Indodana kaMamenkin - yini okufanele yenze?

"Indodana kaMama" umqondo ovame ukuhlanganisa amaforamu, omagazini, amarekhodi, njll. Isihloko sikhuliswa ngesizathu, njengoba le nkulumo isithakazelo kubesifazane abaningi, kungenzeka ukuthi kuyinkinga yesikhathi sethu. Izinkulungwane zabesifazane, ebhekene nale nkinga, khalela usizo. Ngakho-ke, sizozama ukuthola ukuthi singaphila nendodana kamama.

Indlela yokubhekana nendodana kamama?

"Indodana kaMama" - ngomqondo osondelene nesayensi kusho indoda engakapheli isikhathi esingafuni "ukwehlukanisa" nonina ngokuphathelene nokunamathisela kwengqondo .

Ngokuvamile lezi zindoda zibonisa lezi zimfanelo ngaphambi komshado. Indlela yokubona indodana yomama? - kubonakala ukuthi kulula, uma ukhumbule izici eziyinhloko:

1. Ngesikhathi umhlangano insizwa yakho igijimela kumama ngesikhathi ikholi yokuqala.
2. Ngaphandle kokuphela nokuqala, ubiza umama, utshele indlela adle ngayo, lokho akugqoka, lapho aye khona, njll.

Ngenxa yokungacabangi kwamantombazane amancane, lezi zikhathi zingabonakali, kodwa emva komshado umama uzothatha indawo yakhe empilweni yomuntu wakho, futhi uzohlala uhlala ebhentshini lokuphumula.

Kodwa, uma kwenzeke, umyeni uyindodana kamama, bese kuthi "Yini okufanele yenze?" Yaba ngumsebenzi oyinhloko, okumele uxazululwe esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Phela, kusengenzeka ukuthi ushintshe indodana yomama ngaphambi komshado, kodwa umbuzo othi "Ungayishintsha kanjani indodana yomama ngemuva komshado?" Ingabe kuyinkinga ngempela. Okukhethwa kukho ukubuyela emuva akusekho, indandatho ngomunwe, ihlelwe ngekusasa, kodwa akukhona amathuba okuba azogcwaliseka uma umama wakho emi njalo endleleni yakho.

Ungalungisa kanjani indodana yendodana?

Iseluleko sengqondo sengqondo mayelana nendoda - umama wengane yilezi:

1. Kunoma yikuphi, ungalokothi uzuze ukuziphatha komama othandekayo, ungathathi isikhundla sakhe, ngaleyo ndlela ungabi esikhundleni somlawuli oyedwa nomunye. Uma umyeni wakho enelisekile ngesimo, cishe cishe uzothola kunzima ukwenza noma yini, ngaphandle kokulimaza okuningi, okuyinto engadingeki kakhulu.
2. Udinga ukwamukela ukuthi kungcono kumyeni wakho ukuthi unina unqume konke, ukuthi uyigunya kuye, kodwa nje udinga ukunciphisa kancane ukukhulumisana kwakhe nonina futhi uhambisane nazo zonke izinkulumo "ezingathinteki" ngezinto ezinganelisekanga.
3. Yakha ubuhlobo bokuthembela naye, ngakho-ke hhayi umamazala wakho kuphela ongenalo ithonya kuye, kodwa nawe. Into esemqoka: akukho ukuphikisana nokuxabana nonina. Uma kungenjalo, umphumela uzoba udabukile.

Indlela yokunqoba indodana yomama?

Njengoba ezweni lanamuhla kunamachibi amaningi ala madoda alolu hlobo, abesifazane abathile abahle babuza lo mbuzo: "Kungenzeka yini ukunqoba kuyo yonke inhliziyo ye-knight?". Futhi impendulo iwukuhlakanipha ngokulula. Ukuze unqobe indodana yendodana, kufanele ubeke esikhundleni somama wakhe. Yiba ngowesifazane owakhathalelayo, ephekwe, ehlanziwe futhi enikezwe konke. Nayo, kufanele uzizwe ekhaya.

Kodwa ungayinaki futhi unakekele, njengoba umuntu eqala ukuzwa kuwe imizwa ehlobene. Ungakhohlwa, ukuthi ungumfazi nomfazi othandekayo. Akuyona nje into engiyithandayo, kodwa futhi eqinile, ozimele futhi, ayifakiwe, lokho kuyikhono. Phela, umgomo wakho ukuqeqesha indodana yendodana yakho ukuba izimele, "yenza u-rag" ube nobuntu obunamandla, ongenza izinqumo ngokuzimela ngaphandle kokusebenzisa umama obaluleke kakhulu ngesikhathi esithola ithuba lokuqala.

Khumbula ukuthi, naphezu kobunzima empilweni yomndeni kanye nommeleli wobulili obunamandla walesi sigaba, umphumela wokufunda kabusha ngeke ufike isikhathi eside. Into esemqoka ukulandela amathiphu angenhla futhi ukholwe othandweni lwakho.