Yiqiniso, umbuzo wokuthi ungamshaya kanjani umngane kumngane ungcolile ngokwanele. Isenzo esinjalo, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwalabo "abathintekile" kuzobangela ukukhathazeka nokufutheka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - wonke umuntu okungenani kanye empilweni yakhe wezwa ukuthi umzamo wokuthola injabulo yakhe akulula.
Ungamshaya kanjani umfana kusuka kwenye?
Ngisho nesenzo esinjalo esingavumelekile sidinga ukulungiselela kahle. Khumbula ukuthi amadoda, okokuqala, abukeka ukubukeka kwendodakazikazi. Ikhanda lezinwele, izandla ezilungiswe kahle nezinyawo, umzimba omuhle kakhulu - konke lokhu kwinkimbinkimbi kwakha isithombe esihle. Noma yimuphi umuntu uzobona ukubonakala okungenakwenzeka.
Yiqiniso, umuntu akufanele akhohlwe ngokomoya nangokuzikhukhumeza. I-wrapper ekhanyayo idonsela okokuqala kuphela, kodwa udinga ukwazi ukuxhumana, ikakhulukazi nabameleli bobulili obuhlukile.
Ungamshaya kanjani umfana osuka kumngani omkhulu?
Okokuqala kuwufanele ukulinganisela ngokucophelela, usukulungele ukushintshanisa ubungane obuqinile nentombi yakho ebuhlotsheni obungase bungapheli empumelelweni. Uma le ntombazane inqume ukuthi lo mdlalo ufanelekile ikhandlela kanye nomfana oyithandayo, kufanelekile ukulwa, sincoma okulandelayo.
- Ukuvela kungazelelwe ezindaweni lapho into ekhethiwe ikhona. Ungadluli futhi umkhathaze. Ukubukeka kufanele kube kuhle futhi kuyathandeka. Uma lo mfana ebudlelwaneni nentombi yakho, ungaba nesizathu futhi uhlangane nabo ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kwabo.
- Sidinga ukuqapha ubuhlobo babo. Futhi udwebe iziphetho. Bheka indlela abaxoxisana ngayo, indlela abaziphatha ngayo ngemva kokuxabana.
- Ekugcineni, esinye sezigaba eziyinhloko, ukuthi ungamshaya kanjani umfana ovela kumphikisana naye. Ukuze wenze lokhu, zama ukuba umngane wakhe. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Kunezinketho eziningi. Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde mayelana nezithakazelo nokuzilibazisa komuntu osemusha, ukulungiselela izingxoxo ngalesi sihloko futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa intshisekelo, ngobuqotho, kulezi zifundo. Noma yikuphi umuntu othanda ukucelwa ngokungazijabulisi ngokuzilibazisa , izenzo kanye nemizwa.
Ngaphambi kokwenza izinyathelo ezinjalo, cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi ungayithatha yini ingozi. Phela, lokhu kuziphatha kungasihloniphi, okokuqala, ngokwakho.