Umuntu onomusa ukhanya ngaphakathi, futhi lokhu kukhanya kudlulela nxazonke, kuvuselela emphefumulweni imizwa ephindaphindiwe. Nokho, ezweni lanamuhla ngandlela-thile kwakungeyona imfashini yokuba nomusa. Izwi elizwakalayo laleli gama laliwubucayi nokungafihleki, ngoba kulehlonipho yanamuhla, ukuzinikezela, ukungabi namthetho kanye ne-business acumen. Kodwa-ke, imibono eyisisekelo yokuhle nokubi kokubili ibe njalo futhi ngeke iguquke, futhi namuhla abantu abaningi bafuna izindlela futhi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi bangaba nomusa kanjani, ngoba uma ubuhle busindisa umhlaba.
Indlela yokuba nomusa nokuzola?
Ukuhamba kwesikhathi samanje kwepilo kushiya ukuphawula kwabo ekuziphatheni kwabantu emphakathini. Bathanda i-squirrel esiteshini ngokuphindaphindiwe beza embuthanweni omusha, bengasaqapheli ukuthi basebenza kuphi nokuthi kungani. Ukuphila kugijima ngesivinini esivuthayo futhi kuqhuma umshini ngomshini. Isikhathi sokumisa, bheka nxazonke futhi ucabange ukuthi kungani konke lokhu kuyadingeka nhlobo, akuhlali. Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu baqala ukuba nefomethi yokuthengiselana, okungukuthi, "unikeze idokhumenti" noma isevisi yensizakalo. Bambalwa abantu abacabanga ngendaba engokomoya yenkinga kanti ngisho imibhangqwana idalwe ngenxa yezizathu ezilula kanye nesivinini: akusikho nhlobo isikhathi sokuthintana kwe-banal nezinye izinkunkuma.
Abaningi bakhathele impilo enjalo, baqale ukukhathazeka ngenxa yokukhathazeka, ukulala nokugula nezinye izifo eziqhamukayo, beqaphela ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha into, kodwa ukuthi bangayenza kanjani nokuthi babe kanjani umuntu onomusa kuba ngumbuzo ovulekile. Kodwa okwamanje, akukho lutho olulula-kubalulekile kuphela ukufuna ukuletha okuhle kubantu.
Ungaba kanjani nomusa futhi uhlalise?
Misa ukusetha ibha eliphezulu bese ulwela. Cha, lokhu akusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuba ngumuntu onomuntu oyedwa, kodwa ekuphishekeleni izinto ezibonakalayo abantu bayeke ukulalela izinto ezijwayelekile - izimpungushe zemifino, ukuhleka kwezingane noma ukugcoba ngenjabulo yesilwane. Futhi sekuyisikhathi sokugcina nini ukunxusa umama noma ubaba wakho? Kumele siphuthume ukwenza imisebenzi emihle futhi sibheke labo abadinga usizo - ugogo ophethe isikhwama esinamandla, insizwa engenamakhaya, njll. Injongo eyinhloko yokuphila ingokomoya, hhayi izinto ezibonakalayo, futhi uma uqonda lokhu, ungajabula kakhulu, ngakho-ke unomusa.
Kudingekile ukuzama ukuba nethemba futhi ubone kukho konke okuhle kuphela. Ungathukutheli ngokuthi intombazane ye-cashier ibheka ushintsho isikhathi eside, kodwa ukumomotheka futhi wenze ukuncoma. Abantu bahlelekile kakhulu kangangokuthi basabela okuhle ngokuhle, nokubi ngokubi, ngakho-ke kuphela emva kokuyeka ukucasuka, ukuthukuthela nokugxeka othile, ungalindela ukugcwalisa impilo yakho ngenjabulo nangezikhathi ezimnandi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukungalindi ukubonga ngenxa yezenzo ezinhle ezenziwe. Bazokhokhela ngokuphindwe kabili futhi amabutho aphezulu azokwenzela lokhu. Njengomdwebo we-hare, owanikeza izakhamuzi zasehlathini isikhwama sonke sama-apula, eshiya izingane ngaphandle kokudla isidlo sakusihlwa, engaqapheli ngisho nokuthi izilwane ezijabule zingena endlini yakhe noma ubani ongakwazi.
Labo abanesithakazelo sokuthi bangaba kanjani nomusa, kufanele babekezelele amaphutha abanye, bahloniphe omunye umbono, futhi bahumushe izingxabano ezikhulayo zibe yihlaya. Ungafungi no-boss. Kungcono ukuyibuka ngeso lengqondo futhi ucabange ukuthi ikhula kanjani izindlebe zezinja eside noma impumu efana nePinocchio. Amandla angalungile ahlangene ngosuku angadlalwa ejimini noma ahlanganyele kolunye uhlobo lwezemidlalo, futhi ungazitholela ngokomzwelo ekuqaleni ngokufunda ukuqinisekiswa. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthethelela noma ubani oke wakhathazeka noma wabangela ukuhlukunyezwa. Lokhu akulula ukwenza kanjalo, ngakho-ke kunengqondo ukuphendukela kumvuma wakho, uvume futhi uthathe isidlo. Ukuthandaza kuNkulunkulu kusiza kakhulu futhi kunikelwa labo abawazi ukubonga.