Sekuyisikhathi eside izazi zezinkanyezi zakha ukuthi ukwakha ngokucacile izifiso zabo kukhuthaza ukukhishwa kwabo ngokushesha. Lo mthetho usebenza futhi uma ufuna umlingani womphefumulo. Ukumemezela indawo yonke "Ngifuna ukujwayelana nendoda ecebile", usuvele ukwandisa amathuba okuhlangana nomuntu, enye yezinzuzo eziyinhloko ezoba yingcebo. Nokho, kuyoba kuhle ukusiza indawo yonke ekugcwalisekeni kwezifiso zomuntu siqu. Namuhla sizoxoxa ngokuthi singaphila kanjani nokuthi singazi kanjani umuntu ocebile.
Kusukela ekufuneni, zilungiselele ukuthi kufanele uchithe imali ethile. Ngisho namathikithi e-lottery awahanjiswa mahhala.
1. Ku-cafe noma yokudlela.
Isibonelo, kulabo abatholakala kumahhotela abizayo. Akudingekile ukuza khona kusihlwa, isikhathi sasekuseni noma ibhasi lesikhathi sebhizinisi linama-pluses ayo. Okokuqala, kuyoba khona abazingeli abade kakhulu kuyo yonke inkazimulo yabo. Futhi, okwesibili, le ndoda ngeke ishintshwe kubantu abajwayele ukuzihlanganisa.2. Esitolo esabizayo. Kungase kube nezinketho eziningana:
- njengekhasimende. Isibonelo, esilinganisweni nemikhaya ebiza kakhulu, cela umuntu ovotayo ukuthi alethe omunye wabo ebusweni bakhe. Yisho ukuthi ukhetha isipho kumfowenu / umngane wakho, futhi amehlo akhe awuhlobo olufanayo;
- njengomthengisi. Lapho ugqoke ezitolo ezigqoka / izicathulo ezibizayo, lungela ukuthi usuku ngalunye luyithuba lokujwayela umuntu ocebile, nesitolo, yile ndawo lapho isinyathelo sakho sizobona njengengxenye yemisebenzi yobuchwepheshe;
- njengomenzi wesithombe. Lo msebenzi namuhla udinga kakhulu, futhi kusho ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo nabantu abangakwazi ukukhokhela umxhumanisi womuntu siqu ukuze enze isithombe. Umuntu ocebile uphoqeleka ukuba athembele ngokuphelele kuwe nangokwakho ukunambitheka, okuyinto ngokwayo kakade ibonakala isilingo. Unganqikazi ukuqina, ekugcineni, awukwazi "ukuthatha isichazamagama" sekhabethe elikhona.
3. Enkundleni yemidlalo noma ekhonsathini. Ngokwemvelo, kufanele uthenge amathikithi amnandi, futhi ngesikhathi sokungena, qhubeka ku-bar ukuze ulalele ingilazi ye-champagne. Kodwa kukhona njalo ithuba lokuxoxa. Isimo esibalulekile: kufanele uqonde ukukhiqizwa ukuze ukwazi ukusekela ingxoxo eseqalile.
4. Ekhasino noma emidlalweni. Akudingeki ukuthi, owesifazane, ophakathi kwendoda ejabule ngothando, uqala ukukhipha ama-pheromones athola ukunakwa.
5. Enkundleni ye-tennis noma ngegalofu. Indoda ngokuqinisekile iyokwazisa isithakazelo sakho ezemidlalo futhi ukuthi uxhumekile kuye, okungenani okuzenzekelayo okuvamile.
6. Ezindaweni zokubhuka zezindiza. Indawo enhle yokuhlangana nabantu, lapho kukhona khona izithakazelo ezivamile, lapho i-glitter yamehlo futhi iluhlaza emathunjini kuyoba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi isikhwama sezimonyo.
7. E-intanethi. Ungavumeli le ndlela elula, kodwa eqinisekisiwe yokuthandana. Abaningi abanamahloni abanqikazi ukubheka izikhangiso "bazijwayele", ikakhulukazi ukuthi isibonakaliso sokwethembeka "nabacebile" kulokhu sizoba uphawu lokuthi nokho nonke niyazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo. Futhi ikhono lokwenza izinkinga ezicebile amadoda zilazisa njengelinye.