I-Deviant ibizwa ngokuthi ukuziphatha okungahambisani nemingcele evamile evumelanisiwe. Ukubaluleka kokuvimbela ukuziphatha okuphambene kwabantu abasha kubangelwa ukuthi ngokuvamile lokhu kuziphatha kungaba yingozi hhayi kwabanye kuphela, kodwa nakwabasebasha ngokwabo. Ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle kuyingozi, kuvimbela ukungena okujwayelekile kwabantu abasha emphakathini, kuthinta kabi isimo sengqondo sabasakhulayo kubo futhi ukuxhumana namanye amalungu omphakathi.
Izinkinga zokuvimbela ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle
Ukubaluleka kokuvimbela ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle kuhlotshaniswa, okokuqala, ngokuhambisana ngokuqondile kokuziphatha okungahambi kahle kwezingane ezisencane nobugebengu emphakathini: uma kubonakala sengathi ukuziphatha okulimazayo kwabantwana nasebancane, kuphakamisa amandla abo okwenza ubugebengu.
Uhlelo lokuvimbela ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle kwezingane ezisencane kufanele lusize izingane ukuba zenze izinga elifanele lezenhlalo nezengqondo. Intsha kumele iqonde imingcele yalokho evunyelwe futhi ihlukanise ngokucacile phakathi kwezindlela zokuxazulula izinkinga zabo ezibalulekile.
Izindlela zokuvimbela ukuziphatha okuphambene zihlanganisa:
- ukuqeqeshwa kwengqondo;
- izinkulumo zemfundo, izinkulumo;
- izinhlelo zemfundo.
Noma yiluphi uhlelo lokuvimbela kwengqondo lokuziphatha okungahambi kahle kufaka phakathi amabhlogo ambalwa, phakathi kwawo:
- Ukuvimbela ukuxhomeka kwengqondo.
- Ukwakheka kwesimo sengqondo esihle ngokwalo kanye nokuhle "I-ukucabanga".
- Ukuvimbela ukwephulwa kobulili.
Ukuvimbela umphakathi ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle kusiza abantu abasha ukuthi bafunde ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo ngokuvunyelwa ngokuvamile, izindlela nezindlela ezisemthethweni.
Kuye ngezinga lomonakalo obangelwa ezithakazelweni zomphakathi, amaqembu noma abantu ngabanye bahlukanisa izinhlobo eziningana zokuziphatha okungahambi kahle:
- okulimazayo, okulimaza kuphela umntwanakho ngokwakhe - ubuso lobuhle, ukuqongelela, njll;
- ubuhlanga, ukulimaza iqembu lomphakathi (umndeni, abangane, omakhelwane) - ukulutha izidakamizwa, utshwala, njll;
- ngokungemthetho, okuyinto yokwephula izindinganiso zomthetho zokuziphatha zomphakathi - ukungalingani, ukuphanga, ukubulala, njll.
Izindlela zokuvimbela ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle
Ukuvimbela ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle, izindlela ezilandelayo zisetshenziswa:
- ukunakekela ukuvikeleka kwezimali kwabantwana kanye nemindeni yabo;
- inhlangano yokuzilibazisa intsha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuhlela ukuzilibazisa izingane kanye nentsha kufanele kube ezingeni elifanele - ngokuhambisana nezidingo zezikhathi, ukuze kube mnandi kakhulu kubantwana;
- ukuqhuba izifundo zemfundo nezinhlelo ezithuthukisa imfundo yabantu abasha kanye nokunciphisa kwentsha ngokumelene nokudakwa ngokweqile, ukubhema nokusetshenziswa kwezinye izinto ezidakayo;
- ukukhuthazwa kokuphila okunempilo, ukuvinjelwa kokukhangisa utshwala, imikhiqizo kagwayi.
Amazinga okuvimbela ukuziphatha okungafaneleki kufanele afake wonke amazinga abantu kanye nazo zonke izakhiwo zomphakathi. Ngaphandle kokuvinjelwa okuhleliwe, okuphelele, akunakwenzeka ukufeza imiphumela emihle emihle.
Izindlela nezindlela zokuvimbela kufanele zihambisane nokubonakaliswa kokubonakaliswa kokulahlekelwa.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ekuvikeleni ukuziphatha okungathandeki kujwayelekile, ukuthembela ubudlelwane nabazali. Kwenzeka ukuthi intsha ibonisa ukuziphatha okuphambene kuphela ezimweni ezithile - kuphela ekhaya, kuphela esikoleni noma nabangani. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bafune ubuhlobo obuseduze nengane yabo - intombazane kumele iqonde ukuthi noma ngabe yenze iphutha, abazali bayo ngeke bamshiye, angakwazi njalo ukusekelwa nokusizwa komndeni wakhe. Kuphela ngale ndlela ungaqiniseka ukuthi uma izinkinga ingane iqala ukufuna usizo kubazali bayo.