Eqinisweni, isihloko esikhethiwe kulo mqondo wengqondo nomphefumulo ngokusobala akufanelekile. Noma kunalokho, leli gama, mhlawumbe lembula ukuthi yiyona nkinga yenkinga ngokuphelele, kepha umuntu obhekene nenkinga iminyaka engu-30 kakade akajabuli. Futhi ngokuqinisekile, okungenani kunabo bonke, ufuna ukuzwa ukuxilongwa "kwenkinga".
Eqinisweni, ukuphila kwethu kugcwele izinkinga. Okokuqala sithola eminyakeni emithathu, bese sisencane. Khona-ke kukhona "inkinga yokuzifiso" - cishe eminyakeni engama-22 ubudala, esisiqondisa endleleni yokuqaphela umsebenzi. Inkinga yokuvuthwa kokuqala - kuze kufike eminyakeni engama-30, bese kuthi inkinga edumile ephakathi kweminyaka yobudala - kusukela eminyakeni engu-30 kuya kwengu-40. Ngikholelwa, uma usuqedile uchungechunge lwezinkinga kusukela ebuntwaneni, khona-ke uzokuqonda kahle ukuthi ungakunqoba kanjani inkinga yeminyaka engama-30.
Ama-stereotypes noma amaqiniso mayelana nenkinga yobudala obuphakathi
Izimpawu zenkinga yeminyaka engama-30 esizibandakanya nezinkolelo ezimbili. Okokuqala - inkinga yobudala obuphakathi kuphela kumadoda kuphela. Okwesibili yilokho, kulabo besifazane, inkinga ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuguga kuzayo ezithende, nakumadoda, izifiso ezingagcwaliseki zobusha. Eqinisweni, ukubonakaliswa nezizathu ezisiholela enkingeni zikhona ngabanye futhi aziboleki ekuhlukanisweni okuqinile.
Izimpawu
Ezingqondweni, ungathola izimpawu ezijwayelekile kakhulu zenkinga iminyaka engama-30:
- ukungapheli emphakathini;
- izinguquko ezivamile zomsebenzi nemisebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa nezokuzilibazisa;
- Izinguquko ezikhazimulayo kanye nezimo eziphuthumayo;
- ukuqubuka kobudlova;
- ukucindezeleka;
- isithukuthezi;
- ukukhathazeka;
- umqondo wokunganaki, ukungahloniphi ubuntu bomuntu;
- isifiso sokushintsha kukho konke kusukela enhlokweni kuya enzwaneni.
Ngokuhlukile, zonke lezi zimpawu zingakhuluma ngezinkinga ezihlukahlukene kakhulu ezinhlokweni zethu ezikhanyayo, kodwa ngokubanzi-yebo, lokhu kuyinkinga.
Isikhathi segolide noma inkinga?
Uma unqabile futhi uziqonda, wonke umuntu obhekana nenkinga uyoqonda ukuthi kunokucubungula kabusha imigomo ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila kakade kutholakale. Kule minyaka yobudala, ngenxa yenkinga, inani lezici zethu zengqondo liba yikhwalithi yobuntu.
Inkinga yadalwa ukuze umuntu aqhubeke ethuthuka, uvuselela impumelelo entsha, izilingo, futhi asishiye izinqumo ezimbili - noma ngabe sizohlala sonke isikhathi "esimweni esibucayi", noma sizokwenza ngcono.
I-psychology yobudala igxile kakhulu kule nkinga iminyaka engama-30. Ngokusho kocwaningo kanye nedatha etholakalayo, kwabesifazane izinkinga zale minyaka zihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezimbili ezingacacile:
- Abakwa-Careerists abakhulela ku-30
ochwepheshe kanye nezemali, bawela ebuhlungu ngenxa yokuthi abazange baqaphele umkhakha "womndeni, izingane, ikhaya." Bashisa futhi ngokuzumayo bafuna ukuzungeze izingane. - Abesifazane besifazane, abayishumi namashumi amabili abaqala ukushada, baphila futhi bazala, bacindezelekile , ngoba bazizwa bengenakwenzeka. Bacabanga ukuthi labo abazungezile abahlonishwa, babhekwa bengenalutho.
Indlela yokuphuma ukuhamba ngezifiso zakho. U-Careerist uyosiza ukuzalwa kwengane, nomama wendlu - umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi noma ukuphothula iziqu kusukela eyunivesithi.