Umeluleki omkhulu womuntu ngamunye yizwi langaphakathi, futhi izincomo zokuzwa ukuthi izwi lakho elingaphakathi libhekwa njengezifanele kakhulu esikhathini sethu, ngesikhathi sishintsha ngokushesha isikhala solwazi.
Abantu abaningi baphila, hhayi ngeziqondiso zabo, kepha ngokuvamile belalela izeluleko zabanye, hhayi nje ngokwabo, bephendukela kubazali, othisha, ababikezeli bezinhlanhla, abadayisi. Futhi laba bantu abaqapheli ngisho nokuthi bayaphesheya kokuqonda kwabo kwezwe, izindlela, izinqumo nezinjongo zokuphila kwabo, okubangela izinkinga eziningi kangaka.
Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ukusikisela kwezwi langaphakathi njalo kukuvumela ukuthi ukwazi kahle amabutho angavamile, empeleni ahlose ikusasa lethu. Ngokuthola izwi langaphakathi, umuntu uthola izinzuzo ezinkulu ngaphezu kwabanye abantu kunoma yiluphi udaba.
Ukulalela kanjani izwi langaphakathi?
Abantu abaningi kulo mbuzo "Indlela yokufunda ukulalela izwi langaphakathi?" Abakwazi ukuphendula. Ngakho-ke, ngalokho? Ukuze sikhuthaze indlela efanele yokucabanga ngalokhu, siphakamisa ukuthi unake izincomo ezilandelayo.
Into eyinhloko okufanele uyenze kuqala ukushintsha impilo yakho ngokukhululekile, ususe ingqondo yakho ngemibono yamanga ngobuntu bakho. Ngezansi kukhona izincomo ukuze uthi emphumela wokuphela: "Ngizwa izwi langaphakathi!"
Indlela yokufunda ukulalela izwi langaphakathi?
- Isikhathi sakho. Kusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukuhlala wodwa nawe. Hlala endaweni enjalo, efana nalokho okuzindla, bese kuthi leyo ngxenye yobuntu bakho izovuleka eyayibophezela imfashini nokuzikhethela, hhayi "okulungile" kokuphila.
- Ukukhathalela wena. Konke okwanele ukwenza okufunayo. Thola impendulo yombuzo oyifunayo bese uyeka ukuzithoba ngesifiso sabanye abantu.
- Idayari engokomzwelo . Chaza konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho ephepheni noma encwadini ye-electronic, ngaleyo ndlela
ukuqaphela imbangela yazo zonke izimo zokuphila nokuvumela ukuba uzizwe ngokwengeziwe, kuzifiso zakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. - Iphupho lokuchaza amaphupho akho. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuhumusha iphupho lakho nguwe, ngoba akekho omunye ongakwazi ukuthola izithombe zakho nezimpawu zakho kangcono.
- Ungakhohlwa ukudumisa. Ungazidumisa nganoma yikuphi: izimpumelelo, itiye ephuziweyo, ukuthenga ngempumelelo, ngesibindi uma uya kudokotela wamazinyo. Imisho ethi "Ngihle" singakwazi ukuzethemba.
- Lahla ulwazi olungadingekile. Ezweni lokugeleza okusheshayo kolwazi, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa ukwaziswa okudingekayo wena ngokwakho. Khohlwa nge-TV bese ususa ama-akhawunti kusuka kumanethiwekhi omphakathi.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - yiba ngokwakho. Umgwaqo ubonakala ngaphansi kwezinyawo zokuhamba. Futhi ufunda ukwethemba umbono wakho bese uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ngokwakho. Wena ungumphathi womkhumbi, induna yempilo yakho.