"Indoda idinga indoda." Nsuku zonke sibhekana nenani elikhulu labantu abahlukene. Ubudala, imvelo, umbono, ukubukeka, umzimba, imikhuba - konke kuhlukile, kukhona okufanayo, kodwa okufanayo akukhona nje! Siyazi futhi sixhumana, singabangane futhi sixabana. Abaningi bethu banesithakazelo, kodwa ungayithola kanjani eyakho, eyakho kanye nabasondelene nabo? Kwenzeka ukuthi sithola umuntu, sijwayele kakhulu kangangokuthi asikwazi ukucabanga impilo yethu ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngeshwa, kwenzeka ukuba uyingxenye nayo. Futhi-ke, ngenxa yezizathu esingaziqondiyo, sizama kanzima, kodwa kungenasisekelo, ukuthola ukuthi kukhona umuntu othize owaziwayo ukuthi umuntu "lowo" ushiye emuva enkumbulweni ... Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile sizohlangana ngengozi lowo owayekade "wakhe", futhi engamqapheli ... Kuyadabukisa.
Ngenhlanhla, kaningi kakhulu, asilahlekelwa othandekayo, ngoba siyawazisa! Imiphefumulo emibili yomdabu ayifuni ukulahlekelwa, futhi lokhu kubuyeleka kunamandla kakhulu, futhi amandla obudlelwane anamandla kakhulu.
Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi umuntu oseduze usondele?
I-physics ifakazela ukuthi ukuphikiswa kuyakhangwa. Kodwa ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nokuthile okufanayo, into eyohlanganisa izintshisekelo. Kubonakala futhi ukuthi abantu abafanayo, abafana nabantu abafanayo, ngeke bakwazi ukubekezelela isikhathi eside. Cabanga, ungabe uhambisana nawe? Akunakwenzeka. Ngoba kulowo nalowo kithi kukhona okungafani nhlobo kokuqukethwe kwephesenti ethile. Yingakho kungokwesiko ukubeka indawo ethule futhi ekhuluma eceleni kwetafula ukuze kungabikho ukushayisana nokukhungatheka! Lapho abantu abaphikisana nabo behlangana, kubonakala sengathi baxhasana. Okushiwo ngumuntu wokuqala okungekho empilweni kunokwesibili, futhi ngokufanayo. Ekuqaleni, kungase kube nzima ukuthola ukuyekethisa, ngoba imibono nemibono ingahluka kakhulu. Kodwa uma wenza umzamo bese uzama ukuqonda nokuzwa othandekayo wakho, lesi sihloko sizobe sesiphumelele kakhulu, futhi lo mbhangqwana uzolahlwa injabulo! Ngemuva kokuhlanganiswa okunjalo, ekuphileni kwabo kuzodinga. Mhlawumbe yingakho ngokuvamile indoda noma owesifazane ebuka okufana neyakhe yangaphambili: kungaba ukubukeka noma uhlamvu.
Umuntu oseduze kakhulu akuyona into ehlukile yobulili obuhlukile. Kungaba umama noma ubaba, umfowenu noma udadewethu. Njengoba laba bantu behlala nathi, ke, uma singavaliwe, bayazi ukuthi asithandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubantu abanjalo igazi elilodwa ligeleza. Umndeni yinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke esinayo, into ebaluleke kakhulu esiyidingayo ukuyivikela! Kumelwe sibonge abazali bethu ukuthi basikhulisile.
Okumangalisa ukuthi, abantu abaseduze abakwazi ukuxhunyaniswa nhlobo. Imiphefumulo nje yabantu abahlangane, nokuqonda ebuhlotsheni obubusayo, njengokuba kungekho omunye. Isibonelo esinjalo sibona ebusweni bomuntu, uma umzalwane wangempela ebhekwa njengomngane.
Futhi akukho cala ngeke ukwazi ukukhetha phakathi kwabathandekayo. Zama ukunikeza isikhathi kuwo wonke umuntu! Akulungile, ukukhetha phakathi komama nentombi, isoka nomngani. Uma uqala ukubeka imibandela enjalo - khumbula ukuthi umuntu obiza kakhulu kuye, ngeke ahambe.
Futhi lapho umuntu osondelene kakhulu esiseduze, sizizwa singenandaba futhi sizolile, asidingi omunye umuntu ...
Yini eyenza abantu bavale?
Akekho onganika impendulo engavamile kulo mbuzo. Emva kwakho konke, wonke umuntu unamacala akhe kanye nezindaba. Kodwa ngokuphelele ubudlelwane bobunjwa bomhlaba munye. Ukuqonda okufanayo, inhlonipho, ukunakekelwa nokubonga kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokubophezela abantu abasondelene nabo abaseduze!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuqonda nokuthethelela. Omunye kufanele alalele abantu abathandekayo enhliziyweni, ungalokothi ubakhubekise. Vala abantu bazizwe, ngakho ungavumeli ukungabaza! Qaphela ubuhlobo!