Ukuqaphela nokucabangela okungaxhunyiwe kuhlanganisiwe. Enye igobolondo langaphandle, enye ingukuqukethwe, ehlanganiswe ngendwangu yemfihlakalo, ngisho nasezikhathini zethu zanamuhla. Manje ochwepheshe abaningi bazama ukuthola izindlela eziphumelelayo nezilula zokusebenza nomuntu ongenakuqonda ngomqondo womuntu. Njengamanje, amasu anjalo awatholakali kuwo wonke umuntu.
Ukuqaphela nokungazi lutho: ingqondo
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi ukuqonda nokungazi komuntu akufanele kubonwe njengento enzima kakhulu futhi engaqondakali. Ukuqaphela ingqondo yethu, imibono yethu ngezwe, ukuthi sibona kanjani isibonelo sezwe esinikwe abazali nabafundisi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi imodeli yeqiniso neqiniso yangempela yizinto ezihlukile. Ngakho uma ukuqonda kwethu kubona kahle imodeli yezwe ukuthi isiko lethu lisinikeza. Kodwa umuntu oqaphelayo uyayibona izwe ngokwayo, indlela okuyiyo, eqhubeka nezizindlo zethu ezingenakunqunywa.
Ukuqaphela nokungazi lutho ( okungazi lutho ) kuxhumene ngokuqondile: ukungazi lutho kudala iqiniso lethu, futhi ukuqonda kudlala indima yomboni weqiniso. Ochwepheshe bayaqiniseka: ngokusebenza engqondweni, umuntu angafunda ngokugcwele ukushintsha iqiniso labo futhi athole indlela yokuphuma kwezimo ezinzima kakhulu. Futhi kufanele kumthinte kalula - ukushintsha imicabango yakhe. Uma ucabanga ngokwengeziwe ngokuhle kwakho, konke kube ngcono. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Okusho ukuthi ukubonakala kwemicabango yinguqulo elula yokuxhumana nokuqonda.
Ukungqubuzana kokuqaphela nokungaqondakali
Ukungqubuzana kokuqaphela nokungaqondakali kungabangela izinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Izimo ezinjalo zenzeka kithi kaningi:
Njengoba kucacile esibonelweni, i-subconscious ayenzi ukuvuma, ilinde umuntu ukuba aphule, futhi lapho kunenkinga enkulu, imiphumela ebi kakhulu ikhona. Futhi kuvela ukuthi kungenxa yenkinga yokuqaphela nokungazi ukuthi sinezifo, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ukucasuka. Futhi ngokushesha uma uqonda ukuqonda kwakho futhi ungayithola indlela, kuzokuba lula ukuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga ephuthumayo.