Ulimi lomzimba nezenzo zinikeza ulwazi olwengeziwe lwangempela nolucacile kunamazwi. Umuntu angakwazi ukulawula inkulumo yakhe, kodwa ubuso bakhe ubuso , ukuma kanye nokuziphatha okuhlukile kwenza kube lula ukuqonda imicabango nezinhloso zangempela ze-interlocutor.
I-Psychology yelimi lomzimba kanye nezenzo zomzimba
Abantu abaningi benza iphutha elibi kakhulu, hhayi ukulalela izenzo zomxhumanisi wabo. Iphuzu eliphelele ukuthi ukwazi ulimi lomzimba, ungafunda imicabango yabanye. Ulwazi olutholakali luzosiza ezimweni ezahlukene, isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana, ukuxoxisana, ukujwayela nobulili obuhlukile, njll.
Indima yolimi lwezandla nomzimba ekukhulumisaneni kuhle, ngoba ungafunda ulwazi oluningi oluwusizo ngomuntu. Isibonelo, uma ikhanda likhishiwe, i-interlocutor ifihla okuthile. Uma umuntu egubha ngezinyawo kuyisiginali sokuthi akanakwa ukunakwa. I-interlocutor, obheka nxazonke, ekhohlisayo noma eyesaba. Uma umuntu egubha izandla zakhe noma ethinta umzimba wakhe, yilokho azikhohlisa khona. Amandla, aphonswe phezu kwekhanda lakhe, akhombise ukuthi i-interlocutor ikhululekile, futhi uyabona kalula isihloko esixoxwa ngaso. Uma, ngesikhathi yengxoxo, umuntu uphendukela umzimba ekuqondeni kokuphuma, khona-ke ufuna ukuqeda futhi ahambe. Ukubamba ngesandla kungaveza okuningi, ngakho-ke uma isandla se-interlocutor siphezulu - lokhu kubonisa ukuphakama ngokomzimba. Ngilindele ukuthola into efiselekayo, umuntu uqala ukukhohla izindebe zakhe ngokungenasici.
Ulimi lomzimba nezenzo zamantombazane
- Uma izingalo ziwela, khona-ke le ndoda ayitholakali ekukhulumisaneni okude, futhi ufuna ukugcina ibanga.
- Uzwela lwentombazane luzoboniswa ngokushaya isikhumba, ngoba le ndawo ibhekwa njengenye yezindawo ezivame kakhulu.
- Isibonakaliso socansi ukuvezwa kwentanyeni kusuka ezinyaweni nokuyibeka phansi. Kulokhu, le ndoda ayikwazi ukungabaza ukuthi le ndoda itholakala ekuthintana naye.
- Intshisekelo yintombazane ethile kumuntu othile izoboniswa yi-turner yomlenze ohlangothini
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Ulimi lomzimba kanye nezenzo zomuntu
- Izindebe ezicindezelekile zibonisa isimo sengqondo sokufutheka, futhi uma umuntu echitha ulimi lwakhe ezindebeni ngesikhatsi ingxoxo, khona-ke imicabango yakhe ikude kakhulu.
- Uma edonsa iminwe yakhe etafuleni - kubonisa ukucasuka. Ukukhanda i-ear lobe kubonisa ukukhathala kusuka ingxoxo.
- Emzimbeni womzimba kanye nokuzibonakalisa komuntu, kukholelwa ukuthi ukuchoboza ikhola kubonisa ukukhohlisa noma ukucasuka.
- Uma kwenzeka amehlo ehamba ngezindlela ezahlukene, khona-ke le ndoda iyakhohlisa noma izwa ukungavikeleki kuye.