Ubuhlungu bezinzwa, mhlawumbe, buyinamandla kakhulu futhi bunzima kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlungu. Amathebulethi asiza ubuhlungu obungokwenyama, futhi ngisho nezidakamizwa ezinamandla kunazo zonke azikwazi ukuqeda ubuhlungu obungokomoya, yingakho bethi ubuhlungu bengqondo buqina kunobunzima bokugula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukhohlwe ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba izikhathi eziningana kunesibindi kunokomoya, ngokomzwelo. Iyancipha kancane kancane, kancane kancane, futhi ayinikezi ithuba lokukhohlwa ezinsukwini zokuqala.
Inhliziyo ebuhlungu
Ubuhlungu bezinhliziyo buhluke kakhulu ngokomzimba ekusebenzeni kwayo. Okokuqala, emva kwesenzakalo esishaqisayo, kuvela uhlobo lwezinkathazo futhi ukugcwaliseka kwalokho okwenzekile akukwenzeki, futhi kuphela lapho, indlela yokuvikelwa kwe-braking idlula, ubuhlungu buhlanganisa umuntu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukugxila kwemizwelo kungahle kuvuselelwe amandla lapho umuntu ehlangana nezikhumbuzo zezenzakalo ezibuhlungu. Kukhona umuzwa wokuthi lesi simo sesanda kwenzeka, sinamandla kakhulu izinzwa zobuhlungu. Indlela yokugubha izinhlungu, uma konke okuzungezile kumkhumbuza ...? Kulesi simo, kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana nayo.
Ukucabanga ngendlela yokunciphisa ukuhlupheka kwengqondo, abantu abaningi baphumelela empilweni, okuvumela okuhlangenwe nakho okuncane okubuhlungu okubuhlungu, ukwesaba kwengane noma ukuhlazeka. Izinkimbinkimbi eziningi, ukwesaba kuvela ebuntwaneni noma kusukela ebusheni, ngoba izingane zinonya futhi aziqondi ukuthi zingamlimaza kanjani umuntu futhi zize zithinte impilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo ngamagama ahlukahlukene angamahloni kanye nesimo sengqondo esilahlazayo.
Kukhona umbono wokuthi abantu abacasuliwe ebuntwaneni bavame ukuba ngamaphoyisa noma othisha, ngaleyo ndlela badlala lesi simo ngendlela yabo. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, ngisho nokusebenza ngokuphumelelayo kokuphila akukwazi ukusiza umuntu esimweni esinjalo sokuphulukisa ubuhlungu obungokwengqondo.
Indlela yokubhekana nesifo esibuhlungu?
Ngeshwa, ngisho nasesikhathini sethu sobuchwepheshe obuphezulu, abantu abakaze baphethwe ukwelashwa kwezinhlungu. Kukhona inqwaba yezidakamizwa zokucindezeleka, kodwa indlela yokuphulukisa ngayo ubuhlungu engqondweni? Imithi imane yamgwinya okwesikhashana, kodwa akukho lutho. Abakwazi ukukhipha imemori noma ukulungisa okudlule.
Emadolobheni, abalindi bangakunikeza ugobo oluvela ebuhlungu bomphefumulo, kodwa le ndlela imilingo, okusho ukuthi futhi akuyona into engokwemvelo, futhi ukusebenza kwayo akuqinisekisiwe. Akuwona wonke umuntu ovunyelwe ukufunda isakhiwo ukuze isebenze.
Ezingqondweni zanamuhla, kunezindlela zokutshela indlela yokuqeda ubuhlungu obungokwengqondo. Enye yazo ukufaka izinkumbulo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuhlala wedwa, ukugxila, ukhumbule isimo esibuhlungu, futhi ubeke esinye esikhundleni. Cabanga ukuthi awukaze uhlangane nomhlukumezi wakho, endaweni yakhe ubambe omunye umuntu othanda kakhulu futhi ohloniphayo. Wakho
Khona-ke, okwesikhashana, zama ukuphuma kulo lonke, ukuze isimo ngokufaka endaweni sikhohlwe, futhi isendlalelo owasungula sivumelanisa ngokuvumelana kwimemori yakho. Abantu abaningi abaqamba amanga abathintekayo bayazi le ndlela: bayabuyisela izikhathi zabo eziqanjiwe kangangokuthi baqala ukukholelwa ngempela. Yilo mphumela esikudingayo ukufezekisa njengomphumela walo mkhuba wethu, okuzokuvumela ukuba uphulukise isifo sakho senhliziyo futhi uqhubeke nokuhamba ngekhanda lakho eliphakeme.