Indlela yokubona i-gigolo?

Bathanda izinyosi ezikhungweni zezinyosi zikhuphukela kumnandi wemali, ziyakhonta ukubona ngaphandle kwabesifazane abaphumelelayo nabacebile, yi-gigolo. Lawa angamadoda ahlala ezindlebeni zezintombi zabo ezicebile, futhi akusiyo ngezinkinga zezezimali zesikhashana, indlela kuphela yokuthola imali ukuhlala entanyeni yenkosikazi ocebile. La madoda angakhululekile ukukhangisa: "Ngifuna umsebenzi njengo-Alfonso", ngoba abanayo izifiso zeminye imisebenzi. Kungokwemvelo ukuhlangabezana nomuntu onesithakazelo semali kuphela, akekho oyifunayo, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabona kanjani i-gigolo.

Alphonse: izimpawu ezinkulu nemikhuba

  1. Indoda u-Alfonso akanalo umthombo wemali engenayo (ngaphandle kwendlela yenkosikazi yakhe), ngakho ngeke asebenzise imali kowesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwenqaba ukukhokha ngeke kube ngqo, cishe umuntu uzama ukumshaya - esitolo ngesikhathi sokukhokha uzophendula ucingo olubalulekile, ngesikhathi sokukhokhwa kwe-invoyisi, uzocelwa ukuba aye endlini yangasese, futhi angeke akhokhe itekisi ngoba amacala amancane . Yiqiniso, ukungabi nemali kungaba yingozi, kepha uma kuphindaphinda njalo, kufanelekile ukucabangela.
  2. Indlela yokubona i-gigolo? Zama ukumlalela, lokho akutshela ngaye. Uthi kukhona umsebenzi, kodwa akukho lutho ngalokhu okushoyo noma ukuthi uthi usefuna umsebenzi futhi akakwazi ukutshela lutho ngalokho akwenzayo ekuphileni? Kungenzeka ukuthi phambi kwakho indoda i-gigolo noma umuntu ovila ovamile.
  3. Uvele ugeza ngokuncoma, indoda ikuchazela ngothando njalo emizuzwini emihlanu, ingase isho kanye ukuthi uzoba ngumfazi omuhle kakhulu. Kodwa awukwazi neze ukuthi "umyeni wami u-Alfonso." Kubantu abanjalo, umshado ukulahlekelwa kwemali, ngakho-ke lomshado ngeke kwenzeke.
  4. I-Alphons bayakwazi futhi bayathanda ukuzibuka. Indoda enjalo ibukeka ihle kakhulu, ithanda ukuhlala ezinyaweni eziningi. Kuphela-ke uzoxazulula zonke izinkinga zakhe ngenxa yowesifazane. Uzokhuluma indaba enenhliziyo, emva kwalokho angeke akwazi ukwenqaba. Zama ukutshela le ndoda ngezinkinga zakho, i-gigolo izokulalela, mhlawumbe ngisho nokuzwelana, kodwa ngeke ikusize.
  5. U-Alfonso uzobambelela ku- "feeder" ngawo wonke amandla akhe. Bangamazama ukukholisa umlingani ukuthi uthole isipho sangempela, ukuthi akufanele alindele okuningi kuwufanele.
  6. Indlela yokubona i-gigolo? Ngisho nasemhlanganweni wokuqala, owesilisa u-Alphonse uzozama ukuthola isimo sakho sezezimali. Zama ukumbuza imibuzo, ubuze ngomsebenzi nabalingani.

Isithombe se-Alfonso sithinta kakhulu, kodwa namanje amadoda amaningi anjalo. Abanye besifazane bebhizinisi bathi "ngifuna igigolo, kulula". Bathenga indoda encane neyithakazelisayo futhi bazizwa kahle ngesikhathi esifanayo. Uma ungewona wesifazane onamaqanda abandayo abesebandayo, khona-ke uzungeze i-gigolos ngamamayela amathathu.