Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane buhamba ngezigaba eziningana, ezilandelanayo ngokulandelana okucacisiwe. Futhi, njengoba ososayensi babonisile, akekho ongadlula izinyathelo zokungqubuzana zobudlelwane phakathi kwebhangqa. Omunye umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba lezi zigaba, ukugwema ukulahlekelwa.
Izinyathelo zokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nentombazane
Isigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane phakathi komfana osemncane nentombazane uthando nokukhangwa ngokocansi. Bahlangana kuphela futhi baba nesithakazelo komunye nomunye, imizwa yabo ikhanya ngokukhanya ngenxa yamahomoni agcwele igazi. Ukufanekisa lesi sigaba, kwanele ukukhumbula yonke iRomeo noJuliet edumile. Iphutha elikhulu ngalesi sigaba ukukholelwa ukuthi isifiso esinjalo siyohlala kuze kube phakade.
Isigaba esilandelayo akuqiniseki. Ukuqala kwalo kubonakala ngenye ibanga, eqaliswe ngumthandabuzi ongabazayo: "Ngimdinga yini?" Ngemva kokunikeza lo mlingani ukuba ahambe, intombazane ingase ivuse umbuyiseli wakhe.
Esigabeni sesithathu sokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane phakathi komfana nentombazane, abathandi banesifiso sokuba yilowo kuphela komunye nomunye. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kuyadingeka ukugwema ukuhlambalaza kanye nomhawu , okungahlala ngemuva kwesigaba sokungaqiniseki.
Ukuphumelela kahle izigaba ezintathu zokuqala, abathandi bangena ebuhlotsheni obuqotho. Lesi sigaba sibonakala ngokuthi "ukususa imaski", umfana nentombazane bazizwa bekhululekile ngokwanele ukuzivumela ukuba bahlale ngokwabo.
Isigaba sokugcina sobudlelwane bezithandani ukulungela ukushada. Akuyona njalo ezalwa ngothando olulodwa kungasho isifiso sokuhamba inkambo yokuphila ndawonye. Kodwa uma umuntu engumphefumulo womndeni futhi ungafuni ukuhlukana nalo, lokhu kungaba yisisekelo sokwakha umndeni oqinile futhi ojabulisayo.
Kusukela kudalwa umndeni, lo mbhangqwana uqala ukuzwa izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, isici somshado. Izinyanga zokuqala ngokuvamile zidlula ngokuqonda ngokugcwele, ukujabula kanye nenjabulo. Isigaba sesibili - isifo satiety - sifike eminyakeni engu-1-1.5, sibonakala ukunyamalala kwothando. Ukwaneliseka kuya esiteji sokuzondwa, lapho abashadile beqala ukungabaza ukufaneleka kwesinqumo, ukuphikisana nokuxabana. Iningi lehlukaniso lwenzeka ngalesi sigaba.
Isigaba esilandelayo, esibonisa ukushiywa kwesiteji esiyinkimbinkimbi, ukugcwaliseka kwesikweletu. Uthando phakathi kwabashadile aluvutha ngomlilo okhanyayo, kodwa baseduze futhi bazame ukuletha injabulo komunye nomunye. Isigaba senkonzo sikhula sihlonipheke futhi sibe nobungane. Abashadile baqhakambisana kakhulu futhi besaba ukulahlekelwa. Futhi, ekugcineni, cishe eminyakeni engama-10-12, isigaba sesithando samanje siza. Kuyinto umvuzo kulabo abahlonishwayo badlula kuzo zonke ukushayisana futhi balwela uthando lwabo.