Amazinga adingekayo kuphela ehhovisi lehhovisi, futhi empilweni ngokuvamile kuyasiza kakhulu ukuthola ikhono lokucabanga okungeyona ejwayelekile. Yilokho okuvumela umuntu ukuba adale, adale into entsha, ithuthukise emkhakheni oyifunayo. Ngenhlanhla, ngisho noma kungeyona impahla yakho ye-innate, ungakwazi njalo ukuyihlakulela.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukucabanga okungajwayelekile?
Manje, uma imicabango engacacisiwe, izitembu ezinkulumweni neminye imikhiqizo yemfundo yethu yohlobo olulodwa engaphelile ikhona yonke indawo, kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umthombo wokuphefumlelwa futhi ubone ukubonakala kwansuku zonke kusuka ohlangothini olusha, ngaphambilini kungabonakali.
Wonke ama-million futhi evelele, abantu abaphumelelayo njalo bathi kubalulekile ukufunda ukucabanga ngendlela ehlukile, ukushiya amafolda nama-templates avamile, njengoba nje indlela enjalo ifaneleka empumelelo enkulu.
Ukuze uthuthukise le mfanelo ewusizo, kudingeka uzinike njalo izigqoko nemisebenzi yokucabanga okungavamile, ngoba ukuqeqesha okujwayelekile kuphela kuholela emiphumeleni ebonakalayo. Uma nsuku zonke ubuchopho bakho buzoxazulula amaphuzu amaningana aloluhlobo, bese kuzimo ezijwayelekile uzoqala ukuphikisana nesikhathi ngendlela efanayo nangaphambili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuzosiza ukuthuthukisa ukucabanga okungavamile kanye nezincwadi ezibhaliwe ngabantu abakhulu abaye bazuza okuningi ekuphileni kwabo.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga okungajwayelekile
Cabanga ngemisebenzi embalwa okufanele uyenze ukuze wenze imicabango yakho ibe yindalo futhi ubuchopho bukunikeze izinketho ezingavamile.
- Ukuzivocavoca ngokuvumelana nezimo nokukhiqiza kokucabanga. Uthatha noma iyiphi into. Kulungile noma yikuphi - isibonelo, igugane elinombambo oqoshiwe, ibhodlela lembali, imfoloko. Imizuzu emihlanu nangalesi sikhathi, cabanga ngesilinganiso esiphezulu sesicelo salolu daba. Ngaphandle kwezimpendulo ezingenangqondo ezingenangqondo, ngokuphelele konke kucatshangelwa. Kungcono ukuqhuba iqembu noma okungenani ezimbili ndawonye, ukuze umoya wokuncintisana ukhona.
- Ukuzivocavoca enhlanganweni. Thatha izinto eziningana ngokuphelele. Isibonelo, ifasitela ne-tape yokunamathisela, umnyango nomhlabathi, ibhere le-teddy nezicathulo. Amaminithi amahlanu futhi uthole izimpawu eziningi ezivamile kulezi zinto. Ngokuqaliswa okulandelayo kwalolu hlelo, uzothola kulula futhi kulula ukuthola ukufana.
- Ukuzivocavoca ngencazelo. Cabanga into noma umuntu owazi kahle. Maka imizuzu emithathu futhi ngaphandle kwencazelo ngomlomo noma ngokubhala uchaza into ekhethiwe, eveza ukudlulisa imicabango nemizwa yabo ngaye.
- Imisebenzi engejwayelekile. Thatha enye yemisebenzi (noma ucabange ngokuzifanisa ngokwakho) bese ufika nenani eliphakeme lezixazululo ezikhona. Zingaba: i-crab + igwinya =, ice + isihlalo =, 2 * 2 = .... Lapho ubeka izimpendulo ngokwengeziwe, kuphakamisa ubuhlakani bakho.
- Ukuzivocavoca ngencazelo. Thatha noma yiliphi elinye lamagama ahlukile: abamnyama - abamhlophe, ubusika - ihlobo, ubanda - ukushisa, futhi bacabange kubo
ngangokunokwenzeka ukuchaza izichazamagama zabo. Isibonelo, ubumnyama (obuguquguqukayo, obungaqondakali, hhayi obukhanyayo) nokukhanya (okukhanyayo, izingelosi, iqhwa). - Ukuzivocavoca ukucabanga. Cabanga nganoma yisiphi isimo esimisiwe. Isibonelo, "Umama weza ekhaya evela emsebenzini," "i-kettle yaqala ukubilisa," "inja yaqhuma." Imizuzu emihlanu bese uthola inombolo enkulu yokuqhubeka komusho - okuthakazelisayo kakhulu, kungcono.
Uma wake waqeqesha noma uqeqesha imisipha, uyazi ukuthi ungathola umphumela kuphela esimweni sokuqeqeshwa okuvamile. Lo mthetho usebenza kahle ngokubili komzimba nobuchopho. Ungalindeli imiphumela emva kokuzivocavoca ezintathu - yenza njalo ngosuku noma okungenani izikhathi eziningana ngeviki, futhi ngenyanga uzobona imiphumela.