Amantombazane amaningi akhetha ukugwema ukusondelana ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ukubheka ucansi ngalesi sikhathi njengento ethi "ingcolile" futhi engaphephile. Ingabe ngempela ukuthi ukulala ocansini esikhathini esithile kungaholela emiphumeleni engathandeki noma kungalimazi lokhu kudla okujabulisayo okungathwali, sizobhekana nalokho okushiwo yi-athikili.
Ubulili ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini: kuyingozi noma cha?
Ezinkolweni eziningi, isikhathi sokuya esikhathini kwakubhekwa njengesihlobo sokuhlanza, ngakho-ke, ubuhlobo obuseduze ezinsukwini ezinjalo bevinjelwe. Ngeke sithinte izihloko zenkolo ezibucayi, kodwa sizocabangela ingozi yesondo phakathi nenkathi yokubuka imithi.
- Kukhona umbono wokuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa uma uziphatha ngokocansi ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ingxenye yalokho kunjalo, amathuba okukhulelwa ngaleso sikhathi aphansi kakhulu. Kodwa ingozi yokuthola ikhanda njengendlela yokukhulelwa engafuneki isesekhona, ngenxa yekhono le-spermatozoa ukulondoloza amandla abo kuze kube yizinsuku ezintathu. Ukuqaphela ngokukhethekile udinga ukuba amantombazane, lapho ukuya esikhathini kungena kwezinsuku ezingu-3-4.
- Kodwa udinga ukuzivikela hhayi ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi ukhulelwe, imiphumela yezocansi ezingalondekile ngezikhathi zingaba izifo ezihlukahlukene ezithathelwanayo. Igazi lingumthombo omuhle kakhulu wezakhi zomzimba amabhaktheriya, futhi intamo evulekile kancane yesibeletho yenza lula ukungena kwezifo. Ngakho-ke, uma omunye wabalingani enezinkinga zalolu hlobo lokusondelana ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini avinjelwe.
- Uma sikhuluma ngezinhlobo zobulili, kuphephile kuphela ngomlomo, ubulili bobulili buvunyelwe ngenkathi kuqaphela izinyathelo zokuphepha ezidingekayo, kodwa kusukela ocansini wesilwane kulezi zinsuku kungcono ukuyeka. Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, ngenkathi ulala ocansini ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, ingozi yokubamba isifo isivele iphezulu, futhi ngokulala komzimba kukhula kaningi futhi ukusetshenziswa kwamakhondomu kulokhu ngeke kusindise ukudluliselwa kwesifo.
- Ubuseduze esikhathini esinjalo kungabangela izinzwa eziningi ezimnandi kubo bobabili abalingani. Igazi eligeleza ezithombeni zokuzala likhulisa ukuzwela kwabo, linikeze owesifazane isisindo esisheshayo nesicacile. I-vaginous contracting inikeza ukubopha okunamandla kwesipenisi, okunikeza izinzwa ezengeziwe ezimnandi kumlingani wakho. Kodwa-ke, odokotela batusa ukugwema ukuya ocansini ezinsukwini ezingu-2-3 zokuqala, kanti isabelo siningi kakhulu.
- Kwamanye abesifazane, ucansi ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini kunciphisa ubuhlungu. Lokhu kungenxa yokugqugquzelwa kwe-ejection ewuhlaza, okususa i-edema yesisu bese kunciphisa ubuhlungu. Kodwa lokhu kuyiqiniso kuphela uma i- orgasm izuzwa. Futhi, ngenxa yokwanda kwegazi, amangqamuzana e-endometrium afa ngokusheshisa kakhulu, okunciphisa isikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Kwezinye izimo, emva kokudla, ubuhlungu bungabonakala, kulokhu noma yikuphi imithi yokwelapha ephumukisa izigaxa ngeke isisize.
- Abesifazane abaningi benqabe ubulili ngalesi sikhathi, besaba ukwesaba umlingani ngokubona kwegazi. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwesaba kuyize, izazi zezocansi seziye zathola ukuthi ngokuvamile abantu babonisa isithakazelo esikhethekile esivumelwaneni sabo ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, futhi akubona bonke abantu abayesaba kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akekho owakwenqabelayo ukuba ukhethe indawo yokugezela ukuze usondelane ngalezo zinsuku. Yebo, uma unquma ukulala embhedeni,
ke-ke kufanele nje unakekele ukuthi kukhona ukuhlanza okumanzi ngakwesokunene futhi ubeke okuthile phezulu kweshidi ukuyivikela ekungcoleni. Ukuze unciphise inani lemfihlo, sebenzisa isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli zakudala, ngoba ezinye izimo zizohlinzeka ngegazi elibi kakhulu.
Ngakho, ukulala ocansini phakathi nezinsuku ezibucayi akuyona into enqatshelwe. Ngenkathi kuqaphela izinyathelo ezidingekayo zokuphepha nokuhlanzeka, le nqubo ayibangeli umonakalo empilweni yabesifazane. Ngakho uma isifiso sithandana, ke ungaziphili injabulo.