Inkinga yobudlova basekhaya ivame ukubhekana nabesifazane nezingane. Ngenxa yobuthakathaka babo emzimbeni, laba bantu kumele bahlupheke behlazeke. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi umuntu uhlale ekhetha - ukukhuthazela noma ukulwa.
Izimbangela zodlame lwasekhaya zikhona ezingqondweni ezingenabungozi zalabo abavumela ukuthi baphathe ngendlela efanayo amalungu omndeni wabo. Umuntu owanele futhi ozihloniphayo akasoze avumela ukuthi ubangele ubuhlungu nokulimala kulabo abathandayo nabathandayo.
Kuningi futhi kuxhomeke ekutheni ubumnene bomuntu, ubuzwe bakhe, izibonelo ezivela ekuphileni kwabazali bakhe.
Udlame lwasekhaya olubhekiswe kwabesifazane nezingane
Uhlukumezi kanye nomuntu onesihluku kumuntu noma ubaba kuyinhlekelele yangempela yomndeni. Ngempela, abesifazane nabantwana bahlupheka, abadinga usizo, kanti lesi samuva, ngezinye izikhathi, akunakulindelwa noma kuphi.
Kungani indoda ingawa phansi kangaka? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ekuqaleni wayenenkinga yengqondo engazange ibonakale kuze kufike iphuzu elithile, noma lezi zephambuko zatholakala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile, umuntu "wamshiya phansi": ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi nesimo sezenhlalakahle, izikweleti ezinkulu zemali, noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhomeka - utshwala, izidakamizwa, ukugembula. Cabanga ukuthi lona wesifazane uqobo uyabangela ukukhwabanisa nokushaywa - oyisiphukuphuku futhi ongenangqondo. Uma nje engeke ahlupheke ngendlela evelele ye-masochism.
Izwi elithi "Beats, kusho, uthanda" libuye lifana nokukhanuka kwe-madman. Luhlobo luni luthando olungaba khona, lapho ubuso nomzimba wonke bephazamiseka futhi bephazamiseka? Cha, ngiyabonga ... "Luthando" olunjalo luyingozi empilweni.
Ngokuqondene nezingane, lokhu kungukuhlukumeza okungacabangeki. Ukushaya izingane, ukuwahlazisa, ukuphindiselela ngale ndlela owesifazane - izenzo ezinjalo kufanele zijeziswe uma kungenjalo ngokubulawa, khona-ke ukuphila kube ngokuqinisekile.
Ukuvikelwa kwabesifazane ngokumelene nodlame lwasekhaya, okokuqala, kumele kuvela kubo. Kuzwakala kuyinto engavamile, kodwa ake siyihlole. Izihlobo azikwazi ukusiza ngaso sonke isikhathi, kusobala ukuthi zinezinkinga zazo. Ungathembela ku- "ababheki bokuhleleka" kuphela uma oshade naye engeyena "umuntu obalulekile" futhi engenalo isikhwama samafutha. Ngaphandle kwalokho, angamane athenge ukungahlanzeki kwakhe.
Ungazivikela kanjani ebudloveni basekhaya?
Impendulo isicacile: ukugijima ikhanda eligijima. Khonza isehlukaniso, thatha abantwana bese uhamba nomuntu onjalo. Ukulwa nokuphumelela. Nikeza izivivinyo zezokwelapha, xhumana nezinhlangano ezihlukahlukene zokuvikela amalungelo, bhala izicelo zomyeni emaphoyiseni. Ungazikhohlisi ngeso lengqondo lokuthi uzokushintsha. Uma ehlasela udlame oluhlelekile kuwe, ngeke ayeke. Lokhu akunjalo uma umuntu engalungiswa, efundiswa kabusha.
Ungapheli amandla. Uma wenza lokhu, khona-ke ngomzuzwana owodwa "ophelele" uzomane ulahlekelwe yimpilo yakho. Thola amandla okulwa. Cabanga ngezingane - ungumama futhi kufanele uzivikele. Okubaluleke kakhulu - kufanele uwuthole. Mhlawumbe, ukuqeqesha umzimba ngokomzimba kuyadingeka ukuze ngandlela-thile ukwazi ukuzimisela wena. Kodwa umsebenzi omningi udinga ukwenziwa ngekhanda lakho - wena
Izisulu zobudlova basekhaya akufanele zibekezelele. Uhlale unethuba lokucela usizo ezihlotsheni, abangane, omakhelwane. Abantu abakuzungezile, nakuba kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa bayakwazi ukubonisa ububele futhi banikeze okungenani usizo oluthile. Ungathuli ngenkinga yakho, kufanele ixazululwe ngokushesha. Zizinakekele futhi ungesabi lutho. Ukwesaba ukuthi kusenza sikhutshazeke, ngoba sinciphisa emakhono ethu - kanjani, kubi kakhulu emva kwakho konke.