandle kokuba namahloni ngalokho okwakungaphakathi kwabo. Lokhu kuphinda kuchazwe ubulili besifazane kanye nesifiso. Owesifazane ufuna injabulo nomlingani ofanayo onothando nesithandwa, ngoba "owesifazane". Ukubonakaliswa kobuthakathaka akuyona into engavamile kumuntu nomphakathi akuvunyelwe. Ngakho-ke, ngokwezengqondo owesifazane akanayo izithiyo eziningi zokunquma ubudlelwano bobulili obufanayo.
Lowo ophethe isitatimende esilandelayo, ngokuqondile wathi: "Sithandana nomuntu, hhayi ngobulili bakhe."