Kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi abantu abakuzungezile bangakwazi "ukuvusa", ukuzithanda kuphela, futhi ngobuqotho nangomusa! Namuhla, ngokumelene nesimo esilindelekile, abantu abaningi bayazifunela ngokwabo ngokweqile, bahlanganyela ngokuqinile emphakathini we-samoyedstvom ngisho nokuzibhubhisa. Isifo esinjalo sokungazithandi sichazwa ngokuphelela ngokweqile, ukubeka izindinganiso eziyimpumputhe kithi, nakuzozonke izigaba: ngokubukeka, nangokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, nangokwezimali. Ngokuvamile kusuka enkingeni enjalo ihlupheka kubantu abangashadile ebuntwaneni, noma labo okuphila kuwo "ekunameni" okungadingekile nokuphazamisa izakhiwo eziphilayo. Abantu abanjalo bengazi ukuthi bathande kanjani, ukuzihlonipha kwabo kuyaphansi.
Yamukela futhi uzithande akulula, kodwa kudingeka ufunde. Ekuqaleni kohambo umuntu kufanele aziqonde yena, aqonde izimbangela zokuhlushwa kwakhe, bese nje "ethande" yena nabanye. Kunezinhlelo eziningi ezikhethekile, okwenza ukuthi, ungaqonda ngokushesha ukuthi uzithanda kanjani. Ukuzivocavoca kwengqondo, okuphumelela kakhulu, sikunikeza kulesi sihloko.
Futhi manje siqhubeka ngokuqondile ezenzweni
- Ukuzivocavoca kokuqala kwenziwa kanje: hlala phambi kwesibuko esikhulu, bheka ukugxila ekucabangeni kwakho, uzama ukwamukela ngokwakho, ukubukeka kwakho njengento yangempela. Ngemuva kwemizuzu emihlanu, zitshele esibukweni ngothando lwakho ngokwakho, mayelana nokuthi uzibheka kanjani, uzisole, uthanda. Zibheke ngokwakho ngegama noma uzibize uthandekayo, amagama afisa kakhulu. Yenza umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca nsuku zonke, bese kuthi emva kwamasonto ambalwa uzomuzwa ukuthi kancane kancane isimo sakho sengqondo ngokuqondene nawe kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo kwabanye abantu siqala ukushintsha kangcono.
- Nakhu okunye ukuvivinya umzimba, akukho ukusebenza okuncane, ukukwenza kangcono, ukuhlanganisa nalo wokuqala. Isibonelo, ukuzivocavoca inombolo 1 ekuseni, futhi usebenzise inombolo yesi-2 kusihlwa. Ngakho-ke, thatha ipeni nephepha, hlukanisa ishidi zibe izingxenye ezimbili ezilinganayo. Ngesigamu esisodwa ubhala uhlu lwezimfanelo ezinhle zakho ezingamashumi amahlanu. Ngenye ingxenye - zonke izimfanelo nezakhiwo ongazithandi kuwe. Manje kusuka enhliziyweni, phuma kuwo wonke amagama avela ohlwini lwesibili. Ukuze uthuthukise umphumela, khipha isigamu "esingalungile" bese usishisa noma usiphonse emgodini wokudoba udoti. Kodwa konke okulotshwe ohlwini lokuqala, funda nsuku zonke! Izazi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi uzifake ngokwakho
ikhwalithi eyodwa zonke izinsuku ezintathu. - Umsebenzi wokugcina usebenza nsuku zonke ekuguquleni isimo sengqondo. Yonke into oyibona engalungile kuwe kufanele iphendulwe ngokwengqondo ibe yizintandokazi! Isibonelo, uma uzicabangela ukuthi uyashesha, zidumise ngokuziqhenya futhi ngokujulile ngakho konke, njalonjalo. Ukuze uzwisise, ungathatha upeni futhi, ukushintsha izimfanelo zakho ngokubhala.
Yizo zonke izincomo, ukufundisa ukuthi uzithanda kanjani, ukuzivocavoca okunikezwa lapha kuzokusiza ngempela ukuxazulula ngempumelelo inkinga enzima enjalo.