Isoka lakho lithathwe empini? Futhi awukwazi ukuthi uziphathe kanjani esimweni esifanayo? Akumangazi, lesi simo asivamile, futhi kuvamile ukuba intombazane ididekile futhi angazi ukuthi benzeni uma isoka lakhe lisempi. Sizozama ukukusiza ukuthi uqonde imizwa yakho nezenzo zakho, futhi wenze izinqumo ezifanele.
Mhlawumbe umbuzo ovame kakhulu ohlukumeza amantombazane umbuzo: "Ungalindela kanjani umfana kusuka ebuthweni?". Impendulo iyinkimbinkimbi futhi ilula ngesikhathi esifanayo: vele ulinde futhi ukhumbule ukuthi maduze inkonzo yakhe izophela futhi othandekayo bakho bazobuya. Akudingekile ukuguqula umfana osuka ebuthweni ukuboshwa ezindongeni ezine. Qhubeka ukuhola impilo ejwayelekile, iya esibukweni, uhlangabezane nabangane, hamba. Emva kwakho konke, uma isoka lakho lisempi, impilo yakho akufanele ime. Wena wayevame ukuphila ngandlela-thile ngaphambi kokuhlangana naye, akunjalo? Vumela ukungabi khona kwakhe njengento edingekayo bese ulinda kuze kube yilapho konke kubuyela endaweni yayo efanele.
Kufanele ngilinde umfana ovela ebuthweni?
Kufanele uqale ngeqiniso lokuthi uma umbuzo onjalo uzalwa ekhanda lakho, ke wena, endaweni ethile ekujuleni komphefumulo wakho, wamukele isimo esinjalo. Kungase kube ukungabi nokuzethemba emizweni yakho, okungukuthi, ungabaza ukuthi uzofuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano nalo mfana emva kokuba ebuya. Kulokhu, ungakuleka isikhashana ukuthi ukhohlwe ukuthi unesoka, futhi wenze njengoba ufuna. Ngalesi sikhathi uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngempela: ukulinda umfana kusuka ebuthweni noma ukufuna entsha.
Yini ongayibhalela umfana ebuthweni?
Yebo, noma yini. Kusukela ezenzakalweni zakamuva ezenzeka edolobheni lakho, futhi ekupheleni ngencazelo yemizwa yomuntu siqu. Futhi akubalulekile kakhulu ukuba ubhale umfana ebuthweni, kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi uzokwenza kaningi kangakanani. Ngokufika kwamafoni weselula, konke kuye kwaba lula kakhulu. Izincwadi zingashintshwa ngezingcingo nama-sms. Ungathumela ngokuphephile ama-sms angu-1 ngosuku - akusikho okuningi. Ungakwazi umyalezo owodwa njalo ezinsukwini ezimbili. Uma ubhala bese ubiza kancane kancane - umfana angase abe nokungabaza ukuthi usalindile. Kodwa futhi zama ukungazikhohlwa ngezinhlamvu zamaphepha, bhala okungenani izinhlamvu ezingu-2-3 ngenyanga - akukhathali kuwe, futhi kuyoba mnandi kumfana.
Yini ukuletha umfana empi?
Isinqumo esifanele kunazo zonke siyobe sithole kumuntu ngokwakhe lokho angenayo. Lokhu kungaba njengokudla, kanye nokuhlelwa kwendlu. Yiqiniso, awudingi ukuthwala imikhiqizo ephazamisayo (amaqebelengwane, isobho, njll). Kungcono ukuletha amantongomane, izithelo ezomisiwe (ama-apricot omisiwe, umlimi omuncu, omisiwe), ama-pie, i-gingerbread, i-candy. Buza ukuthi ngabe ukutholakala kwe-shaving noma hygienic kuyadingeka yini kumfana, ebuthweni kuvame ukuphazamiseka ngezinto ezinjalo zokusebenzisa.
Indlela yokusekela umfana ebuthweni?
Ukusekela umfana ebuthweni kungamshayela ngethemba, nokuqiniseka ukuthi uyathandwa futhi ulinde ekhaya. Yini okufanele uyenze lokhu? Ungakhohlwa ukubhala izincwadi zamadoda (njengendlela yokukhetha - i-sms-ki), thatha isithakazelo ezindabeni zakhe, uma kungenzeka - zivame ukuza kuye.
Yini ongayinika umfana emva kwebutho?
Lokhu mhlawumbe yilapho kuphela uma kungcono ukunikeza i-trinket, kodwa okuzokukhumbuza ngeminyaka embalwa. Kodwa ungasheshi ukuthenga ama-statuettes nama-trinkets. Kungcono ucabange ngezinto ezinjengokuthi igitare, isithombe, imbiza, chess njll. Okokuthi, isipho akufanele nje sigcinwe eshalofini, kodwa okungenani kusetshenziswe ngezikhathi ezithile.