Kuthiwani uma umfana kanye nentombazane behlangane isikhathi esithile, futhi ngokucacile bayathandana, kodwa abakhethiweyo abangenakucacisa abenzi lutho? Ngamahloni? Mhlawumbe ungabaza imizwa yentombazane, ngoba ihlala ibanda kakhulu? Mhlawumbe, kubalulekile ukuphoqa insizwa ngandlela-thile?
Yiqiniso, kufanele senze konke ngokucophelela futhi kungabi ngokufutheka, ikakhulukazi uma intombazane ingayibheki ubulili obudlulayo, kepha kube nobuhlobo obuhlala njalo, ikakhulukazi emndenini. Uma umfana ecabanga kuqala - konke kulahlekile. Ngeke neze aphathe intombazane ngenhlonipho. Uzoba ngothando lwakhe lwamahhala - okungcono kakhulu.
Umuntu, empeleni, ungumzingeli nomnqobi. Uthanda ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokwakhe. Kodwa into iyamyeka. Kuphela manje uhlonipha owesifazane yena ngokwakhe futhi wamhudula embhedeni wakhe, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngeke.
Ngakho-ke, cabanga, kodwa umfana wacabanga ukuthi isinyathelo sonke siza kuye kuphela.
Kungakanani ukujabulisa umfana onembatho?
Ukuya emhlanganweni omkhulu, kubalulekile ukucabangela ngokucophelela ikhabethe lakho. Izembatho kufanele zibe zobulili ezingcolile futhi zingabi nakakhulu kakhulu. Kungani ukucansi kuqondakala futhi kanjalo. Kodwa kungani ungakhulumi kahle? Yebo, ngoba esifubeni se-naked ne-naked of the girl, umfana uyambuka isikhathi sesigamu sehora, futhi ngeke esashukumisa umcabango wakhe. Kodwa esifubeni, ngokugqoloza embozwe nge-blouse encane eboshiwe, uzophonsa ukubukeka okuthakazelisayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, azibuze ukuthi yini nokuthi yikuphi. Ngakho-ke uma intombazane, iguqa, icabanga ukuthi ingajabulisa kanjani umfana ngangokunokwenzeka, kubalulekile ukukhumbula: "futhi" akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu.
Kuye kwaziwa isikhathi eside ukuthi abantu abanama-coquette abanolwazi abangeke baveze konke okujabulisayo kombukiso. Indoda kufanele ifune ukubona okwengeziwe, lokhu kuzomjabulisa ngaphezu kokukhululeka ngokweqile. Ayikho i-mini ne-decollete. Isiketi esiphakathi noma ngisho ne-maxi ene-cut, i-blouse eqinile. Noma ungakwazi ukudlula, kodwa inkinga yizingubo zangaphansi. Izambatho zangaphansi zangasese ziyingqayizivele, ngezinye izikhathi umbala noma usike kakhulu kakhulu. Udinga ukucabanga, ingabe izobukeka kahle ngaphansi kwe-blouse ebonakalayo?
Shoes - hairpin, akungabazeki. Ngentanyeni kukhona ukhenketho oluhle noma ukuthinta ubuhlalu.
Ukwenza ngcono kungcono kunokukhanya, kodwa udinga ukugcizelela izindebe zakho ngepensela.
Indlela yokuziphatha ukuze ujabulele umfana?
Zama ukumtshela ukuthi intombazane inesithakazelo. Ukumbuka emehlweni, ukumthanda. Cha, ungabi namahloni ekunciphiseni! Kubalulekile ukuthola into efana ncamashi kumfana. Hlanganisa ukuze ubabaze lezi zici bese uqala ukumemeza ngokuzwakalayo. Amadoda athokoza kakhulu uma adunyiswa (abesifazane, nanoma kunjalo), lo mfana ngeke ahlale engenandaba.
Phonsa izinyembezi ezingaqondakali nemisho engaqondakalayo ngakho intombazane inesithakazelo kakhulu - ngakho-ke akuyona into. Ekuphenduleni umbuzo othize ongenacala, udinga ukuthula uthule kancane, ungasusi amehlo akho kumfana. Ukusekela isikhashana. Bese udla futhi upheke amehlo akho.
Indlela yokujabulisa umfana onomthinta?
Uma izinto sezihamba kahle, kufanelekile ukuvumela umfana ukuba aqonde ukuthi intombazane ijwayele ukuthandana. Ngomusa uthinte unyawo ngonyawo lwakhe. Ukudansa,
Ungaqala ngo-kisses wedwa. Amadoda ikakhulukazi awamanga ezindebeni nasemlonyeni. Intombazane kufanele ithandeke futhi ibe nemvelo, emva kokumanga ezindebe kubalulekile ukuya emehlweni akhe, entanyeni, ezindlebeni. Bese uyamanga ezindebe futhi.
Ngezinye izikhathi amantombazane acabanga ukuthi angashesha kanjani umfana. Akufanelekile! Uma ucansi lungenasuswa, luqala nge-caresses elihle, ngomdlalo wezocansi, luzoletha injabulo enkulu kubo bobabili.