Uma owesifazane ephakamisa umbuzo wokuthi ungakhetha kanjani omunye wamadoda amabili owodwa - ke akekho noyedwa kubo oqinisekisiwe. Insizwa edinga wena, ngeke ikubekezelele futhi icabangele omunye ozobhapathizwa. Qonda ukuthi uma uthanda ngempela - akudingeki ukhethe! Cabanga ngalokhu uma wenza isinqumo ...
Yini amadoda abakhetha abesifazane?
Kuyo yonke iminyaka, owesifazane kwakudingeka acabange ukuthi iyiphi indoda okufanele ayikhethe. Kodwa ngaphambilini kwakungelula kakhulu, kwasizwa ukwenza lokhu kube nzima ukukhetha. Isibonelo, uma kukhona umbuzo mayelana nokuthi ungakhetha kanjani umuntu ofanelekayo, khona-ke ukulwa kwahlelwa, futhi okungcono kwakuwunqobile. Manje, nalokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu - lona wesifazane naye kufanele azenzele ukuthi ngubani ongakhetha kumadoda. Kodwa lesi simiso sihlala sinjalo: imvelo yukuthi owesifazane uzifunela efaneleka kakhulu ekudalweni komndeni. Lokhu kwenzeka ezingeni elingenakuqonda. Ukhetha ephilile kakhulu futhi enokwethenjelwa.
Ungakhetha kanjani indoda yakho?
Phendula ngobuqotho:
- Yini indoda yakho eyifunayo?
- Ungamnika yona?
- Yini ayilindele ebuhlotsheni?
- Ingabe kufana nokulingana okulindelekile nokwakho?
- Uhlobo luni lwesifazane ayidingayo?
- Ingabe uhlangabezana nezidingo zalo?
- Uzozama ukuzifundisa kulokhu?
- Ingabe uyakuhlonipha?
- Uzizwa kanjani ngaye?
- Ingabe uyakwamukela ukwehluleka kwakho?
- Ungakwazi yini ukubekezelela lezo zimfanelo ezingamthandi?
- Ingabe uzomsiza kukho konke?
- Ingabe uzobe nesineke nomakhethi wakho?
- Ungakwazi yini ukudela okuthile ngenxa yalowo muntu?
- Ungakwazi yini ukuxazulula izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi kanye naye futhi uthole ukulinganisa?
- Ingabe uyakwazi ukukuzwa nezifiso zakho?
- Uthembekile naye?
- Ingabe uzoba yindoda ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe?
- Futhi yedwa kuphela?
- Ingabe lizinzile?
- Ungakwazi yini ukusebenza kanzima ukuze uhlale umangalisa futhi umkhuthaze?
- Njalo ujabulise ukuze ubuhlobo bakho bungabe buwohloka?
- Ingabe kukhona ukuhlakanipha kuwo?
- Ingabe angenza izinqumo zakhe?
- Ingabe angacabanga ngomuntu ngaphandle kwakhe?
- Ukuthanda umuntu ngobuqotho kodwa wena ngokwakho?
- Ungathanda ukumjabulisa?
- Futhi wena?
- Ingabe uzokwenza konke lokhu?
- Ingabe ufuna ukumnika ngokukhululekile uthando lwakho?
- Uyakwazi yini ukwamukela ngezinombolo ezinjalo?
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umuntu ofanele, khumbula - lalela inhliziyo kuphela!