Kuhle, ubude, ngokwakhiwa kwezemidlalo futhi ngempela kwihhashi elimhlophe (kuyi-version yanamuhla emotweni emhlophe engaphandle ebiza kakhulu). Emahlweni amantombazane amaningi lesi sithombe sinobuhle iminyaka eminingi. Kodwa yini okufanele wenze amadoda amancane, ayingxenye e-bald emotweni yasekhaya? Kodwa iningi elikhulu kakhulu kuleli zwe! Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe yini ongayisho, umbuzo walokho amadoda angempela kufanele abe khona sekuyisikhathi eside abe yizimpendulo. Kodwa sizozama ukuyiphendula.
Yini okufanele ibe indoda ekahle?
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufuna okuhle komfazi, ake sibone ukuthi abesifazane abathandekayo bafuna ngempela amadoda. Muva nje, izazi zengqondo zenze ucwaningo, inhloso yalo ukuhlolisisa ukuthi izidingo zabesifazane zihlangabezana nezimfanelo zangempela abantu abaningi abanakho. Ngenxa yocwaningo kwacaca ukuthi abesifazane abangu-16% kuphela ababona ubulili obuqinile ngaphandle kokucabanga. Abanye besifazane banenkinga eminingi, noma bafuna ingxenye yabo yesibili. Masiqede zonke izinkolelo ngalokho umuntu okufanele abe khona:
Ukulinganisa oku-1: umzimba ugcwele. Futhi uzoyilungiselela ukudla kwabagijimi, futhi e-gym uzochitha isikhathi esiningi kunani.
Ukulinganisa oku-2: okuhle. Yiqiniso, indoda kufanele ibe mnandi kakhulu kunemonkey. Kodwa ukuboleka empilweni yomuntu siqu "ye-Apollo" ukulungiselela izixuku zabalandeli kanye namafoni abo kanye nama-sms azo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba kuboniswe imikhuba eminingi, la madoda ahlonishwa kakhulu. Uzoba yini eduze komuntu obhalwe kahle?
Isibonelo esilandelayo: umthandi wezingane nezilwane. Qala ukuhlala ndawonye, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzohola i-Doberman noma iSt. Bernard. Awu, uma unenhlanhla, futhi ungakhubeki kuleso sikhwama semifino nezilwane.
Isiqephu esine-4: isitayela. Umqondo wokunambitheka kwamadoda kufanele ube khona ngokungahlelekile. Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi abalandeli bemfashini bajikeleza phambi kwesibuko amahora amabili futhi ngesikhathi lapho usuphelile emsebenzini, ibhuloho iyobe isetshenziswe isitayela sakho.
Indoda yangempela, uphi?
Uma ucabanga ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo umuntu okufanele abe nazo, ungakheli izinkolelo nokulindela okungeke kwenzeke. Amaphutha amaningi akwenziwa ngesikhathi abesifazane, besengaphambili babecabanga kahle, baqale ukuqhathanisa nendoda yangempela. Futhi isikhathi sokudumazeka siqala. Yebo, indoda yakho inezici zezimfanelo ezanelisayo. Uhlanganyela imizwa yakho nemibono yakho empilweni. Kodwa ... ngokushesha nje uma kuziwa ebuhlotsheni obuseduze, uqala ukuziphatha ngendlela ehlukile kunokuba ungathanda. Lapha-ke, liyikhohlisi. Indoda ekahle iyoziphatha ngendlela oyidingayo, kodwa yangempela ayikho! Eqinisweni, umuntu ofanelekayo endalweni akakho nje.
Kodwa ungasheshi ukuthukuthela. Abamele ubulili obuqinile nabo banombono mayelana nokuthi yiziphi izimfanelo umuntu okufanele abe nazo nokuthi yini okufanele alwele:
- Ukuba nengqondo. Noma yimuphi umuntu kumele azi ukuthi angasebenzisa kanjani ubuchopho bakhe. Kulungile, uma ingqondo ingeziwe futhi isetshenziswe.
- Amandla. Kungokwemvelo ngaphakathi kwemingcele ekwazi ukukwazi ukuzimela, futhi nokuvikela intombazane yabo, ingane, nokuyihlinzeka ngokuphepha.
- Uthando lwezingane. Umuntu ofanelekayo kufanele abe ngubaba omuhle. Kodwa njengoba umkhuba ubonisiwe, le mfanelo ivukela kumadoda ngokungasheshi,
njengokungathi amantombazane afuna. - Ukuphana. Indoda akufanele ibeke izipho kumkakhe nezingane. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuyadingeka uma kwenzeka umfazi engumuntu owonakele odinga kuphela izipho, noma imali azoyisebenzisa kuma-trinkets.
Futhi indoda yangempela kufanele izimisele, iqiniseke, ibukhali futhi ihlelekile. Kodwa akekho onelungelo lokuvimbela lo wesilisa ononya ukuba ahlale engunaphakade, ukuthanda izimoto nokumba egaraji, ukuchitha isikhathi nabangani, noma ukuphuza ubhiya, ehlezi embhedeni futhi ebuka ibhola. Le mikhuba iyohlala ikhona empilweni yabantu. Futhi abesifazane abathandekayo banganika iseluleko esisodwa esibalulekile. Ukubuza umbuzo wendoda yangempela okufanele uyikhumbule, khumbula: iqoqo lezimfanelo ezinhle alikenzi nhlobo ubuntu bomuntu obuhle. Ekugcineni, noma ngabe uke uhlangabezane nomunye endleleni yakho yokuphila, uzobe usubalekela ngaphandle kokuthola isizathu sokuthola iphutha futhi uhamba ngobuhlungu.