Ngakho-ke, yiziphi izinguquko ekuziphatheni komuntu onjalo? Sizozama ukuqonda lo mbuzo bese sibonisa izimpawu zomuntu othandweni, njengoba kunqunywe yi-psychology.
Umuntu othanda ukuziphatha uziphatha kanjani?
- Ukufuna ukujabulisa, angakwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela engavumelani naye: umuntu onesizotha empilweni angakwazi ukukhokhela ezinye izinkululeko, afinyelele ekuhlaleleni, futhi "umphefumulo wenkampani" ngokuzumayo uhoxiswa futhi ucabange.
- Uhlala efuna ukubona lowo owathokozisa inhliziyo yakhe, ngakho ufuna njalo imihlangano "engahleliwe".
- Injabulo ekhethekile yanikezwa futhi "ngengozi" ethinta into yothando lwakhe . Ngendlela, izinzwa ezithintekayo zibaluleke kakhulu, njengoba zizwakala.
- I-psychology yendoda ethandwayo ihluke ngokugxila kakhulu kulowo amaphupho ebusuku: engxoxweni nomuntu othandekayo, uhlale ephendukela ebusweni bakhe, ubukeka kahle emehlweni.
- Kubonakala ngokuphindaphindiwe, okungaziqapheli izikhathi ezincane, okubonisa ukuthi unesithukuthezi.
- Ukulungele nganoma isiphi isikhathi ukuphonsa konke futhi ukusheshisa, ngisho noma isimo asidingi.
- Ukubukeka komuntu othandweni, kugcizelela ukuthi i-psychology, igcwele isisa nothando; indoda iphuma ngaphakathi lapho ibona othandekayo wayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ubukeka ngethemba ekubukeni okubuyiselwe futhi uphuthele kakhulu, uma bengagcwele ukufudumala nesithando esifanayo.
- Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu oveza ngokucacile imizwa yakhe: iningi, ngokuphambene nalokho, lingaxhumani futhi lingaxhunywanga. Ngisho nangomunye wesifazane, ukubukeka okubangela isivunguvungu senjabulo ngaphakathi, balondoloza ukulingana kwangaphandle.
I-Psychology yokuziphatha komuntu othandweni inganqunywa yi- psychotype yakhe, kodwa kaningi ibhalwe ngokuzizwa ngokomzimba, amaphupho namaphupho, okuyindlela ngezindlela eziningi ezinquma izenzo zakhe, imicabango nemizwa.