Abamele abaningi besilisa abalungile bakholelwa ukuthi idatha enhle yangaphandle iqinisekisa ukuphumelela kwamadoda. Ngempela, ekuqaleni indoda igxila ekubukeni komuntu wesifazane, futhi ayinandaba ngesikhathi esifanayo, unomzimba omncane noma u-pyshechka, i-blonde noma i-brunette, emifushane noma emude - kukhona uhlobo lwezinhlobo zomfazi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi yini abantu abafana namantombazane ngemuva kwegobolondo langaphandle, yiziphi izici zobuntu ezikwazi ukuheha umuntu.
Idatha yangaphandle
Iningi lethu lisuke lithinteka kakhulu nomqondo wokulahlekelwa isisindo kanti ngisho ne-thinnest izothola izimpawu zesisindo esiningi nokuhluleka. Ngalokhu akukho okumele kwenziwe, lokhu kuyinto yethu yonke, kodwa akufanele sibe njenge-supermodels ezivela emaphethini. Akusilolo hlobo lwesifazane oluheha abantu ekuphileni. Ake sibone ukuthi amantombazane abathanda ukubonakala kwabesifazane afana nani, futhi iyiphi idatha yangaphandle engakunaka.
Ngokungangabazeki, bangaki abantu - imibono eminingi kangaka. Wonke umuntu unomusa wakhe kanye nokuthandayo. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kwezibalo, akekho kubo ongayikudlula amafomu amahle azungezile wesibalo sesifazane. Uma unesifuba esikhulu namacici amakhulu, kodwa ngesinqe esincane - yilokho kanye amantombazane abathanda emantombazaneni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unesisindo esingakanani.
Ngokuqondene nezici zobuso obuhle, ngokungangabazeki lokhu kuzoheha abantu. Nokho, ubuhle akuyona yonke into abantu abafana nayo. Idatha yangaphandle ayibalulekile kakhulu ukuthi indoda ilahlekelwe ikhanda layo kanye. I-Beauties ingaba yiziphukuphuku futhi ingabi kude, futhi, ngemva kokukuqonda lokhu, umfana ngeke akwazi ukunaka i-doll-pacifier. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuhle bujwayele ukujwayela, futhi uma intombazane ingenakho ukufaneleka, umphumela uzoba udabukile.
Izwe langaphakathi
Okubaluleke nakakhulu, yilokho abafana abathanda kakhulu, yizintandokazi zangaphakathi zentombazane, izici ezinhle zomlingisi wakhe. Okokuqala, lezi zimfanelo zihlanganisa ukuvuleka nobuqotho, ukululazeka komlingiswa nokumomotheka, isimo sengqondo esihle kanye nethemba. Uma intombazane ikhuluma ukuthi ingamhlonipha umfana hhayi njengento yocansi lobucansi, kodwa njengomuntu, nakho konke ukufaneleka kwayo nokudangala, khona-ke yilokhu ngempela abafana abathanda ukukuzwa.
Ngokuqondene nalokho abantu abathandayo mayelana nobuhlobo, izimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu lapha zikulungele ukuqonda nokusekela ngesikhathi esibucayi, ukulalela nokududuza, ukuzola. Ngaphambi kwentombazane enjalo, indoda ayesabi ukwenqatshwa, uyaqonda ukuthi ngemuva kwakhe kuhlinzekwe ngokuphepha, ukuthi angalwela futhi aqhubekele phambili emigomeni emikhulu. Akuyona into embi uma intombazane enezici ezinjengokuqonda nokuzijabulisa, ikhono lokuthethelela nokuningi ngokubheka ukwehluleka - lokhu kusebenza nakancane nalokho abafana abathandayo kumantombazane.
Yikuphi okungafanele kube khona?
Ake sihambe ngokuphambene futhi sibone ukuthi akuthandi yini amantombazane emantombazaneni, lokho abangasoze bafuna ukubona abakhethiweyo babo. Ngaphandle kwezimfanelo ezimbi kakhulu, ezifana nentukuthelo, inzondo, umhawu, ukuhaha, njll, kunamaphuzu amancane amaningi, okuyinto, ngeshwa, yonke intombazane inayo. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe unezimpikiswano ezinjalo, kufanelekile ukuzama ukuzifihla ngangokunokwenzeka kusuka okhethiweyo wakho. Futhi ngokucindezela njalo ukushiyeka kwabo, ungawaqeda unomphela! Ngakho, abafana abathandani amantombazane:
- abangenandaba nokuzidla;
- befuna ukukhombisa ukuphakama kwabo;
- kuyize, ngokuzihlonipha okukhulu;
- ozimele ngokweqile futhi ozimele;
- ukugxeka umuntu njalo;
- i-coarse futhi iqondile kakhulu;
- uzenzisi namanga;
- okuyimfihlo kanye ne-quirky;
- efuna ukulawula ngokweqile umfana;
- abangenangqondo nabangenamusa;
- abanesibindi, abahlala benesizungu, bengenelisekile futhi benganeliseki;
- unfeminine.
Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, ungafihla ngobuhlakani ukuhluleka kwakho futhi ugcizelele ngazo zonke izindlela isithunzi, futhi uzonikezwa ubulili obunamandla!