Umuntu olinganiselayo uyazi ukubona indlela enhle ngayo yonke into - le mfanelo ekhangayo ngeke isinikezwe ngamunye wethu. Ngomoya ophansi, ungakhethi ubone konke okwenzekayo nxazonke, ngaphandle kokunciphisa noma yibuphi ubuchopho be-brain ukuze uhlukanise okuyinhloko kusuka kwesibili - kungani abanye benenhlanhla ukuba bazalwe ngokulinganayo, kanti abanye kufanele balwe futhi bahlupheke ngokwabo?
Isizathu sedivaysi yesimiso sezinzwa, esinqunyiwe ngokwezakhi zofuzo - esibelethweni somama esinqunyiwe ngaphambili ngokucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka , ukungakhethi, noma ukufutheka, ukuphikisana, ubukhali. Yiqiniso, ukuzengqondo kwengqondo kuyimfanelo enomusa ehlinzekwa kusukela ekuzalweni, kodwa ngisho nabantu abaphelelwe yithemba bangakwazi ukulungisa kancane izifiso zabo namarekhodi.
Izici ezihlukile zomuntu olinganiselayo
Ake sibone ukuthi ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo kubheka kanjani ekusebenzeni, ngoba ungafinyelela emigomweni ethile futhi
- ngaphambi kwalesi simo sokuphefumula somphefumulo nomqondo wokuhlakanipha:
- ukulinganisela kusho ukuvumelana kwemicabango, imizwelo nezenzo zomuntu, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa okungazelelwe noma okuphikisanayo;
- umuntu olinganiselayo angakwazi ukubona konke okwenzekayo nxazonke, ubheka ngokucophelela abantu abakuzungezile, ngaphandle kokufaka amathemba ahloswe ngaphandle kokubandlulula;
- Inzuzo ye-poise ukuthi leli hulumeni lisisivikela ekusebenziseni amazwi namazwi;
- Ukubonakaliswa okusobala kakhulu komlingiswa olinganiselayo kuyintembeko, inzuzo, ukuzimela.
Yiqiniso, ukuzola nokupholisa kuyasiza kunoma iyiphi insimu yomsebenzi. Kodwa kunezimo lapho kungekho okubaluleke nakakhulu kunokuhlala epholile.
Isibonelo, inqubo yokufundisa. Izingane zivame ukuthatha abazali bazo kumkhuhlane omhlophe, kodwa ukukhulelwa kanye nokuchazwa kwecala lomntwana kungenzeka kuphela uma umuntu omdala ebona ukuthi umcimbi ulinganisiwe futhi awunalutho. Kungenxa yezimo ezinjalo, izingane ziqaphela ukuthi zinomuntu okufanele athathe isibonelo.
Noma ibhalansi yengqondo ezinkingeni zezimpikiswano endaweni yokusebenza. Kukhona okungenani indawo eyodwa yomsebenzi lapho ibhalansi nokumelana nokucindezeleka kuyimfuneko esemqoka - ukudibanisa. Ikhono lokungahambi emicabangweni yezimzwelo kanye nezindlela eziphikisayo zabaphikisana nazo ziyizithunywa zezingxoxo "ezivela kuNkulunkulu." Kanye nasezingxoxweni, kungenzeka yini ukuvikela iphuzu lakho lokubheka, ukuphikisana naye ngezimpikiswano zokucabanga, ngisho nokugqugquzela abalaleli ukuba balungile lapho izwi lakho lithuthumela ngokufutheka, lichichima imizwelo nokuvezwa? Isikhulumi esinjalo abantu abambalwa bazokwazi ukulalela, noma ngabe amazwi akhe ayoba aqotho futhi aqotho.
Ukufunda ukulinganisela
Njengoba sesishilo kakade, kubantu abathile, ukulinganisela nokumelana nokucindezeleka kuyisipho esivela phezulu, abanye - ke idayimane elikhazimulayo. Manje sibheka icala lesibili, lapho kuzodingeka usebenze ngokwakho ngokuhlonipha ikhwalithi yakho eyigugu kakhulu.
- "NgeSonto kusihlwa" - noma kunalokho, usuku. Lokhu kusebenza kuyoba usizo ikakhulukazi kubantu abaye balahlekelwa isikhathi eside, futhi ngandlela-thile bajwayele ukuyeka ukungezwani kwesifo. Iphuzu yilokho ku
uvuko (nanoma yiluphi usuku olukhethiwe) awukhokalanga nanoma yini kunoma ubani-noma kumyeni wakho, noma kubantfwana bakho, noma ezintombi zakho, noma kuzihlobo zakho. Kumele siziphoqe ukuba senze lolo suku sibe olwethu, futhi sizinikele kuphela ezintweni ezimnandi. Ngama-2-3 "ukuvusa" awugcini nje ukukhipha ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo, kodwa futhi kusimangaze ukuthi wawuhlala kanjani ngaphandle "nosuku lwakho". - Ukuzindla - lo msebenzi ungenziwa yonke indawo: ukuhlala, ukuqamba amanga, ukuhamba, njll. Okubalulekile akufanele ucabange (okuyinto enzima). Yonke imicabango ezovakashela ikhanda lakho kufanele idlule ezinjengefu - uyabubona, kodwa akulimazi. Yindlela enhle yokuphumula nokucabangela ingqondo yakho yokubona ngokomzwelo izinto.