Kungani abantu benayo lezi noma lezo zifo? Ngangaki lapho umuntu ophelile kahle ezwa ngokuzumayo ngesifo esitholakalayo? Kuvela ukuthi yizo zonke ngemicabango yethu nemizwelo yethu. Lokho esikushoyo, yimuphi umbala ongokomzwelo okhona, okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu - zonke lezi zikhathi aziphazamisi nje kuphela impilo yengqondo, kodwa futhi isimo somzimba womuntu. Indlela yokukhipha imizwelo emibi futhi uthole okuhle - funda.
Izici zobuntu
Ukuqeda imicabango engavamile futhi "eyingozi" kunzima uma kukhona izici ezithile kumuntu. Ukwesaba, ukucasula, ukushesha okusheshayo nokuhlukunyezwa - lezi zimfanelo zidala ukungalungi. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, zizinakekele. Shintsha imikhuba yakho. Umlingiswa womuntu akuyona into nje kuphela yokuthi isethi yemikhuba yokusabela ngendlela eyodwa kwesinye isimo esimweni esithile. Vimbela ukucasuka ngenkathi umile emgqeni esitolo, lawula intukuthelo nokuhlukumezeka emigwaqweni yezimoto, noma emsebenzini, noma kuphi. Shintshela kokuthile okungaphandle, okujabulisayo. Bheka isibhakabhakeni, ubabaze amafu emoyeni futhi umomotheka elangeni elithandekayo. Bhala ephepheni lakho izimfanelo zakho ezinhle nokubi. Manje wazi kahle ukuthi yini okudingeka usebenze kuyo.
Tune ngendlela efanele
Ukuze uthole ukukhokhelwa kwemizwa emihle, kubalulekile ukugcina imithetho elandelayo:
- gwema ukucasuka. Kungani ubukela ubudlova ku-TV futhi ufunde umshini ophuzi? Konke lokhu kukhona empilweni yethu, kodwa kukhona olunye uhlangothi. Amahle, ama-movie amahle nemibukiso ye-TV, lapho kukhona ukuhleka nokuhleka okuningi;
- uzungeze ngobuhle. Dala ukuzwakalisa ikhaya, uthole izinto ezinhle, ushintshe noma yini ngaphakathi. Indlu
indawo lapho ungahlala uphumule futhi ujabule. Kumele kube nokufudumele nokuzolile emva kosuku olulukhuni lwansuku zonke; - xhumana nabantu abahle. Indoda ekhononda ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ikhala ku-waistcoat, ingajabuli futhi igula, iyokwenza ube neurotic. Zivikele ekukhulumeni nabantu abanjalo. Zizungeze nabantu abaphumelelayo nabajabulayo. Khona-ke wena ngokwakho uyoba njengabo;
- funda ukujabulela izinto ezincane. Hlala ufuna futhi kukho konke into enhle. Ungagxila ezintweni ezingapheli, ujabulele ukufaneleka. Ngisho nemvula nesimo sezulu esibi akusibi kakhulu. Ungakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya, ubeke eceleni zonke izinto, vula i-melodrama yakho oyintandokazi futhi ujabulele indebe yesikhova eshisayo. Futhi lezi zikhathi zihle ngempela.