Ukuphila komndeni kuhlotshaniswa nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene, futhi izigidi zomshado eziqediwe zixazulula ngempumelelo. Kodwa-ke, imishado encane, ebonakala ingajabulisi, ivame ukufaka ingozi engozini. Isibonelo, ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze, uma umyeni ecasulayo - iseluleko somqondo wezokwelapha sizokwenza impendulo.
Okufanele ukwenze uma umyeni ocasulayo - iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo
Uma umfazi ecasulwa ngumyeni wakhe - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ubudlelwane bomshado bomshado buyinkinga. Into yokuqala izazi ze-psychologist zincoma kulokhu ukuzama ukuhlaziya imizwa yabo kanye nokuziphatha komlingani wakho.
Isimo sengqondo sowesifazane sithonywa yizimo eziningi - ukuqala nge-ICP nokuphela ngokungahambisani ngokuphelele nempilo yakhe. Owesifazane omubi ohlangene angase aqale ukuhlela abantu abasondelene kakhulu, khona-ke oshade naye uzocasula ngisho nangokuphefumula. Kulokhu, izazi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi zingaphuli, kodwa ukuhlela ukwelashwa okuphulukisa - ukuthenga, ukuya kuma-movie, ukuhamba, ukuhlwa komculo okuthandayo, ukugeza okubhakabhaka, njll.
Nokho, kungase kwenzeke nokuthi umyeni waqala ukucasula ngenxa yezizathu zangempela. Kodwa kulokhu futhi, ukwahlukanisa akuyona inketho. Imikhuba emibi ingatholakala kuwo wonke umuntu. Futhi uma umyeni wamanje ecasulwa ukuthi akayikhipha umuthi wezinyosi futhi ukhohlwe ukwehlisa isihlalo sendlu yangasese, umyeni olandelayo angase abe umgembula, isisindo sokudla noma udoti.
Ukuze unciphise ukucasuka, izazi zengqondo zincoma yonke imikhuba emibi yomyeni wayo ukuthola noma iyiphi impikiswano enhle. Masiyeke, isibonelo, umyeni "u-hang" ku-TV ngenkathi kusakazwa umdlalo wezemidlalo, kodwa ngezinye izinsuku ukhumbula udoti futhi aqhube phansi phansi ngaphandle kokukhumbuza. Umuntu ngamunye angathola izici eziningi ezinhle - ukunemba, ukwethembeka, "izandla zegolide", ikhono lokuletha
Ukuze wenze izinkinga zansuku zonke zingacasuli, kudingeka uzame ukuthola izindlela eziningi zokujabulela isikhathi sakho ndawonye. Noma yikuphi ukuzilibazisa kwabantu - ukuhamba, ukudoba, kayak rafting - kufanelekile. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuzilibazisa komyeni kuyothakazelisa umfazi, kodwa noma kungenjalo, oshade naye cishe uzobonga ngesigamu sakhe sokusekela nokuqonda.
Futhi iseluleko sokugcina sabangqondo bezengqondo kubafazi abathukuthele: ungakhohlwa ukuthi nabo abalungile. Umshado uyinto yokwehliswa njalo futhi usesho lwegolide elikushoyo. Ukuziqhenya nokungafuni ukuqonda nokwamukela omunye umuntu nazo zonke izinzuzo nezimo ezivame ukuholela ekubeni nesizungu.