Umbuzo omdala ubudala "Ubani ohlakaniphile kunabesilisa noma abesifazane?" Ikhuthaza izingqondo ezidumile, futhi ezingaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka lizama ukuthola impendulo kulo. Ososayensi bakwazi ukuthola ukuthi ubuchopho besilisa nabesifazane basebenza ngendlela efanayo, ngakho-ke amakhono abo engqondo afana. Noma kunjalo ubani onokuqonda kunabantu noma abesifazane? Ake sicabange ngalolu daba ndawonye.
Kungani amadoda ehlakaniphile kunabesifazane?
Mhlawumbe akekho umuntu onjalo emhlabeni ongayikuphikisa ukuthi uhlakaniphile. Futhi abaxhasi abaningi balo mbono babhekisela eqinisweni lesayensi njengesibonelo: bathi i-volume evamile yobuchopho bomuntu kaningi kaningi kunowesifazane. Yiqiniso, akusizi ngalutho ukuphikisana nalokhu kwedatha, ngoba empeleni ubuchopho bomuntu bukhulu, kodwa abuhlakanili kulokhu. Ubukhulu bobuchopho abuphazamisi nhlobo ikhono lokucabanga. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ivolumu yobuchopho, isibonelo, indlovu kaningi izikhathi ezinkulu kunomuntu, kodwa, nokho, indlovu ayikwazi ukucabanga.
Yiqiniso, ezimweni eziningi, amadoda anenhlakanipho kunabesifazane. Futhi isizathu esiyinhloko somqondo ovamile wesigamu esiphezulu sabantu akuyona imizwa enjalo. Akusilo lutho ukuthi isaga esaziwayo sithi: "Indoda iyinhloko, futhi owesifazane uyintamo. Lapho intamo iphenduka khona, kukhona khona ikhanda futhi ubheke. " Intamo iyophendulela, futhi ikhanda lilahla imizwelo lizokwenza kahle.
Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwakho konke okukhulunywe ngenhla emphakathini wamanje kukhona olunye uhlobo lwemibhangqwana - indoda ehlakaniphile yindoda eyisiphukuphuku. Ngeshwa, njengomthetho, ubudlelwane obunjalo abuhlali isikhathi eside. Indoda ehlakaniphile elandelayo iyadingeka, uma ingekho ngisho nehlakaniphile, okungenani owesifazane ohlakaniphile. Akekho umuntu ohlakaniphile ozonakekela owesifazane oyisiphukuphuku isikhathi eside. Njengomthetho, imibhangqwana enjalo yenziwa kuphela ngenxa yobuhlobo bobulili. Indoda ithanda ukudlala "i-papika" futhi igcwalise zonke izifiso 'zedoli' yakhe, kodwa ngokushesha noma esikhathini esizayo ihlupha kuphela ukunikeza, ukuthola ngokushintshanisa ubulili kuphela, futhi iya kumuntu ohlakaniphile, ofundisiwe.
Ubani ohlakaniphile kunomuntu noma owesifazane?
Isaga esaziwa sonke sibhekisela ukuthi ngokugcwele ubulili abuyunikeli umgqozi wengqondo. Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane bafana, ngakho-ke ukusho ukuthi othile uhlakaniphile - ngokubanzi, uyisiphukuphuku. Lapha yonke into iyodwa. Phakathi kwamadoda, kanye nakwabesifazane, kukhona abamele, ukubeka ngomoya omnene, unganikezwa ngamakhono engqondo. Kodwa asibizi zonke lezo ziphukuphuku. Ngakho impendulo yethu embuzweni: "Ubani ohlakaniphile?" Ingabe ukungabi nalutho - amadoda nabesifazane balingana.
Kungani abesifazane behlakaniphile?
Abamele abaningi besilisa ocansini bakholelwa ukuthi owesifazane kufanele ahole indoda, futhi uma enza izinqumo, owesifazane uhlakaniphile. Futhi ngezinga elithile lokhu kulungile. Kodwa-ke, owesifazane ohlakaniphile akasoze ambule indoda yakhe ngokukhanya okubi, futhi ngeke ambonise ubukhali bomqondo wesifazane. Khumbula leli zwi: "Ngaphambi kwendoda ephumelelayo yindoda ehlakaniphile". Futhi eqinisweni, kuyiqiniso. Indoda enesifazane oyisiwula ngemuva kwayo akufanele iphumelele. Uzohlala emdonsa
Emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka, abesifazane basemva kwethu, besiza amadoda ukuba azizwe ahlakaniphile futhi ahlakaniphile, uthi, "Kungani uhlala emthunzini uma ngihlakaniphile?", Futhi-ke, othandekayo wami, ukuthi umyeni kufanele akuthwale ezandleni zakhe. Indoda enomfazi onakekelayo futhi ohlakaniphile ngemuva kwamahlombe akhe ngeke abheke abanye besifazane, kuphela wena oyohlala esihlalweni sakhe sobukhosi. Futhi yini enye edingekayo ukuze injabulo yowesifazane nje yowesifazane ohlakaniphile nohlakaniphile?