Muva nje kuningi okuqeqesha kanye nezinkulumo eziye zagcinwa, zinikeza iseluleko sendlela yokuba umuntu ophumelelayo futhi ozimele empilweni. Kubonakala sengathi ngaphandle kwalezo zinhlelo zokuqeqesha abantu bakhohliwe ukuthi bangafeza kanjani imigomo yabo. Kodwa ngokuvamile lezi ziyalezo zithatha isikhathi kuphela, ezingasetshenziswa ekuthutheleleni kakade empumelelweni .
Ungaba kanjani umuntu ophumelelayo nocebile empilweni?
Ukuze uthole impendulo yalo mbuzo, okokuqala kudingeka uqonde ukuthi usho ukuthini impumelelo. Wonke umuntu uqonda lo mqondo, omunye ucabanga ukuthi uphumelele ekusebenziseni imibono yokudala, hhayi ukunakekelwa ngokukhethekile ngembuyiselo yezezimali, omunye umuntu uzama ukuthola ingcebo nokukhathazeka, futhi omunye uzothola indlu ekhululekile nomndeni onobungane etafuleni lokudla.
Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo sokuqala sokuphendula umbuzo wokuthi ungumuntu onempumelelo kakhulu empilweni uzobe ubeka imigomo. Eqinisweni, kulesi sinyathelo lapho uhamba khona, ngokushesha nje lapho umuntu eqonda ngokucacile imigomo yakhe, uqala ukufuna izindlela zokuzifeza. Vele uthathe inkinga ukuba uthembeke futhi usekelwe ezimisweni zokungokoqobo - izikhulu zamafulethi azihambanga isikhathi eside, kodwa uma zilahleka, indodakazikazi ayibonisi intshiseko enkulu ekuboniseni izifiso zenkosikazi. Ngakho-ke, cabangela lezo zinsiza oyisebenzisayo ngempela, kunokuba kunezinye izindlela zokucabanga.
Ngokuqondene nobuqotho, kudingeka futhi uthi amagama ambalwa, cabanga ngalokho okudingayo, hhayi abanye abantu. Isibonelo, imibono yomphakathi ibheka ukuphumelela kokuba khona kwendoda yesifazane nabantwana, ngisho noma le ndoda engesona isibonelo, kanti izingane azizona ezondliwa kakhulu - kusengcono. Ufuna ngempela injabulo ejwayelekile yowesifazane, cabanga. Noma esinye isibonelo: imvelo yakho igula ngokukhululeka embukisweni wayo oyinkimbinkimbi, futhi izama ukwenza wena intombazane ecebile, noma ngabe yedwa. Ingabe udinga ngempela lolu hlobo lokuphila? Cabanga, uhlale uphupha inkampani yakho enkulu noma uphupha ngezingane eziyisithupha, njengendoda ethandekayo, futhi mhlawumbe uzoba nengane eyodwa kanye nenhloko yomnyango iminyaka engama-35. Thola ukuthi yikuphi, futhi yimaphi amagama ofuna ukuwafinyelela.
Ngemva kokunquma imigomo, cabanga ngalokho okudingeka ukwenze ukuze ube umuntu ophumelelayo. Mhlawumbe ukufeza imigomo oyidingayo ukushintsha ubuningi bemisebenzi noma ngisho nokuthola imfundo ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Ungesabi, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ukutadisha, futhi umthetho awukhawuli iminyaka yobufundi nhlobo. Yebo, ungase ulahlekelwe ulwazi noma amakhono, akukho lutho olwesabekayo kulokhu, ungesabi yinto entsha, ngisho nalapho uneminyaka engama-30 ungakwazi ukulawula insimbi yomculo ngeminwe engapheli, futhi ubuchopho bethu buningi kakhulu.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungaba kanjani ophumelelayo futhi ocebile noma ozimele ngokwezezimali, kufanele ufunde ukuhlela isikhathi sakho. Yiqiniso, ukunqoba kwamakhono amasha kuthatha isikhathi, futhi ngisho ngithanda ukuphumula. Ngakho-ke, funda ukulawula konke, yebo, kunzima, kodwa kuyaphumelela kakhulu ngokusabalalisa kahle kwesikhathi sakho.
Kubalulekile ukukhetha umugqa wakho webhizinisi ngokuvumelana nalokho okuthandayo ngempela. Kuyaziwa ukuthi sibeka imizamo emikhulu uma kwenzeka sinesithakazelo emsebenzini. Uma wenza okuthile ngokusebenzisa amandla, ngisho nokufinyelela ezikhundleni eziphezulu ngeke kukulethe ukwaneliseka, ukuphoqelela ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuzifunela.
Uma ukhetha ingxenye yezezimali, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngesikhatsi sobuhlobo bomuntu siqu. Ngokuvamile ezintweni zonke zansuku zonke azikho isikhathi, kodwa ingabe ukungabi khona kwabo okuphelele kuyoba ujabule? Phela, impumelelo ayinakwenzeka ngaphandle kwenjabulo nenjabulo.