Namuhla, ukuthuthukiswa kwesifazane kuyinkinga enkulu yesizukulwane esincane kanye nomsebenzi oyinhloko wesizukulwane esidala. Esikhathini "sokungabonakali" nokuchuma kwezingqingili ezakhiwe, abantu baqala ukukhohlwa ukuthi yisiphi isisu nokuthi indlela yokusebenza kwengqondo yabesifazane ishiyana kanjani namadoda.
Kodwa-ke, intombazane enengqondo efuna ukujabula nendoda yangempela esigabeni esithile sokuthuthukiswa kwayo icabanga ngekusasa futhi ibeka umsebenzi oyedwa kubo bonke abesifazane - ukuthuthukiswa kwesifazane.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuthuthukiswa kwesifazane
Owesifazane uyisidalwa esibucayi nesethenda, okusho ukuthi kufanele avuselele kahle. Amantombazane athandekayo abe lula, lo muntu akakhanga nje ngokubukeka, kodwa nangombuso wangaphakathi. Ukukhanya okungaphezulu kuzovela kuwe, amadoda angaphezulu azoba nesithakazelo kuwe.
Memeze, futhi uzomomotheka emuva. Jabulela ukuphila, thola kukho konke okwenza injabulo enkulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Funda ukuthethelela abantu, ungalahli ukwehluleka kwabo, ngoba ngale ndlela uheha impilo yakho ibe yinto engalungile, okuyiyona into engapheli ngokuphelele yezidalwa ezinsikazi ezinesibindi nezinhle.
Yiba buthakathaka. Amadoda ayithandi abesifazane abaqinile, bathanda ukunikeza okuningi kunokuthola. Ungayithathi yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya, unike umlingani wakho okhethiwe ithuba lokukusiza futhi ungikholelwe, uyakwazisa. Unganqikazi ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka bakho futhi uvame ukuthembela ehlombe lamadoda eliqinile.
Funda kabanzi. Ukuzifundela kuzokusiza ukuthi uveze zonke izicabucabu zezinsikazi zesilisa nezesilisa, futhi ukhuthaze futhi ufundise ukuzwela nothando. Abesifazane abanentshisekelo bahlale beheha amadoda, ngoba ikhava enhle ngaphandle kokuqukethwe ngeke ibe nesithakazelo kunoma ubani.
Ngena kumidlalo. Ukuzindla, i-pilates ne-yoga - ngokuphumelelayo kusebenze amandla abesifazane,
Ukuthuthukiswa kokuqeqeshwa kwesifazane
Uma ungakabi namathemba emakhono akho futhi ucabange ukuthi wedwa ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nomsebenzi wokuthuthukisa wesifazane ngaphakathi kwakho, ngakho-ke ukuqeqeshwa ngokukhethekile okudingayo. Njengamanje, kunezikole eziningi eziqhuba ukuqeqesha abesifazane.
Ezikoleni zentuthuko yobuntombi uzofundiswa ukuthi uzithanda kanjani, kukusize ukuthi uveze owesifazane, futhi ukwakha ubudlelwane obulula obuhambisana nezwe labantu. Mhlawumbe ukuqeqeshwa ekuthuthukiseni ubulili yilokho okufunayo.
Ubunye bomzimba bufakwe kulowo nalowo kithi, umane nje udinga ukuboniswa kwabanye, ube nomusa futhi abe nesineke, ubonise ubuthakathaka besifazane futhi akeke azizwe esondelene nawe. Isidalwa esihle esinqabile ngeke sishiye ngaphandle kokunakwa. Ufuna nje ukuba ngowesifazane futhi uzothola.