Ungaziphoqa kanjani ukwenza okuthile?

Abantu abaningi bayaqonda ukuthi isizathu sokuhluleka kwabo kungukuvilapha kokuvinjelwa, kodwa kaningi abakwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga, ngoba abazi ukuthi bangaziphoqa kanjani ukwenza okuthile. Kodwa kukhona indlela yokuphuma kulesi simo, udinga nje ukucabanga kancane nokuvila kuyonqotshwa.

Ungaziphoqa kanjani ukwenza okuthile?

Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sokwehluleka ukubhekana nalokhu noma lokho. Ngokuvamile isici sokuziphatha okunjalo yilokhu:

1. Ukwesaba ukwehluleka nokungabi nalutho kokusebenza kwesenzo. Umuntu ucabanga ukuthi ukwenza okuthile akusizi ngalutho, ngoba lokhu ngeke kuholele emphumela oyifunayo noma kunjalo.
2. Ungathandi inqubo ngokwalo, isibonelo, umuntu akafuni ukugijima, ngoba uyagula ngalolu hlobo lwemidlalo .
3. Ukukhathala.

Cabanga futhi unqume imbangela futhi, ngokusekelwe impendulo, ungaqala ukuxazulula le nkinga futhi uqonde ukuthi ungazithola kanjani ukwenza izinto.

Manje kufanele sizame ukuqonda okulandelayo - ukuthi ungobani abantu ongowabo. Ngezinye izikhathi kulula ukuba umuntu enze konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngaphandle kokuzinika isikhathi sokuphumula (thayipha "iMarathon"). Ukuze unqume ukuthi uhlobo olunjalo lulula, khumbula ukuthi uvame kangakanani ukuyeka ngenxa yekhefu futhi ungafuni ukuwuqeda. Abanye babhekisela kohlobo lwesibili lwabantu ("Abaphrinta"), ngakho-ke, abangakwazi ukubhekana nento efanayo isikhathi eside; Ngokuphambene, kancane kancane bahlela ukuphazanyiswa, okubi kakhulu ukuthola imiphumela.

Uzimisele? Kuhle! Ake sibheke isibonelo, ukuthi uzenze kanjani lokho ongakufuni kokubili, kanye nolunye uhlobo lwabantu.

Ngakho-ke, umuntu udinga ukubeka izinto ngokuhlelekile endlini, kodwa uhlehlisa le nqubo. Okokuqala, sihlaziya ukuthi kungani enza lokho. Izizathu, isibonelo, zingaba ezintathu:

1. Ukwesaba nokungabi nalutho - kungani ungaphumi, ngoba uhlala yedwa, abangane abaya kuye, ngakho-ke, kungcolile noma kuhlanzekile. Kulokhu, kufanele sizivumele ukuthi ikhwalithi yokuphila ixhomeke kithi kuphela, futhi uma umuntu efuna ukuhlala nesithunzi, kumele ahlanze yena futhi azihloniphe, hhayi kwabanye.
2. Inqubo engathandeki - ama-rags angcolile, uthuli nezinye izinto "ezihlambalazayo" zingashintshwa ngezindlela zanamuhla nezindlela zokuhlanza, ngakho umsebenzi ongathandeki ube ngumdlalo.
3. Ukukhathala kunganqotshwa ngendlela eyodwa kuphela - ukuhlela ukuphumula okufanele.

Cabanga ukuthi ungaziphoqelela kanjani ukuhlanza, uma ungowokuthi "Abagijimi". Khetha wena kusuka emahoreni angu-1 kuya kwangu-3 kuye ngokuthi ububanzi bendlu , zihlele isikhathi esicacile, isibonelo, ngo-13: 00 njengesiqalo futhi ngalesi sikhathi qhubeka ubeka izinto ngokuhlelekile. Umsebenzi wakho kulokhu awukho noma kunjalo ukuhlela ikhefu kuze kuphele inqubo. Esikhathini sesimiso samacala okuphoqeleka, yenza isikhathi lapho ngesonto uzobe unike isikhathi sokuhlanza.

Uma umuntu "u-Sprinter", kuyobe lula ngaye ukuba enze "amantombazane" amancane nsuku zonke, ngaleyo ndlela alondoloze ukuhlanzeka. Isibonelo, ngoMsombuluko ugeza izitsha, ngoLwesibili, zihlanza amaphepheni, ngoLwesithathu zisula uthuli nokunye.