Ngeshwa, namuhla kuyinto evamile ukuhlangana nentsha emgwaqweni ngebhola lebhiya kanye nogwayi. Eqinisweni, kuseyizingane, intsha ivame ukuba abantu abadala kwezigqila zokuxila ngokweqile, engazi kahle ngokugcwele imiphumela. Ukudakwa ngokweqile sekuyisikhathi esiyingozi, kuphazamisa impilo ebuthakathaka yabantwana, ngokomzimba nokuziphatha, ukuphula impilo hhayi nje kuphela yomsana, kodwa komndeni wakhe wonke.
Izimbangela zokuphuza kwentsha
Izizathu zokuthi kungani ingane iqala "ukubheka ebhodleleni" ingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amabili. Isisekelo sezizathu zeqembu lokuqala yisifiso sokugcina amasiko, ukufunda izizwa ezintsha futhi uzizwe njengomuntu omdala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile intsha ibheka utshwala njengendlela yokubhekana namahloni, ingabi nokuvinjelwa futhi inqobe ukwesaba kokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Namanje engazange azame utshwala, lo mfana usebheka ukuthi kuyindlela elula yokuthakazelisa okuyingozi engayikuletha okhethekile, kodwa kuyosiza kuphela ukuvula. Kodwa "ukuzijwayeza" nge-ingilazi kuphenduka ubuhlungu, ukuvutha emlonyeni nokukhanda ikhanda, emva kwalokho isifiso sokuqhubeka nayo okwesikhashana sidlula. Isikhathi sidlula, izinzwa ezingathandeki zikhohliwe, futhi kuvela izizathu ezintsha zokuphuza - ukuphela kwesikole, ukungena ngokuphumelelayo enyuvesi, izinsuku zokuzalwa. Ingilazi emva kwengilazi, ingane ingena enambithekeni, bese kuthi iqembu lesibili lesisusa livela esiteji, ngokusekelwe ekuvinjisweni kwe-banal, ukungakwazi ukuzitholela ngokwabo kanye nokuqondisa amandla okufeza imigomo efanele. Ukufunda izincwadi, ukutadisha nokudlala imidlalo, intombazane ikhetha ubusuku phakathi nenkampani yabangane ngokuphuza okudingekayo utshwala, ngokuvamile ubhiya. Ukudakwa ngokweqile kwabasha kuyisimo esasakazeka kakhulu, ngoba ubhiya obuqhathaniswa ne-vodka bubonakala njengesisindo esingenabungozi, esingelona umlutha, futhi kulula ukuwuthenga.
Ama-ethers e-Zapolonivshaya athengisa iziphuzo ezidakayo, izigcawu ezivela kumafilimu lapho amadoda anhle kakhulu nabesifazane abahle, ababekezelela kalula ukulinganiswa kwamahhashi okuphuza utshwala, futhi badlala indima ebalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukuxhomeka kotshwala kwabasha.
Umphumela wotshwala emzimbeni womusha osemusha
Ukusetshenziswa kotshwala ngabantu abasha kuhlanganisa imiphumela emibi ngempela. Noma kunjalo akusiyo imvelo eqinisiwe, engakulungele ukulwa nalolu hlobo olunobuthi, ngakho-ke luzinikezela ngokushesha. Utshwala luvimbela umsebenzi wezinhlelo ze-nervous and digestive, kubhubhisa isibindi, kubangele ukuhlukumeza okwedlula zonke ezingxenyeni zesimiso sokuzala, okubangele ukungabi nabantwana kwabesifazane. Intombazane ejwayele ukuphuza utshwala, ngokuvamile ehlotsheni, ithinteka yizifo ezibandayo ezibandayo, ngenxa yokunciphisa ukuzivikela. Futhi-ke, imiphumela embi kunazo zonke yokusetshenziswa kotshwala ngabantu abasha zihlobene nokuguquka komuntu - izinguquko zomlingiswa, intshisekelo yokuphila iyanyamalala, iyakwehlisa amandla, zonke izintshisekelo ziphephe ekuphuzeni.
Kuthiwani uma ingane isiphuza?
- Uma uzizwa iphunga lokuphuza utshwala kusuka kumntanakho, ungasheshi ngokushesha. Thumela kabusha ingxoxo kuze kufike ekuseni, kodwa manje usisize
kufanele alele embhedeni. - Bheka ingane, cabanga ngezinkinga azama ukuzixazulula ngokusebenzisa ukuphuza, ukukhuluma ngomoya ophansi no-unobtrusively ngalesi sihloko. Zama ukusekela nokusekelwa kwakhe.
- Zama ukwenza ngokungasebenzi, kodwa ngobuqili. Ungamvimbeli ukuba umeme abangani endlini, ngisho noma bengakuthandi, ngoba umgqugquzela nje ukuthi akwenze. Xoxa naye imithetho yokuziphatha nokuhlangana, ukwamukela izivakashi.
- Khuluma nomuntu osemusha mayelana nemiphumela yomzimba wakhe wokuphuza utshwala, njengoba kuthinta ingqondo yakhe nempilo yakhe.