Akukho okwenzeka ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi uma le ntsha ishiya ekhaya, kusho ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile. Ngakho-ke, ngaphezu kokusesha ingane yakho, kumele futhi sithole imbangela yalesi senzo esibi. Ngenxa yobudala babo, intsha ibheka umbono ohlukile okwenzekayo, ngezinye izikhathi ohluke kakhulu embonweni omdala wesimo.
Uma ingane isuka ekhaya, kubalulekile ukwenza kanje:
- khuluma nabo bonke abangane bakhe, abajwayele nezihlobo;
- hlola ngokucophelela yonke impahla yomuntu;
- ukumemezela ukulahlekelwa emaphoyiseni;
- ukubeka izikhangiso ekusesheni kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, emgwaqweni nasekuthuthweni;
- qhubeka uxhumana futhi ungesabi.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekutholeni oshiywe ekhaya lasekukhuleni, ngokuziphatha kahle emhlanganweni wokuqala, ngaphandle kwalokho ungavusa ukuphunyuka okulandelayo.
Awukwazi ukumangaza nokumjezisa ngokuphepha, udinga ukumbonisa ukuthi uyamthanda nokuthi ubaluleke kangakanani kuwe, bese uqala ukuthola ukuthi kungani eshiya ekhaya.
Izizathu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani izingane zisuka ekhaya
Ukungahlali emndenini
Ubudlova basekhaya, abazali abaphila ngendlela engafani nhlobo, ukungondleki kuyashukumisela izingane ukuba zihambe emgwaqweni, lapho zingabhubhisa khona konke lokhu. Ngokujwayelekile ezimweni ezinjalo, izingane zihamba njalo, ngokushesha uma kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba zikhuthaze. Bachitha ubusuku ezisezindlini zangasese noma ezijwayelene nabo emgwaqweni, baqala ukujwayela utshwala nezidakamizwa.
Ukwesaba ukujeziswa
Ngemuva kokuthola ukuhlolwa okungalungile noma engahlangabezane nezilingo zabazali ekuhlolweni, izingane zabo ezihlukunyezwa kakhulu noma ezicindezela kwengqondo emndenini, befuna ukugwema, zithola indlela yokungabuyeli ekhaya.
Ukuvimbela ukuphenduka okunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali bangathandi ukuthatha ingane enhle kangakanani, kufanele sibuye njalo ukuthi bayamthanda nanoma yikuphi ukuhlolwa.
Uthando
Uthando olungavunyelwe noma ukuvinjelwa kobudlelwane kungenye yezizathu ezivame kakhulu zokushiya izingane ekukhuleni. Ngesikhathi besabela kakhulu kubo bonke ngenxa yokulungiswa kwama-hormone, abazali kufanele basekele, bahlathulule, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangamhleki futhi bawenqabe imizwa yengane yabo, noma ngabe bacabanga ukuthi kusheshe kakhulu.
Ingane yathintana nenkampani embi
Ukuxhumana nenkampani embi, intsha, ukuze yamukeleke kuyo noma ngaphansi kwethonya layo, ngokufuna ukuzijabulisa okungavunyelwe, ingashiya ekhaya. Ukuvimbela lokhu, abazali kufanele bahlele ubuhlobo obethembayo nengane yabo futhi bazi ukuthi ukhuluma nobani futhi abheke ngokucophelela izinguquko ekuziphatheni.
Njengombhikisho ngokumelene ne-hyperope
Ngokuvamile, eneminyaka engu-13-14, izingane ezincane zifuna ukuzimela, futhi abazali babo abahlale bekulungele ukuzinikela. Ngenxa yalokho, kukhona ukungqubuzana okungaholela ekuphumeni ekhaya ukufuna inkululeko. Ngokuvamile ingane ihamba kubangani noma ivele icishe ifoni kanye nabazulazula ezungeze imigwaqo.
Ukuheha ukunakwa kwabazali
Lesi simo sibonakala emindenini emibili ehluphekile futhi kahle uma abazali bengayinaki
Zonke lezi zizathu zihlobene nezici ezingokwengqondo zokukhula: ukuvela komuntu omdala, ukuvuthwa kwe-hormonal, maximalism, njll. Ukuze kuvinjelwe ukuhoxiswa emndenini, abazali abanabantwana ekukhuleni kumele bahlole kabusha ukuxhumana kwabo nabo, baqale ukubala imibono, baxhase futhi bahloniphe njengomuntu.