Ekuphileni komunye nomunye wethu kukhona izikhathi lapho kubonakala sengathi konke kuhamba futhi kuwela ezandleni. Noma yini esikwenzayo, asikwazi ukuphumelela. Izinkinga emsebenzini, emndenini. Abangane baphenduka, siphumela ngaphakathi kithi, umuzwa wezintambo kanye nokungabi nalutho kubonakala emiphefumulweni yethu. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi yini okufanele senze uma sibi enhliziyweni.
Indlela yokwakha izeluleko zokuphila
Okokuqala, zama ukuthola lokho okuthandayo kakhulu, okungakuvuselela. Kwabanye, uma kunzima kakhulu enhliziyweni, indlela engcono kakhulu ukuxhumana nomndeni nabangane.
Ungalindeli ukuthi umuntu akubize noma akubhalele kuqala, shayela inombolo yomuntu omthandayo bese ummemela emhlanganweni. Hlala phansi, ukhulume ngezihloko ezikukhathazayo, kodwa zama ukungathinti umsebenzi nomsebenzi wasekhaya ukuze ungaphinde uphazamise isimo sakho sengqondo.
Uma uthanda wedwa, khona-ke sincoma ukuya e-cafe epholile, bese uzithokozisa ngekomishi ye-chocolate. Kubalandeli bemisebenzi yangaphandle, ukuhamba ngamabhayisikili, ama-skate noma i-rollerblading kufanelekile. Ngokuvamile, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola impendulo yombuzo - indlela yokuphila, uma ibuhlungu kakhulu enhliziyweni, izokwenza imidlalo.
Ingxenye emangalisayo yesintu kufanele ilalele ama-SPA-salons. Uma ungazi ukuthi wenzeni, uma uzizwa ungalungile, kufanele uvakashele ubuhle be-salon. Sonke siyazi ukuthi ukuguqula isithombe, ukusikhipha, ukugqoka, ukuguqula umzimba, ukuvakashela i-beautician kuphakamisa isimo sengqondo futhi kukhuthaze kokubili umphefumulo nomzimba! Zinike isikhathi esithandayo. Nikeza ithuba lokuphumula umzimba wakho, futhi konke lokhu kuzophendula ngokuthuthukiswa kombuso womphefumulo wakho.
Ukuvakashela igumbi lokuzivocavoca, echibini noma enkundleni ye-tennis, kuzosiza ukuphakamisa umoya wokwenyama nokwenza abangane abasha abasebenzisekayo. Hambisa, uthuthuke, ujabule! Ungashiyi isikhathi semicabango edabukisayo!
Yini okufanele ufunde, uma kubi emphefumulweni?
Silungiselele uhlu lwezincwadi ezicindezelayo ezingaba yisisombululo esihle kakhulu sokuzizwa okubi:
- "Ukuziqhenya Nokucwaswa" ngumlobi uJane Austen , obhekwa njengengcweti ehle kakhulu ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabantu. Leveli inhle kakhulu, uJane wachitha iminyaka engu-15 ebhala.
- "Lapho amaphupho ahola" - umbhali uRichard Matheson .
Ngemuva kokufunda leveli, uzothola ukuthi impilo yethu ingunaphakade futhi ukufa sekude nokuphela, kodwa nje umzila ongaphezu kwalokho esikulindelwe yizinto ezingakaze zenzeke emhlabeni jikelele. - "Ushokoledi" - umbhali uHarris Joanne . Le ncwadi ilandisa indaba yedolobha lesifundazwe saseFrance, lapho umlingisi oyinhloko uVianne ehamba nendodakazi yakhe nalapho evula khona isitolo se-chocolate. Ngosizo lokuphatha okumnandi uVianne unikeza izakhamuzi ukunambitheka kokuphila, mhlawumbe yilokho okudingayo manje!
Futhi ekugcineni, ngingathanda ukukukhumbuza ukuthi impilo akuyona nje umsebenzi nokukhathalela, futhi iholide yansuku zonke. Nsuku zonke ihlukile futhi okuningi ngeke kwenzeke. Phila lapha futhi manje! Zithande wena nabanye!