Emashumini ambalwa eminyaka edlule, indandatho yokunikeza intombazane kwabakhileyo emazweni e-CIS kwakungeyona into engaphezu kwesithombe esingabonwa ochungechungeni lwe-TV yangaphandle. Kodwa-ke, lo mbono wathandana nabalingani bethu, futhi amadoda amaningi awasebenzisa. Namuhla, indandatho enhle yokunikezwa - kuyisigqila esiphezulu kunomuntu oye wanquma isinyathelo esibalulekile empilweni yakhe. Futhi wonke amantombazane amaphupho okuba ngumnikazi webhokisi eligcinwe, lapho kugcinwa khona indandatho enhle yokubandakanya , ehloselwe yona kuphela.
Umlando wenkambo
Kusukela ezinsukwini ze-Kievan Rus ukubandakanyeka kwakubhekwa njengomcimbi obaluleke kakhulu kunomshado. Indandatho ye "ukuhlanganiswa" kufanele ihlotshwe ngetshe elikhulu, kodwa insimbi ayinandaba. Kamuva "ukuhlanganiswa" kwaguqulwa waba umkhosi wokuqothula. Kodwa umkhwenyana wanikeza insimbi yokubandakanya lapho enza isipho, okungukuthi, ngaphambi komhlangano esontweni. Enqaba ukuyibeka ngomunwe wakhe, intombazane yenqaba lesi sipho. Ngemva kwamashumi eminyaka embalwa, "ugobe" lwaba ngumshado, ngakho-ke isiko esidala sasilahleka emakhulwini eminyaka.
Ukukhetha izindandatho zokuzibandakanya
Namuhla, lesi siko siphinde sisebenze, nakuba sasingavuselelwanga, kodwa sibolekwa kwabaseYurophu. Ukukhethwa kwendandatho yokunikezwa kuye kwaphendukela amadoda abe yinto ejwayelekile. Futhi konke ngoba kuyisipho sokuqala esiqakathekile ukuthi intombazane kuyodingeka iyiqonde. Labafazi bafaka ukubaluleka okukhulu kulo mhlobiso. Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukuthi yisiphi isandi esinikezwayo, lapho senza isiphakamiso, kodwa futhi nesimo ngaleso sikhathi, amazwi akhulunywa. Kungenxa yezizathu zokuthi ukukhethwa kobucwebe kufanele kuhanjiswe nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo.
Awukwazi ukuphendula ngokungaqondile ukuthi iyiphi indandatho enhle kakhulu ngokunikezwa kwesandla nenhliziyo. Uma ugxila emasikweni aseNtshonalanga, khona-ke inani layo akufanele libe ngaphansi kwamaholo amabili ngenyanga. Inhlanganisela yamatshe ayigugu ngamatshe ayigugu yi-classic.
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Yiqiniso, izindandatho zegolide ze-sipho, ezihlotshwe ngamatshe ayigugu, ziyojabulisa noma iyiphi intombazane, kodwa akubona bonke abantu abangakwazi ukukhokhela isipho esibi kangaka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma imvume yakhe, umkhwenyana kufanele akhokhe izindleko zomshado. Ngaphambi kokuthenga kudingeke ukuba uhlole izinto zakho zokwenza izinto, futhi uthenge leyo ndoda, engeke ikwenze ibhajethi. Ekugcineni, intombazane ezwa imizwa yothando futhi ifuna ukuba ngumlobokazi, izohlola isipho, iqondiswe yizinqubo ezahlukene. Ngisho nendandatho yesiliva yokuphakanyiswa kungaba yindlela engcono kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ngobuningi bezindwangu ezinhle ezenziwe yilezi zensimbi, manje ezimelelwe emaketangeni okudayisa.
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Uma ukhetha indandatho, ungakhohlwa ngokuthandwa kwentombazane. Uma ekuphileni kwansuku zonke egqoke imihlobiso yegolide, indandatho yokubandakanya kufanele ibe igolide. Iqiniso liwukuthi indandatho yokuzibandakanya ivame ukugqoka kanye nengxenyana yokubandakanya, futhi inhlanganisela kufanele ivumelane.
Kweminye imindeni, kunesiko lokudlulisa indandatho yokuzibandakanya, okuyizinkhulukazi kanye nogogokazi abasaqhubeka, kusukela esizukulwaneni kuya esizukulwaneni. Lezi zindandatho ezingavamile ze-offer, yiqiniso, ezifunwa kakhulu, ngoba umnikazi wabo wesikhathi esizayo angaqiniseka ngokugcwele ngezinhloso zomuntu omnika umndeni wendlalifa.
Iyiphi enye indandatho eyenza isipho? Abantu abasha banamuhla basuke bekude nemikhuba yama-classic, yingakho bengajabuli ngetsimbi namatshe asetshenziselwa ukwakha imihlobiso, kodwa incazelo ehlanganisiwe kuwo. Ngakho-ke, ukuze umbhangqwana, indandatho encane yensimbi elula ingasho i-platinum engaphezulu, uma ithengwa ngesikhathi sokuqala sothando noma uhambo oluhlangene.
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