Ngokuvamile, ukukhuluma ngomuntu wesilisa noma umkhwenyana wesifazane, thina ngokwethu asikwazi ukwakha lokho ngempela lo muntu akuthandayo kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, akuwona wonke umuntu okhangayo onokulingana okuphelele kobuso nomzimba. Ake sibone ukuthi yini eyenza umuntu akhangele.
Izimiso zokuheha
- Ukuthakazelelwa . Wena, ngokuqinisekile, waphawula ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi abantu abanobubele bayakhanga kakhulu. Ukuze ubuso bakho buveze hhayi yonke imizwelo emibi, kufanelekile ukufunda indlela yokushintsha izinkinga zangaphakathi ukuya ezweni elizungezile ngesikhathi. Yiba nokubekezelela abanye abantu. Futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubonakala sengathi kungabonakali kangakanani, smile futhi ubheke kaningi kumuntu iso. Izazi zengqondo ziye zaqaphela ukuthi abantu abamomotheka babonakala bekhangayo. Ngokumangalisa, kodwa sivame ukukhuluma sengathi sinezinto ezingaziwa phambi kwethu. Khuluma nabantu ngegama, ngisho nokubingelela noma ukusho okuhle. Lokhu kuphela kuzoshintsha umbono nombono wakho.
- Inzalo . Noma ubani okhuluma ngokuzithandela ngesihloko sentshisekelo yabo. Buza abantu mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwabo. Ngisho noma ungenakukwazi kule nsimu - ungacela imibuzo, ube nesithakazelo. Zama ukulalela okuningi kunokukhuluma.
- Ubuntu . Ekuphishekeleni imfashini, ngenye indlela, silahlekelwa into eyinhloko - umuntu ngamunye. Abantu abangazange bavele esixukwini bancane kakhulu okubonakalayo. Zibuze, yikuphi ngempela ongakujabulela ukugqoka, uma kwakungokwemfashini? Yisiphi isitayela esikhangayo? Isikhathi sokuzama.
- Sense of amahlaya . Umuntu okwazi ukwenza ukumomotheka uzohlale eheha abantu, kodwa zama ukucasula amahlaya akho. Ekugcineni, akuwona wonke umuntu oqonda ukucasula.
- Imikhuba nenkulumo . Uzohlala uhaqwe abantu ohlangana nabo. Uma uzivumela udlame nokuhleka kwamahlaya - ungamangali ukuthi lo mdlalo uheha. Zisebenze ngokwakho: funda kabanzi, zama ukukhipha emlonyeni wakho amagama angamahloni. Ungahlezi futhi ungaxoxi.
- Ukuheha ngokomzimba . Buka impilo yakho nendlela yokuphila. Ukukhangisa ngokomzimba, okokuqala, ukubonakala okunempilo, ukucoceka nokuzilungisa.
Zama ukuthola ukulala okwanele futhi, uma ungazivocavoca, yenza umzimba ufunde ekuseni. Akuthatha isikhathi esiningi, kodwa isimo sempilo nesimo sengqondo sithuthukisa kakhulu. - Ubukhona bezintshisekelo . Nika njalo isikhathi sokwenza izinto ozithandayo. Lokhu akugcini nje ukuletha ukwaneliseka ngokomzwelo, kodwa futhi kukuvumela ukuba uthuthuke. Abantu abanokuzilibazisa nezokuzilibazisa bayathandekayo futhi banokuningi. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, bafuna ukuxhumana nabo.
- Uthando kuwe . Indoda ezithanda yona iyakwazi ukunikeza abanye uthando. Uyaqiniseka, akahlupheki ukuzihlonipha okubuhlungu, uyakwazi ukusabela ngokufanelekile ngamahlaya ngisho nokuhleka. Umuntu onothando akayena umlutha futhi akabheki nesizungu.