Uma ukhetha njengabalingani bobulili obuhlukile bobulili obuhlukile, uyingqingili, uma ubulili bakho bungqingili. Kodwa kunezikhundla eziphakathi. Owokuqala ukukhuluma ngalokhu kwakungu-Alfred Kinsey, owakha isilinganiso sokuqeda iziqu zobulili, ngokusho ukuthi inani le-0 likhombisa ubulili obuphelele, futhi inani le-6 likhombisa ubungqingili obuphelele. Ngokusekelwe esikalini se-Kinsey, akukodwa okwenziwe ukuhlolwa kokunquma ubuhlobo bobulili, ungayithola kwenye yazo okwamanje.
Ukuhlolwa ngesilinganiso sezimpawu ze-Gay Kinay
Ukuze udlule ukuhlolwa ngokusekelwe esikalini seKinsey, udinga ukuphendula imibuzo engezansi. Inombolo yempendulo yinombolo yamaphuzu. Isivivinyo sabantu besifazane:
1. Ingabe abesifazane baye bakucasula?
- kanjani?
- Yebo, kodwa ngengozi;
- eyodwa noma izikhathi ezimbili;
- izithombe ze-sexy ezivela kumagazini Yebo, empeleni - akakaze;
- Amantombazane angama-sexy angithandi kunamadoda;
- ngokuvamile;
- Jabulela amantombazane kuphela.
2. Wazizwa kanjani ngontanga yakho lapho useneminyaka eyishumi nambili?
- abangane nje;
- intombi yami ibonakala ihle kakhulu kimi;
- ngezinye izikhathi ngezikhathi ezithile zothando;
- Ngesikhathi umugqa wobungane udlula futhi ngingathanda ukuwuphinda;
- Ngangithanda kakhulu omunye wabangane bami;
- ngokwanele ukuba ngithandane ukuqonda ukuthi ngingumlingani wesithandani;
- kwakukhona ubulili obukhulu nokuzilibazisa okuncane.
3. Ingabe unabantabakho phakathi kwezintombi zakho?
- cha;
- kukhona umngane kwi-Internet-correspondence;
- Yebo, kodwa asikhulumi isikhathi eside;
- Ngikhulumisana nombhangqwana wama-lesbian;
- kuneziningana, futhi ngivame ukukhuluma nabo;
- Yebo, futhi sihlangana njalo;
- abaningi, zonke izintombi zami zingabalingani.
4. Wake wakanga owesifazane?
- akakaze;
- kuphela emicabangweni yabo;
- cishe kungenzeka, kodwa kwakungakaze kube;
- Ukumangala kokubili amadoda nabesifazane, kwakungcono kakhulu;
- kwenzeke, kodwa kwakungamadoda futhi;
- Yebo, futhi kaningi;
- Ngabanga abesifazane kuphela.
5. Ungathanda okuningi:
- isidlo sokuthanda nomuntu;
- ukuhlangana nezintombi nabangani;
- iqembu elinesihloko esingcolile socansi;
- iqembu elithombeni lomlingani wobulili, mhlawumbe kuyoba owesifazane;
- iqembu eqenjini elixubekile;
- ubusuku be-gay nabangane besifazane abathandana nabo, nakuba ungashayela amantombazane kanye nabantu abathandanayo;
- iklabhu yama-lesbian amancane.
6. Uhlangane nomuntu wesifazane ocansini. Yini elandelayo?
- uzobona umncintiswano kuwo;
- qhathanisa nawe ngokwakho;
- umenzele ukuncoma;
- buza umuntu wakho uma emthanda;
- cabanga ukuthi bekuyoba kuhle kanjani embhedeni;
- zama ukudlala ngothando;
- ngokushesha bese ukhuluma naye ngokuzimisela.
7. Uma ugcina ulale nendoda, wena ...
- baye bajabulela;
- hhayi okubi, kodwa ungakwazi futhi kangcono;
- bathi ukulala nowesifazane kungase kujabulise;
- Ngesinye isikhathi bacabanga ukuthi ulele embhedeni nentombazane;
- babecabanga ukuthi owesifazane wajoyina;
- nawe kwakukhona omunye wesifazane;
- awukhumbuli ngesikhathi sokugcina olala naye nendoda.
8. Ubengumbhede owodwa nowesifazane, yini engenzeka?
- akukho mbuzo wokuxhumana nomzimba;
- Ukuxhumana kwangasese okungenacala kungenzeka;
- ukuthintana okunomusa futhi okubonakala sengathi kuyingozi;
- bekuyoholela ingxoxo ngomuntu ojoyina;
- thandani uthando, kepha kude kakhulu ngabe awuhambanga;
- ubusuku bokuhlolwa kocansi;
- ubulili obuthandekayo.
9. Uzizwa ucansi kakhulu uma kuwe:
- izingubo zangaphansi ezibucayi noma eziqinile;
- into ehlangabezana nezindlela zamuva zetfashini;
- izingubo zangaphansi zika-sexy ngaphansi kwe-suit eqinile;
- into engayithanda kuphela intombazane;
- i jeans kanye nemihlobiso emibili;
- umfaniswano wezempi ngezikhumba eziphakeme;
- izingubo zesibindi noma ze-asexual.
10. Njengoba ukhubekele iphephandaba lezocansi, wena:
- ulilahle;
- bheka, uzama ukuqonda i-psychology yesilisa;
- bheka ngekhanda;
- funda ngokucophelela ngayinye yezithombe;
- cabangela ngokucophelela izithombe ezifanele zamantombazane;
- thola futhi ufunde ngokucophelela izithombe ze "intombazane + intombazane";
- ujabule kakhulu futhi uzoshaya indlwabu.
Manje balala amaphuzu bese uhlukanisa inani le-10, inombolo izofanisa isikhundla sakho ngokulingana kobulili. Uma uthola inamba encane, ujikeleze. Isibonelo, isibalo se-2.6 sisho ukuthi ususondele kunombolo ye-3.
Isilinganiso sobulili
- 0 - Nhlobo ngokulinganayo. Akukho okukushiya ngaphezu kokucabanga ukuthi uthanda indoda enhle. Kuhle ukuthi ungabiza indoda enamandla, ibhizinisi futhi enenhloso, ozobe uzolile naye, njengodonga lwamatshe.
- 1 - Ngokujwayelekile ubulili obufanayo. Uyakuthanda abantu, uthanda imibono yabo, kodwa badinga ukwenza umzamo ukuze uthole ukunakwa kwakho. Awucabangi ngesimo sakho sokuma, kepha uma udinga ukukhetha phakathi komfana nentombazane, ngokuqinisekile ngeke ukhethe owokuqala.
- 2 - i-Bioriented. Awubheki njengowesilisa ocansini, kepha ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthatha amehlo akho kumuntu okhangayo. Mhlawumbe, uma usenothando olungenacala nentombazane, kodwa awufuni ukuyiphinda.
- 3 - Ngokwemvelo ubulili obuhlukile. Uthande kokubili amadoda nabesifazane, awuhlukanisi phakathi kwabo, ukhetha umlingani wesondo.
- 4 - Iningi labantu abesilisa nabesifazane. Awuyena ongowesilisa ocansini, futhi ungazibheki njengaleyo, kodwa namanje uthanda abesifazane kakhulu kunamadoda. Futhi
uma kufanele ukhethe phakathi kwendoda nentombazane, kungcono ukhethe okulandelayo. - 5 - Iningi labantu abangqingili. Uzicabangela ukuthi ungumlingani womshado, kodwa uma usuhlangene nesipiliyoni nendoda. Iqiniso, awufuni ukuyiphinda.
- 6- Absolutely ubungqingili. Awuze ufike nomqondo wabantu, futhi bekungekho ubuhlobo nabo empilweni yakho. Futhi uma lokhu kwenzeka nakanjani, bekungeke kushintshe okuthile kuwe.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi utholaphi, ungayithinti kakhulu - kungumvivinyo nje.