Ngamunye wethu unezici zakhe siqu, ezithatha izindlela zokuxhumana nezwe elizungezile. Umlingiswa womuntu uqukethe ukuziphatha , izimfanelo nezimfanelo. Ake sicabangele ngokuningiliziwe amandla futhi hhayi kuphela izimfanelo zobunjwa.
Izimfanelo zobuntu bomuntu
- Masculinity . Mhlawumbe, lesi sici sibaluleke kakhulu kubesilisa. Phela, insizwa kufanele ikwazi ukuzimela futhi ivikele isikhundla sayo. Ngomlingani onesibindi, owesifazane uzozizwa evikelekile.
- Ukunquma . Ezimweni ezinzima kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza izinqumo okusheshayo nokwenza ngokufanele. Ukuphonsa isikhathi eside nokugxeka kuveza uhlamvu olubuthakathaka, ngakho kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ukuzimisela.
- Ukubekezela . Indoda yangempela kumele ikwazi ukuqedela ibhizinisi aliqalile. Akusho inkani, kodwa isifiso esinenkani ukufeza izinhlelo zokuphila. Ngaphandle kokuphikelela, indoda cishe ayihlonishwa.
- Ukuqiniseka . Indoda enempilo kufanele ikwazi ukuthi yini ayifunayo nokuthi ingayenza kanjani. Ubuntu obunokuqiniseka buyashesha ukufeza imigomo yabo, bakhanga abanye abantu. Ekuphileni kunezimo ezihlukahlukene, eziningi zazo kubalulekile ukukhombisa le mfanelo.
- Umsebenzi . Abantu abakhuthele bahle kakhulu. Bashaya ngokushesha izintaba bese bebeka imigomo emisha. Umuntu osebenzayo akasoze alahlekelwa isithukuthezi. Uhlale ephefumulelwe uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi, okwenza kube mnandi kwabanye.
- Ukuzithiba . Kuzo zonke izimo kubalulekile ukuhlala ungaphazamiseki futhi uqonde ukubuka izinto. Kulukhuni, noma kunjalo, le mfanelo ingenziwa yedwa.
- Sense of amahlaya . Wonke umuntu uyathanda ukuhleka. Abantu bathanda abantu abangase bahleke ngaphandle kwabo noma benze isimo esibucayi. Ukungaqondakali kalula nokukwazi ukubona izikhathi ezimnandi kakhulu njengabesifazane.
Izimfanelo zobuntu besifazane
- Owesifazane . Wonke owesifazane kufanele anakekele ukubukeka kwakhe, agqoke kahle futhi aziphathe ngesithunzi. Izimfanelo zobuntu besifazane ziqala ngokuqondile ngalesi sici.
- Uthando lokuphila . Ama-Optimists ahlale eheha. Ukukwazi ukuthola injabulo ezintweni ezilula kubaluleke kakhulu. Umbono omuhle wokuphila unomthelela empilweni enhle nempumelelo ekufinyeleleni imigomo.
- Ukuzimela . Namuhla, amantombazane amaningi azama ukwenza umsebenzi. Ukuthuthukiswa kubaluleke kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu. Uma owesifazane ehlezi ekhaya, ngaphandle kokukhula ngaphakathi, ngaphandle kokuthuthukisa izimfanelo zakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi indoda iyolahlekelwa inzalo kuye.
- Umusa . Kuyinto eyize ukusho ukuthi umusa uyingozi. Musa ukudidanisa lo mqondo ngobuthakathaka. Ikhono lokuzwelana nabanye abantu likhuluma kakhulu ngobuntu. Umuntu ohlakaniphile kuphela uqonda ukubaluleka komusa.
- Ukuzwelana . Uma owesifazane engesabi ukubonisa imizwelo yakhe, uba ngokoqobo. Ezimweni ezithile kubalulekile ukuba uhlale uzolile, kodwa empilweni yansuku zonke, imizwelo ingeza umbala futhi iwenze igcwaliswe nsuku zonke.
- Ubuqotho . Bambalwa abantu abathanda abantu abawela emangeni amanga, ikakhulu abesifazane. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungafihli imizwa yakho nezifiso zakho zangempela. Uthembekile
owesifazane uzohlale ehlonishwa abanye abantu. - Ubulili . Njalo intombazane kufanele izithande futhi izinakekele. Ubulili bakhe buzozibonakalisa ngokwanele, ukuhlekisa, indlela yokuxoxa. Owesifazane onjalo uzobukeka enhle kunoma yikuphi izingubo.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi izimfanelo zobunjwa zivame ukushintsha ngesikhathi. Sanikeze uhlu lwezici ezibaluleke kakhulu besifazane nabesilisa. Wonke umuntu kufanele azikhandle azikhandle futhi azithuthukise ngokwabo, ngoba izimfanelo zobuciko ezinamandla ezihehayo ziheha abanye abantu nezimo ezinhle kakhulu.