Ngezinye izikhathi lo mbuzo uzibuzwa ngokwawo ngisho nalabo besifazane abangadutshulwa ngenxa yombukiso wamamagazini agxilile. Futhi labo abangakwazi ukugcoba ngamehlo abo bavame ukupheka. Futhi abesifazane besifazane, nabesifazane besifazane. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane angashadile abashadile (abangekho) abonisa ukuthi abesifazane bathanda amadoda ngaphezulu. Masenzeni futhi thina.
Uhlobo luni lwabesifazane amadoda afana nawo?
Cha, ngeke sithole ifomula elilodwa, ngoba (futhi ngenhlanhla), amadoda akudingekile njengoba angase abonakale ekuboneni kuqala. Thatha, isibonelo, umbuzo wabesifazane abathanda amadoda ngaphandle. Ngokuqinisekile, iningi labo limelela ukuhleleka kwabo ngendlela efana nekhophi ecacile yenkanyezi ye-movie, futhi ingakwazi ngisho nokuveza okuthandayo ngemingcele yomlobokazi ongase abe khona. Kodwa-ke, uma ubumba ngokujulile, hhayi njalo ngaphansi komqhele yindodakazi encane yamaphupho. Futhi lokhu akuvimbeli abantu ukuba bathande abakhethiweyo babo. Vumela futhi uqhubeke ubheka labo abase-TV.
Naphezu kokuthi isikhangiso sikhuthaza izindinganiso eziqinile zobuhle, okubonisa ukuthi abesifazane kufanele bathande amadoda ngokungaqondile, izibalo zithi abesifazane abadumile banamathuba amanengi njengabanamahloni. Kuncike ekutheni amafomu abo anesilinganiso, isisindo sikhulume ngokugcwele, futhi isikhumba senziwe. I-subconscious iphakame kunokwazi, ngakho-ke indoda evamile ikhetha owesifazane onempilo ngenzalo yesikhathi esizayo. Njengamanye amafomu abesifazane abade, akusho ukuthi abesifazane abancane abathandi amadoda. Insizwa encane encane ifuna ukuvikela, futhi lokhu kusegazini labesilisa.
Futhi kulezi zinganekwane azipheli:
- abesifazane abuthakathaka njengamadoda. Yebo, iningi lamadoda likhangwa ngobubuthakathaka obuthile, kodwa alikho inani. Ungase ungakwazi ukugoba isibani, kepha ukungaciniseki kuzo zonke kunalokho kungabesaba abantu abakhethiweyo;
- ukugqoka ngocansi - ukushayela ucansi. Mhlawumbe, kodwa hhayi ngempela. Amadoda amaningi alahlekile lapho le ntombazane igugile ngokweqile. Futhi-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba banakekele ukuqonda kwakho, uma i-decollete ingcono kunomnikazi wayo;
- abesifazane abanesimo esijulile besabekile. Cha nakancane. Uma sishayela amadoda asebasha abashayele uphawu lwama-25, abaningi babo banesithakazelo ekutholeni intombazane yokwakha umndeni. Kulesi simo, ukukhukhumeza kwakho kungaba yisithiyo ebuhlotsheni obunzima;
- Amadoda athanda amantombazane adumile. Enye inganekwane, ezelwe ngokukhangisa. Uma ubhekene nokuziqhenya kakhulu, ubungozi obubonakala kuye bungafisi futhi (ngokuzenzekelayo) bungenangqondo.
Kodwa ukufaneleka, okucishe kube njalo ngentengo:
- ubuqotho . Le mfanelo idonsela abantu, kuhlanganise namadoda;
- umusa. Kulezi zinhlanzi kukhona amadoda ane-psychology yesisulu. Ingabe udinga okunjalo?
- ukumomotheka. Mhlawumbe kunzima ukuthola umhlobiso ophawulekayo wesimo somuntu wesifazane;
- ikhono lokulalela nokuzwa. Abaningi besifazane bathanda ukukhuluma, ngakho ngezinye izikhathi enye yale mfanelo yanele ukumangaza futhi inentshisekelo umuntu;
- okwesifazane . Awekho amazwana.
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi owesifazane ngezinye izikhathi akakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi uyathanda yini indoda. Futhi lokhu kuvame ukuphazamiseka yizinkathazo zethu. Hlola ngokucophelela: uma owesifazane ethanda indoda, ngisho noyena onamahloni kunika ezinye izimpawu. Ngakho-ke, umuntu angazigwema ngenhloso ukuhlangana ngokubukeka. Ufunda ngasese. Kunoma yikuphi, uzozama ukuzihlukanisa nesixuku: noma ngabe uzojabula futhi abe nomsindo, noma uzovala ngaphakathi. Ngokuvamile, kuzokwenza konke okufana nathi.