Uma sizwa igama elithi "ukukhulumisana ngamazwi" ezingxenyeni eziyinhloko zamagama ziqala ukuphinda, ukuchazwa komqondo: "isenzo" - isenzo, isenzo, khuluma. Ngenxa yalokho, ngolimi olukhulunywe, ukukhulumisana ngamazwi ukudluliselwa kolwazi nganoma yiluphi ulwazi.
Ngokuqondene nokukhulumisana ngamazwi, izincwadi ziyabonakala, ngoba encwadini lezi ziyizwi elifanayo, imishwana, imibhalo.
Ingxoxo yomsindo nenkulumo ebhaliwe yizinhlobo zokuxhumana ngomlomo. Kanti, inkulumo yomlomo ingahle ibonwe ngumuntu oyedwa - indaba yomuntu oyedwa kuphela, kanye nenkhulumomphendvulwano - ukushintshaniswa okunye kokukhuluma phakathi kwabakwa-interlocutors. Yonke le nkulumo ingaphandle.
Ngaphakathi kungukuthi i-monologue esilahlekile ekhanda lethu, abanye bangase babe nenkhulumomphendvulwano, noma ngisho nemidlalo yaseshashalazini. Ngokufanayo nezinhlobo zokuxhumana ngamazwi, i-dactyl iyindlela ekhethekile yokuxhumana ngosizo lwesistimu ekhethekile yezenzo ezenziwe ngezandla.
Isici esiyinhloko sokukhulumisana ngamazwi futhi umehluko ovela ekukhulumisaneni okungakhulumi ngamazwi kufana nokulingana kolwazi oludlulisiwe ngosizo lwamagama. Imisindo nesimo sokubukeka, yiqiniso, yizibonakaliso eziqhakazile futhi ezinengqondo, kodwa ngokusobala ziphansi kunezakhiwo zomlomo. Futhi lapho kutholakala ama-interlocutors ukude nomunye, ukukhulumisana ngamazwi kuphela kungakha "ibhuloho" phakathi kwabo.
Izindlela zokuxhumana ezenzakalayo
Futhi yini ekhonjelwe ekusetshenzisweni kwamazwi okukhuluma? Empeleni, lapho lokhu kukhulumisana khona kwenzeka khona. Zombili izinguqulo zokubhala ezilotshiwe nezomlomo zibhekwa njengezinhlelo zezinhlamvu. Yilezi zinhlelo ezisebenza njengendlela yokuxhumana ngomlomo.
Ngomlomo singakwazi ukushintshanisa ulwazi nabantu bethu, abajwayele, abangane, abahlala ngqo endaweni yethu nasesikhathini sethu. Kodwa ngosizo lwenkulumo ebhaliwe, kungenzeka ukuba uqaphele ukukhulumisana okukude kuphela, kodwa ukuze ujwayele yonke ifa lezizukulwane eziningi, ama-epochs, imikhosi, izigcawu zomlando phakathi nokukhona kwesintu: kusukela e-rock art kuya ezindabeni ezintsha zamaphephandaba.
Imithetho yokukhulumisana ngamazwi
Umthetho wukuthi kubalulekile ukulalela ukufezekisa umgomo ohlosiwe, ngaphandle kwalokho, kuzohluleka, ukudumazeka nokuntuleka komphumela oyifunayo.
Ukukhulumisana ngamazwi kudinga ukuhambisana nemithetho ethile:
- Inkulumo yesikhulumi kumlaleli iveza ukuthi kukhona inhlonipho yokuqala kanye nesimo sengqondo esivumelana nalo.
- Ukugwema ukubeka isikhundla somuntu, iphuzu emkhakheni wezinkinga, ukuhlolwa komuntu siqu, isimo. Noma ingxoxo enengqondo "yezingalo ezinzima."
- Ukugcina ukuvumelana phakathi kwengxoxo, ukubuka logiki esimweni esibukiwe.
- Ukukhethwa kwesitayela senkulumo ngokuhambisana nokuhlanganyela komlingani ekukhulumisaneni nesizwe esithile, i-subculture, isigaba somphakathi.
- Ukugcinwa komyalelo wesitatimende semibono, ukuphazanyiswa kwe-interlocutor ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacile, kuzokwenza ukuthi isikhulumi sibe umuntu onesiko eliphansi lokukhuluma.
Indlela yokwenza ukuxhumana ngamazwi kuphumelele?
Noma ubani othanda nganoma iyiphi indlela yokuxhumana wabuza umbuzo ofanayo. Futhi uma kunikezwa ukuthi akekho okhona kunoma yini ephelele, wenza amaphutha kwelinye lezinto zokuxhumana. Njengoba kungase kubonakale kunzima, akunzima kakhulu ukuba ube interlocutor othandekayo futhi oyifunayo.
Kwanele ukugcina engxoxweni amaphuzu alandelayo:
- Nakuba isikhathi singabizi ngokweqile, ungabi nesisindo sokuyisebenzisa ngokulalela umlingani wakho. Uma unamandla okulalela - umphumela uzobuya kuwe izikhathi eziyikhulu.
- Sebenzisa okwamukelwe ekuhlotsheni kokuziphatha kwezokuxhumana kwebhizinisi, ngamanye amagama, ukuhlonipha, ngcono. Isibonelo: "Uma ngikuqonda kahle, ucabanga ukuthi ..."
- Cabanga ngesimo somlingani ekukhulumisaneni ngesikhathi sesitatimende sakhe kubo. Ungagijimeli eziphethweni, ngoba umbono owenziwe nguwe ungase uwenze iphutha futhi uhlukanise i-interlocutor yakho.
- Ngesikhathi sokukhulumisana, qaphela isimo somzwelo womlingani, angase adinge ukwesekwa noma ngokulinganayo.
- Sebenzisa isenzo nesimo sokubukeka ngendlela efanele futhi ngokulinganisela, ngoba othile uzosabisa ingcindezi, futhi othile uzokucabangela ukuthi "awukho", i-postnovaty. Bukela ukusabela kwe-interlocutor.