Njengezilwane ezincelisayo eziningi, indoda izalwa isidalwa esingenakuzisiza, sincike kakhulu kubantu ngabanye abadala, ikakhulukazi - kubazali. Kusukela sonke isikhathi ingane iyozungezwa yinhlobo yakhe, ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe kokuqala kuthatha uhlobo lokubizwa okushicilelwe, okushicilelwa phansi. Kuthi ukuthi yikuphi ukushicilela futhi sizokutshela ngezansi.
Indlela yokunyathelisa isekelwe ekulungiselelweni kwezinto ezithile noma izinhlobo zokuziphatha, futhi ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe isikhathi esilinganiselwe sesikhathi "esibucayi", ezinkathini zokuqala zokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushicilela kuyinzima kakhulu ukushintsha, futhi kuthatha isikhathi ukuthatha, ngomhlangano owodwa nento yokushicilelwa.
Ngesikhathi sokuqala, lo mqulu uhlolwe ngezinyoni, amatshwane awo ngokushesha ngemva kokubeletha alandela abazali (ukushicilela "okulandelayo" kungabonwa kwezinye izilwane ezincelisayo, isibonelo, izinyamazane, amahhashi, njll), futhi abazali "bakhethe" amakhophu kusukela ekubonweni kokuqala izidalwa ngisho nezinto. Imfuno kuphela yamatshwele kwakuwukuthi "umama" uzohamba, isb. ukuze ukwazi ukukulandela.
Kamuva, ukubunjwa kwesimo esimweni esiphundu kumakhaza kwakutholakala, futhi izinhlobo eziyinhloko zokushicilela zavezwa. Njengoba kubonakala, ukushicilela akuyona kuphela izilwane, kodwa futhi kubantu.
Izinhlobo zokushicilelwa kubantu:
- ukuphrinta ngomlomo. Okunamathiselwe esifubeni, futhi ngesigxivizo somlomo, kwenzeka kusukela kumahora okuqala wokuzalwa komuntu. Ukufuna indawo ekhululekile kuhlelwe yilowo nalowo kithi, futhi isifuba sikamama kuyindawo yokududuzeka nokuphepha. Lona iphuzu lapho indawo ephephile izokwandisa esikhathini esizayo (njengokulinda kusuka esifubeni). Kusukela ezimweni lapho kuqala ukunyatheliswa komlomo, isikhundla somuntu (esicasulayo noma esivikelayo) sincike kakhulu, kanye nesu lakhe lokusinda;
- indawo-ukushicilelwa ngokomzwelo. Ukuqaliswa kwalesi siqeshana kwenzeka esiteji sokuthuthukiswa kwensimu nokuvunyelwa kwesimo sayo, okungukuthi, esiteji sokuqeqesha ukunyakaza okuzimele. Indima yomuntu emphakathini incike ezimweni lapho kufundwa kwenzeka khona: okuphezulu noma okuphansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinyane lomuntu lizama ukulwa nesikhala, "kubhala" ukugula kwakhe;
- Ukuguqulwa kwezwi kuhlotshaniswa nemisipha yesandla sokunene kanye nemisipha emincane ye-larynx. Lokhu kuncike ekukhulumeni, ekucabangeni nasekuqaphelweni komlingiswa. Ingane izinquma i-logic yansuku zonke, ilenga ezintweni ezizungeze amalebula;
- ezenhlalakahle (ezenhlalo) Lolu hlobo lokushicilela luhlose ukwakheka kokubambisana kwe-intraspecific (kanye ne-interspecific). Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuyinhloko unquma ukuthanda okuqhubekayo ngokobulili komuntu, umndeni wakhe kanye nendima yomphakathi. Izifo zobulili zivame ukubuyela emuva emnyangweni wezenhlalo.
Mhlawumbe nawe uzwile ngomqondo onjengokushicilelwa ngokobuciko, kodwa ukuguqulwa kwegciwane kuyinkqubo ye-epigenetic eyenzeka ngezinga elihlukile. Futhi uma ngokunyatheliswa kwengqondo singakwazi ukulandelela izinqubo zengqondo futhi
Ngokwengqondo, kukholelwa ukuthi ukushicilelwa kumuntu kwenzeka esikhathini eside - kusukela ekuzalweni kuya ezinyangeni eziyisithupha. Kodwa eminyakeni embalwa elandelayo ibaluleke kakhulu kumntwana, efaka imodeli yobudlelwano nezwe langaphandle. Ngaphandle kwesizathu, ezinye izizwe zazibheka izingane kuze kube yiminyaka eyisithupha njengabadayisi, oxhumana nabo okulawulwa ngokuqinile. Futhi khumbula inganekwane, lapho izingane ezincane zibona khona izwe azifani ngokufanayo nabantu abadala abakubona.