Ngeshwa, iphesenti lemibhangqwana ebola ikhula minyaka yonke. Yingakho abesifazane abaningi bengathanda ukwazi ukugcina umyeni wakhe ekuhlukaneni. Njengoba wazi, ubudlelwane buhlala isikhathi eside kuphela uma abathandi bezisebenzela ngokwabo, bakha izimo ezinhle zomunye nomunye.
Indlela yokugcina umyeni wakhe emndenini?
Ngokwezibalo, imibhangqwana eminingi yahlukana ngoba kungekho zinyathelo ezithathwe ngesikhathi. Ngokuhlanganisa abazithandayo kubhethri, awukwazi ukuwugcina, ngoba udinga ukushintsha isimo sengqondo uphinde ubuyisele imizwa endala.
Amathiphu wokugcina umyeni emndenini:
- Iqala ngokuhlaziywa kobudlelwano nokuqhathaniswa kwezikhundla ezithile ngezimiso. Isibonelo, khumbula ukuthi uvame ukuphikisana, kiss, isikhathi esinikeza omunye nomunye, njll. Ngale ndlela, ungakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi ufuna ukusebenzela kuphi.
- Abesifazane abaningi emshadweni baphumule futhi bayeke ukuzinakekela, futhi lokhu kuyiphutha elikhulu, ngoba amadoda anjengamehlo. Ngokombiko, amadoda ayahamba kwabanye, ngoba bayeka ukumbona owesifazane ohlotshiswe kahle futhi onomusa eduze kwabo. Hlala uye emasiloni omuhle, ungene emidlalweni futhi ubukele ukudla. Bheka ukuthi indoda iyaziqhenya.
- Yithakazelisa umlingani wakho, ngakho-ke kudingeka uguquke njalo. Ezimweni eziningi, amadoda ashiya abesifazane abangathandeki abayincwadi evulekile kubo.
- Sebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, ngokwesibonelo, hamba, hamba e-cinema, uhlele ukudla okuthandana naye, njll. Khumbula nje ukuthi wonke umuntu kufanele abe nesikhala sakhe.
Kuyasiza futhi ukuthola indlela yokugcina umyeni emndenini emva kokuhlukunyezwa , njengoba imibhangqwana eminye ibhekene nezimo ezinjalo. Ngifuna nje ukusho ukuthi uma oshade naye engakashiyi, khona-ke linikeza ithuba lobuhlobo. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuba zingathuli ezimweni ezinjalo, kodwa ukuxoxa konke. Kubalulekile ukuphendula ngokuthula yonke imibuzo bese ukhulula isimo, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke kusebenze. Nika umyeni wakho isikhathi sokuphinda ucabangisise konke.