Ukuqina kwengqondo kusho ukuphishekela okuthile, ukuqondiswa kokucabanga kwabantu. Enhliziyweni yalesi siqondiso yisifiso sokwenza isenzo esithile. Mhlawumbe bobabili abazi kahle futhi abazi lutho.
Izinhlobo zezinhloso:
- Ukuphumelela - kuholela umuntu kwisenzo;
- inkulumo - inhloso yokusho okuthile.
Umlobi we-logotherapy Frankl uhlongoze indlela yokuqeda ukwesaba nokwenqatshwa kwanoma yini ngenhloso yokuziqhenya. Le ndlela isetshenziselwa amacala amabili:
- Uma uphawu oluthile lubangela umuntu ukuba asabe ngokuphindaphinda kwabo. Kukhona ukwesaba okukhulu kokulinda futhi isibonakaliso siphindaphindwa, lokhu kugcizelela ukwesaba okukhulu komuntu, ukwakha umbuthano ononya.
- Ukuqapha kugxila esigulini, uzama ukumelana nayo, kodwa imizamo yakhe yandisa isimo.
Akuyona indiza, noma ukuphikisa uphawu olubi noma ukwesaba akukwazi ukuwuqeda. Ukuze ulwisane nalo, kubalulekile ukuphula izindlela zendilinga evaliwe. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokuya ekuhlangabezaneni nokwesaba kwakho. Indlela ye-intanethi kaFrankl yokuziqhenya isekelwe ukuthi isiguli kumele sifune ukubona ukuthi yini esabayo.
Isibonelo: umfana oneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye uvuthwa njalo embhedeni, abazali futhi bahlambalaza indodana yakhe futhi bayishaya - akusizi ngalutho. Udokotela, abacela kuye usizo, watshela umfana ukuthi uzomnika amasheya angu-5 kuwo wonke umbhede omanzi. Isiguli sathokoza ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthola imali ngokuntuleka kwakhe, kodwa akakwazanga ukuphinda elele embhedeni. Umfana wasilahla lesi sigameko ngokushesha nje lapho efuna ukusebenza kwakhe.
Inqubo yezinhloso ezixakile iyasebenza nakakhulu ngisho nasezikhungweni ezimbi. Ukwesaba kugonywa yilo muntu ngokwakhe. Ngokushesha nje lapho isiguli sibhekene nokwesaba kwakhe, uzoshona. Futhi indlela iphumelela uma kwenzeka ukulala, lapho umuntu ekhetha ukuthi uzovusa ubusuku bonke, ifika iphupho kuye.