Amantombazane amaningi anesithakazelo kwi-psychology yamadoda ekuhlukaniseni. Ngempela, emphakathini, bangaziphatha njengokungathi kukhona okwenzekile, njengokungathi bazizwa bekhululekile futhi bengakhathazeki nhlobo. Kungokwemvelo ukuthi owesifazane abonise isimo sakhe sengqondo ngaso sonke isikhathi embukisweni wakhe wonke, ngakho ngezinye izikhathi bayamangala ukukhathazeka kwamadoda. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo?
I-Psychology yomuntu ngemva kokuhlukanisa
Umgomo wokuqala nokuyinhloko womuntu ngemuva kokuhlukanisa nentombazane ukuqiniseka ukuthi akekho owaziyo ukuthi uyamlimaza ukuba amlahlekele. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile kuba mnandi kakhulu, amandla futhi ajabulise. Usizi lwakhe lubonakala kwelinye:
- uzimisele ukuphuza;
- uzama ukuvakashela izinkampani kaningi futhi azijabulise;
- uthola ukuzilibazisa ngokweqile njengokuhamba okusheshayo noma i-motocross;
- uqala ukudukisa amantombazane ngamaqoqo futhi enze ukuxhumana ngobusuku obulodwa.
Yiqiniso, amantombazane aziphathe ngendlela ehlukile: abiza umngane othembekile ukusiza nokukhononda, noma ngisho nokuvala izindlu nokuzizwa ezinsizini zabo.
I-Psychology yendoda ehlukanisile
Umuntu ohlukanisile unolwazi oluningi kakhulu, futhi iqiniso lokuthi ubani owaqala ngalo kubalulekile. Umzwelo womuntu owashiya umndeni, kanye ne-psychology yendoda elahliwe - amabili ehluke kakhulu, cishe izinto ezincane. Futhi uma uhlobo lokuqala lungasinda, kodwa ngokuvamile lubhekane nemizwelo , kanti okwesibili cishe kuzama ukuziphindisela kubesifazane - futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini.
I-Psychology yendoda eyodwa ingahluka. Abanye babo bazizwa bengakhululekile njengabaqhamuka bese bezama ukuthola ezinye ubudlelwane ngokushesha, ezinye zizisebenzisa kangaka kule ndima ukuthi kunzima ukuza kuzo. Kodwa-ke, ngokujwayelekile, uma isipiliyoni esitholakale somshado sasiye siphumelela ngandlela-thile, umuntu onjalo ngeke akhiphe isipho lapho ehlangana nothando lwakhe futhi.